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The Perfect Submissive, does she exist? - 1/11/2009 7:57:07 AM   
KaineD


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Status: offline 		I was bored, thinking of ways I could attract the attention of submissive girls, and decided to make an online quiz.

http://www.helloquizzy.com/tests/are-you-the-perfect-submissive-girl

Obviously its not as expansive as a test of its sort can be, I could have asked all sorts of questions.  But what in your view makes the perfect submissive?  Is perfection something a sub should aspire to?  Is being a submissive partly about finding out what your partner likes, and adjusting to his tastes?  Or would you rather find a partner that shares your tastes?  Perhaps I'm putting my goals too high in looking for a girlfriend that puts my pleasure first, who can hold a conversation, who's attractive and fun to be with.

So do ya think my test is accurate?  Could I add to it?
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RE: The Perfect Submissive, does she exist? - 1/11/2009 8:06:49 AM   
AquaticSub


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I'm a 15 on your test... but I think the test is pretty flawed. It could be a reasonable test for what would be *your* perfect submissive but my owner doesn't like being woken up with random blowjobs and doesn't want sex as much as I do. I also don't really like to watch/read overt BDSM media, I prefer things with subtle tones.

As for the issue of perfection, I believe it's impossible to attain while human. If one manages to transcend the human condition, then they may or may not become perfect. Seriously striving for perfection will mean constant failure as even if something is right, it's usually not perfect. For me, being the submissive means finding out what he likes and what he likes from me as it's going to be different than what he likes from another girl.

< Message edited by AquaticSub -- 1/11/2009 8:07:06 AM >

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RE: The Perfect Submissive, does she exist? - 1/11/2009 8:10:47 AM   
Lynnxz


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Status: offline 		Not my perfect girl, but hey!  You're a nice girl!  Perhaps you've got a couple of kinky fantasies lurking away, but the reality is you're probably more comfortable with a traditional relationship where you enjoy a quiet night in with your boyfriend or a date to the cinema.  And there's nothing wrong with that, we all enjoy stuff like that. You scored 14 Perfect

Hahaha, o well.


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RE: The Perfect Submissive, does she exist? - 1/11/2009 8:14:00 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		I got a 10 *snort*



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RE: The Perfect Submissive, does she exist? - 1/11/2009 8:14:05 AM   
MstrPBK


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Status: offline 		Personal biased stupid opinion here ...

There is no such thing as perfect sub (or master for that fact).

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RE: The Perfect Submissive, does she exist? - 1/11/2009 8:16:10 AM   
KaineD


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Status: offline 		Hahaha!  The results system seems slightly flawed, I'll have to correct that.

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RE: The Perfect Submissive, does she exist? - 1/11/2009 8:17:19 AM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I got a 10 *snort*




You got a ten? The test can't be good then!

I think my score was slanted by the options in the slapping questions. He didn't make it clear if it was an anger, not good slap or a "My bitch" yummy slap.

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RE: The Perfect Submissive, does she exist? - 1/11/2009 8:19:44 AM   
Lynnxz


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Status: offline 		Haha! I christmas tree'd it, picking all the sterotypical "oooo master" answers and got....

" Sorry, the test finds you dull.  Well, that's just the tests opinion, so don't take it to heart!  According to your test results, you may perhaps be a little close-minded, perhaps judgemental of people that do want to do kinkier things, and personality wise you're content with doing very little.  Well, there ya go! You scored 25 Perfect"

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RE: The Perfect Submissive, does she exist? - 1/11/2009 8:23:04 AM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		LOL, that's hilarious. I think someone should make the "perfect master" test now. Would the right answers be the indulgent ones or the beat-your-ass-red ones?

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RE: The Perfect Submissive, does she exist? - 1/11/2009 8:25:10 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		*smoooches AS*

The one I had an issue with was the one about dressing up.  I rarely dress up, usually only for special occasions (weddings, funerals and such)

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RE: The Perfect Submissive, does she exist? - 1/11/2009 8:25:11 AM   
subtlebutterfly


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Status: offline 		I'm a 6! lol can't deny that I did expect it 

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RE: The Perfect Submissive, does she exist? - 1/11/2009 8:26:14 AM   
Lynnxz


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Status: offline 		ok now I got a -8.

Seriously.


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RE: The Perfect Submissive, does she exist? - 1/11/2009 8:31:31 AM   
colouredin


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Status: offline 		Not quite perfect, but you're definately a kinky little minx.  Your score shows that in the bedroom department you like to spice things up, and personality wise you can carry a conversation.  Open minded, willingness to try new things, you may yet reach perfection!
You scored 20 Perfect

Ok so I scored ok but its a pretty pants test, like for example the reading one if you love reading you have to enjoy sci-fi?? how odd also not quite sure how liking the wire would have bog all to do with being a good submissive.

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RE: The Perfect Submissive, does she exist? - 1/11/2009 8:33:31 AM   
KaineD


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

Haha! I christmas tree'd it, picking all the sterotypical "oooo master" answers and got....

" Sorry, the test finds you dull.  Well, that's just the tests opinion, so don't take it to heart!  According to your test results, you may perhaps be a little close-minded, perhaps judgemental of people that do want to do kinkier things, and personality wise you're content with doing very little.  Well, there ya go! You scored 25 Perfect"


Seriously?  Hmmm.  Back to the drawing board.

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RE: The Perfect Submissive, does she exist? - 1/11/2009 8:41:05 AM   
KaineD


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quote:

ORIGINAL: colouredin

Not quite perfect, but you're definately a kinky little minx.  Your score shows that in the bedroom department you like to spice things up, and personality wise you can carry a conversation.  Open minded, willingness to try new things, you may yet reach perfection!
You scored 20 Perfect

Ok so I scored ok but its a pretty pants test, like for example the reading one if you love reading you have to enjoy sci-fi?? how odd also not quite sure how liking the wire would have bog all to do with being a good submissive.


I state at the beginning that the test is about the perfect girl for ME, and I state it again in the personality section.  I'll go back and edit, try to make that a little clearer.

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RE: The Perfect Submissive, does she exist? - 1/11/2009 8:45:26 AM   
KaineD


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Status: offline 		The test results are now fixed.  When you get 25, you certainly won't get the "dull girl" result.

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RE: The Perfect Submissive, does she exist? - 1/11/2009 8:48:26 AM   
rubberpet


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Status: offline 		I'm not the perfect sub, but I'm so damn close it's freakin' scary! 

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RE: The Perfect Submissive, does she exist? - 1/11/2009 8:51:12 AM   
colouredin


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Status: offline 		Ahh but on this page you didnt you have simply said THE perfect submissive.

ed to add sorry that was to OP not Rubberpet

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RE: The Perfect Submissive, does she exist? - 1/11/2009 9:02:56 AM   
FetishRose


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Status: offline 		I got an 18, which rather amused me.
Huh, must be "more perfect" than I thought!


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RE: The Perfect Submissive, does she exist? - 1/11/2009 9:11:06 AM   
CalifChick


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KaineD

I was bored, thinking of ways I could attract the attention of submissive girls



LMAO!  I had a typical Cali-type answer all typed out, when I realized it was not the Kaine I thought it was!  Good thing I paused before I sent that cmail with my phone number!  LOL!

Oh, and I got a 23.  Slapping is an issue.  And your age, but you didn't ask that question.


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