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The Ideal Measurement of Manhood ? - 1/11/2009 7:58:49 AM   
Dastan


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Status: offline 		I was recently looking at a small graph from penis size debate website, which classified penis sizes, in lenght and girth, from ideal to very satisfying, satisfying, enjoyable and finally, unpleasant.

The graphic's statistic shows an "ideal" size of 7 and 1/4 inches to 8 and 1/4 inches (7,25 to 8,25) inches in lenght, and it goes as far as 9-10 inch sizes being below ideal, a B-grade while the 8,25 to 7,25 range was the A grade, the best according to ladies.

Discussing this in some forums, such as ask women, what women want, female first and such, it seems that there is a divergence of opinions. Some women consider anything over 9 is too much, others consider 8 is already the limit where even a "size queen" has to be a mutant freak to house anything in over that and say it's more pleasurable. So the basic divergence is between the 7-8inch lenght fraction, supporting the penis size debate website's chart and the forums one which asks for 8-9 or even 9+ inches coming close to 10 in lenght.

So, if any lady can answer...what is an ideal penis size ?

As an addedum: I don't think any "It's not the size what matters, it's what you do with it" answer will help or any "love is what you need, oral and skills are the other thing, size is secondary at best" because both are very patronizing and condescending answers. I need number-based facts and opinions, because I am curious and I consider this a serious question. Just like the Olympics, there's Gold, Silver, Bronze and anything else isn't even important...and what matter is Gold, Silver and Bronze are mere consolation prizes. It's the Gold medal what sets the standard of excellence, of an ideal. Now, please Ladies, tell me where the bar is set at to know how high the standard of excellence is, tell me and the guys where the peak of the Everest is set at to know how high one must climb to be on top of the rest of the world

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RE: The Ideal Measurement of Manhood ? - 1/11/2009 8:01:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'd think 7ish would work fine for me, I hate cervix punching, something C has to be careful about.   

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RE: The Ideal Measurement of Manhood ? - 1/11/2009 8:58:24 AM   
CalifChick


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Status: offline 		Well, I'm going to be unhelpful.  For me, there is no one single magic number.  It's like saying "whats the best way to kiss", "what's the best food in the world"... there is no one correct answer, even for one person.

Reviewing your numbers, they seem a bit high. And you have no correlation between length and girth.  An 8-inch pencil is not the same on the satisfaction scale as an 8-inch sausage, for example.


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RE: The Ideal Measurement of Manhood ? - 1/11/2009 8:58:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		A - 5.5 - 6.5"
B - 4.5 - 5.5" and 6.5 - 7.5"
C - 4-4.5" and 7.5-9"
E - below 4" or above 9"

This is my personal scale based on my own anatomy. My ideal being 6" so a half in either way fits in there well. It makes me feel full without hurting when really pounding, which i like. My "B" rating means i know i will get off but there may be some loss of sensation or limits on what i can tolerate. Heading into the C rating, there are more restrictions on the larger sizes and the smaller will feel nice, but kind of a toss up on whether i will gasm.  I go straight to failure form that point, because not matter how much i like you, it's not worth my time and energy. I know I personally will not be enjoying it.

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RE: The Ideal Measurement of Manhood ? - 1/11/2009 9:39:09 AM   
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So, if any lady can answer...what is an ideal penis size ?


A guy with a great personality who doesn't take himself too seriously and can make me laugh.  He has the perfect penis size for me.


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RE: The Ideal Measurement of Manhood ? - 1/11/2009 9:55:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hmm I have had great sex with men who have small willies and big ones and thin ones and fat ones and I could go on, it really is true that its not the size of the nail but how you hammer it in that matters

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RE: The Ideal Measurement of Manhood ? - 1/11/2009 9:58:05 AM   
Mercnbeth


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Status: offline 		a woman asked her lover why his organ was so small.
 
he replied, "I didn't know I was playing in a cathedral."
 
it seems to this slave that the only logical universal answer is:
..."it is up to the individual"...
 
just like all the other "what is THE ideal/perfect _______" inquiries here at CM.
 

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RE: The Ideal Measurement of Manhood ? - 1/11/2009 10:03:12 AM   
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RE: The Ideal Measurement of Manhood ? - 1/11/2009 10:08:12 AM   
aravain


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I like 6-7 inches length, best, looking through experience. Anything less and it's just boring (unless the girth is stunning) and anything more and the psychological reaction 'you wanna put WHAT WHERE!?' kicks in (though it's not that it's painful once loosened... I'd rather just get straight to it and skip the loosening, and the pleasure isn't *that much* more).

Girth is a complete toss-up. It really depends on the length. Stubby chubbies are, in my experience, just as good and pleasurable as average length and girth. BIG AND THICK is *ok* but it takes extra long (and I can't perform oral sex for quite as long which makes me sad) and that's time that, with a smaller penis, I could already be doing things, y'know? I really can't get into penii that aren't at least average, girth, though, unless there's an emotional attachement. Then it just doesn't matter to me.

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RE: The Ideal Measurement of Manhood ? - 1/11/2009 10:12:09 AM   
kittinSol


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Status: offline 		It's not the size of the wave; it's the motion of the ocean. Cock size is so irrelevant, really...

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RE: The Ideal Measurement of Manhood ? - 1/11/2009 10:21:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		IMHO, the measure of a man does not come in the anatomical features  he is or isn't blessed with any more than a woman should be measured by her breast size----idiots come in all sizes.

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RE: The Ideal Measurement of Manhood ? - 1/11/2009 10:51:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		So sorry if the notion that it "depends on the motion in the ocean" or "other skill" sounds patronizing, its not meant to be, at least from my point of view, its experience and personal preference and for me, the truth.
We are all different sizes inside and out, there is no "ideal perfection" for everyone, so its kinda pointless to expect a scientific poll.
Any size can be useless if the guy is clueless, or is just out to get his pleasure only.
As long as it works, is clean, can last more than three minutes, and isnt selfish. It has a chance of making a partner happy.
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RE: The Ideal Measurement of Manhood ? - 1/11/2009 11:05:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

Just my 2 cents



At least it's not just your 2 inches  .

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RE: The Ideal Measurement of Manhood ? - 1/11/2009 11:13:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		Okay, the best way to measure a guy to see if he "measures up":

First of all, you can't go by simple ruler length. There are too many variations in girth, and you can also end up in arguments about if English standard measurements are the way to go, or if you should rely on the more ego stroking Metric... No, instead, we have to do it the same way engineers and naval submersibles are classed: by displacement.

1). Fill a standard mason jar to the very top with warm water.
2). Place your guy above the jar, pointing downward. (You'll need to purchase a special harness and pulley arrangement for this, but you should be able to find them on the web. You can find anything on the web.
3) capture the displaced water from the erect penis in a pan below the jar, and measure this water in a graduated cylinder, giving you the cock's displacement in cubic centimeters.
4) Find the appropriate web site, where you can either brag or cry in your beer about the results.

Or...

Just enjoy sex with what you have, and stop obsessing over artifical and arbitrary rankings of your "equipment."

Sheesh.

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RE: The Ideal Measurement of Manhood ? - 1/11/2009 11:23:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		Add me to the list of "unhelpfuls".  I agree that size has very litle/nothing to do with it.
 
 
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ORIGINAL:  Mercnbeth   a woman asked her lover why his organ was so small. 
 he replied, "I didn't know I was playing in a cathedral." 




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RE: The Ideal Measurement of Manhood ? - 1/11/2009 11:41:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		Until they design a pussy of universal width and depth I would think that this discussion is really moot. Beyond that... God bless Cesarean sections.

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RE: The Ideal Measurement of Manhood ? - 1/11/2009 11:53:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		Not to mention, there ARE alternatives if your own equipment doesn't measure up to your, or your partner(s) standards... there are extenders, there are strap-ons, and above all, there are fists... (ever notice that people into fisting don't really say much about cock size? At most, you'll be at dinner and bring up to them what a great lover you are because you have a horsecock, and they'll just smile at you and say, "That's soooo cute!"

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RE: The Ideal Measurement of Manhood ? - 1/11/2009 12:02:48 PM   
Dastan


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Status: offline 		Dear Ladies...

Thank you so much for your answers.....allow me now to explaina  problem we have here.

I am a single user, this is my private account, nobody reads it, nobody sees the posts. I don't quote, nor refer to anyone, but I happen to be the english-fluent part of a small club of men here who are interested in BDSM. We train together in sports and study together, and share the same similar trait for BDSM. And believe it or not, we don't see porn, we don't have masturbatory fantasies with picture galleries or stories...

My country is a wasteland of BDSM where it can be compared to practicing witchcraft out in the open for anyoen to see during the Dark Ages, here, I have scars from confessing to my now ex-girlfriend froma  2 years+ long relationship what my fantasies were. And I'm not the first and won't be the last guy chased into the street and exposed to shame as a thief surprised when fleeing the scene of his robbery and bearing marks for it.

As for sizes here, I will simply say based on the statistics here that the girth that Miss CalifChick and Mister Aravain commented on, the diameter here is fluctuating between 1,69 and 1,94 inches for the vast majority of us, with a circumference or girth of 5.38 to 5.71 inches, this is after translating the measurements.  I find myself  closer to the high end as most do in my region. Lenghts oscillate betwene 6.27 and 6.68 inches.

Now, thanks to some stupid mistake by a person who had a below average endowment and injured himself with a strange device purchased overseas, a clinical case I was able to see and read the file about, I sort of came to some conclusions and thanks to our studies on tissue formation inducents (my country is plagued by landmines, we have a war with bomb-loving guerrillas) we just found a way which a more advanced student used in need of it, and he had a small but appreciable gain, approximately 1 inch in 7 months, permament gain and still fully functional, which motivates us to ask in order to see how can we sort of enhance ourselves to match the best or the ideal parameters to become better, just as we have used new techniques and devices as well as stimulation to enhance our bodies to a better aesthetic and athletic performance.

So all in all, your wonderful replies about size have been greatly useful, but we wish to learn more and hear more so as to have a small statistic, at least 100 opinions of measurements that allow us to have our own chart and know what the expectations are. So far, we conclude the 7-8 inch lenght is the desirable measurement, but we wonder...why is it that a number of websites and women forums mention as ideal penises of 8+ inches to 9,5 (9 and 1/2) inches in lenght ? That is soemwhat bigger and would mean the cervix stimulation is stronger and requires more caution.

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RE: The Ideal Measurement of Manhood ? - 1/11/2009 12:10:50 PM   
CalifChick


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ORIGINAL: Dastan
Lenghts oscillate betwene 6.27 and 6.68 inches.


For almost every woman that I've ever heard make a comment, that is the perfect size.

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So far, we conclude the 7-8 inch lenght is the desirable measurement, but we wonder...why is it that a number of websites and women forums mention as ideal penises of 8+ inches to 9,5 (9 and 1/2) inches in lenght ?


Because some people like fantasy more than reality.  Because some men like to boast about the size of their equipment. 

I think you guys are fine, and should skip any extracurricular activities that attempt to increase your size, and stick with the old-fashioned way of inserting it into a wet vagina, removing it, and then repeating multiple times, at an increasingly faster rate of speed, until her eyes roll back in her head and she screams your name (or someone's name).


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RE: The Ideal Measurement of Manhood ? - 1/11/2009 12:11:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Dastan

"...tell me and the guys where the peak of the Everest is set at to know how high one must climb to be on top of the rest of the world"


The idea size of cock is one that I don't choke while deep throating and doesn't split me in half during anal intercourse.


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