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MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: Here's a question (1/8/2006 8:19:57 PM)
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Or maybe ther is a Mistress out there, who is also committed to someone else. Maybe she doesn't have the time for RT, or due to family life at home, can't have that type of relationship, and would like to have something else. No commitments, to get in her personal life.
That is indeed might be possible, however probable or improbable.
But you might want to recognize that your own limitations in what you have to offer directly affect being able to find a Domme.
When you claim there aren't any local dommes in an area where there are indeed quite a few, or claim that all the local dommes are pros as you did in another thread when indeed they are not all pros, it gives the impression that you are dealing out sour grapes for just not being able to find exactly what you want, and that you do not accept that your own limitations directly affect your ability to attract a Domme.
It's a matter of taking responsibility for what's going on in one's own life vs. blaming others for what one can't seem to find.
Sometimes if those limitations are too confining, one has to sit down and seriously re-evaluate what they are offering vs. what they are looking for, and see if there is somewhere to compromise. That compromise might be to see a male dominant who is willing to provide no strings play as you previously brought up, or see where you offer more than you currently are offering to a potential partner, or give up looking altogether, or just keep trying the same way you have been in the hopes that maybe possibly someone is out there that is suitable for you and you suitable for them.
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