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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

OK, OP, here's the deal.  First of all, do Me a favor and refrain from using abbreviations that not everyone is going to get.  When you said VA, I literally thought you had some kind of medical fetish that had to do with the Veteran's Administration. 

Second, from a Dominant's perspective, you just have to understand why extreme verbal abuse/degredation isn't an activity that's taken lightly.  Do you have any idea of the potential pitfalls that can be encountered when doing this?

I can beat someone physically all day long.  I can check his/her body for scars from prior injuries or see wounds and avoid those areas.  The same isn't true on the mental/emotional plane.  Unless I put the work into the talking, investigating, researching, and discussing, how in the hell do I know that something I might use might trigger a horrible childhood memory of when someone was gang raped when they were less than a consenting adult?  I don't.  That makes it dangerous for Me and potentially harmful to the person I'm playing with.

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mikierotten wrote:
I genuinly love being made to feel inferior to others and verbally debased in a very extreme manner, but find that most Dommes find this Fetish too extreme for them. Are there any Dommes who enjoy this fetish? Or am i alone, lost at sea here in San Francisco?[8|]