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Are cuckold slaves desirable? - 1/12/2009 7:19:44 PM   
bisubboy1


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Status: offline 		I would love to know if any Domme's can offer up there perspective on this. I have been a submissive male for the past 17 years. Over the past several years I have been more comfortable in the role of a cuckold slave. I don't think that my cock belongs anywhere near a woman because of its small size and because I am to submissive to properly fuck anyone. I would think that my Domme would seek her satisfaction elsewhere, but all of the Domme's I have ever been with want to be able to fuck their sub.

Are there any Domme's out there interested in a slave that wishes to be cuckolded? Are Domme's repulsed by slaves with small dicks?
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RE: Are cuckold slaves desirable? - 1/12/2009 7:28:19 PM   
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I would think that my Domme would seek her satisfaction elsewhere, but all of the Domme's I have ever been with want to be able to fuck their sub.



Yeah.  What the hell is the matter with these women, wanting full-service relationships?  Next thing you know, they'll start treating their subs like they're people.  Where will it ever end?  

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RE: Are cuckold slaves desirable? - 1/12/2009 7:39:42 PM   
bisubboy1


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Status: offline 		Cute, but seriously. Do you want to fuck the wimp with the small dick or a real man?

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RE: Are cuckold slaves desirable? - 1/12/2009 7:44:57 PM   
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Cute, but seriously. Do you want to fuck the wimp with the small dick or a real man?


Sounds like you're begging for a bit of humiliation here, but okay, I'll play.  Why do you assume someone with a small penis isn't a real man?  Exactly at what length and width of penis does a man become "real"?  And what, exactly is "small"?  If a man's penis is big enough to fit inside of me, chances are, I'll wind up happy.  And if he has enough there for me to wrap some rope around it and tie it up to a few interesting things like, say, ankle restraints or my ass hook, I'll wind up even happier.

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RE: Are cuckold slaves desirable? - 1/12/2009 7:48:15 PM   
bisubboy1


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Status: offline 		Fair enough, you make a very good point. I guess I don't feel worthy of the fucking part. I don't think the size really has to do with it so much as it doesn't seem right to me as a sub. If I am groveling at her feet one moment then fucking her the next it seems like its just foreplay not true submission. But perhaps I have my head up my ass? Wouldn;t be the first time

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RE: Are cuckold slaves desirable? - 1/12/2009 7:50:05 PM   
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Well, their wives sometimes are.

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RE: Are cuckold slaves desirable? - 1/12/2009 7:52:18 PM   
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RE: Are cuckold slaves desirable? - 1/12/2009 7:57:44 PM   
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but all of the Domme's I have ever been with want to be able to fuck their sub.

As he Domme, I expect to be able to do whatever I please with a sub that is serving me. If I choose not to, thats one thing, but not to be able to is a problem for me most of the time. Unless that was agreed upon up front, as it has been in the past, part of service is scratching that itch if I have it.
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Are there any Domme's out there interested in a slave that wishes to be cuckolded? Are Domme's repulsed by slaves with small dicks?
I am repulsed by any slave that is no more than the size of their penis. When I had a cuck slave he was very well endowed, just not talented. Well, I cant say if he was good at sex or not, but the one time I allowed him to try something else he was terrible and so I decided that cuckolding was the way to go with that. The concept is neither desireable or not, it depends completely on the submissive in question and our chemistry together. I would never seek out a cuckold slave specifically, but if that was how a relationship developed, I could possibly manage it.

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RE: Are cuckold slaves desirable? - 1/12/2009 8:38:14 PM   
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Fair enough, you make a very good point. I guess I don't feel worthy of the fucking part. I don't think the size really has to do with it so much as it doesn't seem right to me as a sub. If I am groveling at her feet one moment then fucking her the next it seems like its just foreplay not true submission. But perhaps I have my head up my ass? Wouldn;t be the first time


Not feeling worthy is a different story altogether than "small" equating to "not real."  If you can't get over your feelings of unworthiness, you'll just have to fish from the pool of dominant women who don't want sex.  I find topping someone to be incredibly arousing and at the end of it, I'll want my release.  It doesn't always work out that way, but ideally that's the way it would be.  I can't see having sex with someone who wasn't the object of my arousal.  I operate from the theory that a sub is in my life to improve it; if the improvement is that I want to have sex with him, the poor dear will just have to face up to the extremely unpleasant task of making love to me.  As far as your head being up your bum, perhaps you could try inserting something else up there?  If there's room, then your head's probably not up there, too.

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RE: Are cuckold slaves desirable? - 1/13/2009 3:28:26 AM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		may i ask ?    if a sub is very well as you said endowned but dosent know how to ue or work his speical tool . if you now cuckhold him if this now a form of humiliation ? for such a male . if so do you place this wellendowned male in panties or a skirt of just make them serv you oraly

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RE: Are cuckold slaves desirable? - 1/13/2009 4:47:32 AM   
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the wimp with the small dick or a real man?


If he has a dick he IS a real man. At least last I heard this was how they identified a member of the male gender.

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RE: Are cuckold slaves desirable? - 1/13/2009 4:58:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		Not all slaves who are cuckolded are totally denied sex.  Ms. Mlicious bangs me as well as other guys on occasion.

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RE: Are cuckold slaves desirable? - 1/13/2009 6:25:38 AM   
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Not all slaves who are cuckolded are totally denied sex.  Ms. Mlicious bangs me as well as other guys on occasion.


Wow, that makes her sound like quite a catch. What a lady! She must be damn proud of you! Lucky slave.

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RE: Are cuckold slaves desirable? - 1/13/2009 9:48:12 AM   
slavekal


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Status: offline 		She is fantastic.  It's not that I am inadequate, it's just that she likes the variety and the humiliation for me.  Most of her time is spent with me, but she still likes to see some other guys as well.

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RE: Are cuckold slaves desirable? - 1/13/2009 9:51:13 AM   
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may i ask ?    if a sub is very well as you said endowned but dosent know how to ue or work his speical tool . if you now cuckhold him if this now a form of humiliation ? for such a male . if so do you place this wellendowned male in panties or a skirt of just make them serv you oraly

I dont have him anymore, and how he was trained isnt the issue. The topic is cuckolding, and that he was. The rest o it was between he and I.


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RE: Are cuckold slaves desirable? - 1/13/2009 9:55:16 AM   
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Fair enough, you make a very good point. I guess I don't feel worthy of the fucking part. I don't think the size really has to do with it so much as it doesn't seem right to me as a sub. If I am groveling at her feet one moment then fucking her the next it seems like its just foreplay not true submission. But perhaps I have my head up my ass? Wouldn;t be the first time


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RE: Are cuckold slaves desirable? - 1/13/2009 10:06:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: bisubboy1

I would love to know if any Domme's can offer up there perspective on this. I have been a submissive male for the past 17 years. Over the past several years I have been more comfortable in the role of a cuckold slave. I don't think that my cock belongs anywhere near a woman because of its small size and because I am to submissive to properly fuck anyone. I would think that my Domme would seek her satisfaction elsewhere, but all of the Domme's I have ever been with want to be able to fuck their sub.

Are there any Domme's out there interested in a slave that wishes to be cuckolded? Are Domme's repulsed by slaves with small dicks?

as your penis is surplus to requirments- size doesnt matter-and actually placing a cuckolded toy in a hollow strap  on whilst  denying him any contact and stimulation but using him as the power source for pleasure can bring in elements of tease torture and denial that can  quite amusing...at least for one the Domme.

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RE: Are cuckold slaves desirable? - 1/13/2009 10:08:47 AM   
immoral


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Status: offline 		grins...........oh and dont forget dildos on a gag.....that way she can have some fun and doesnt have to hear you winge about your  tiny member... <weg>

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RE: Are cuckold slaves desirable? - 1/15/2009 1:25:23 AM   
leatherzfr


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Status: offline 		As it has been said, i consider that submission is about pleasing the Domme.

So, if She decides to use Her slave's cock for any use, it is Her right.

And i am not sure that cuckolding is only based on the ability of the sub to use his cock well ... but that is just my vision.

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