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born4serving -> Dangers of revealing your lifestyle in public... (1/14/2009 12:32:41 PM)

i am a near fatal incident at work. Being born a slave but having a job as a barrister has meant that i have to remain professional at work, however it was only today that i wrote out a letter and executed it as, "yours sincerely, born4serving"!! this was a professional letter and it was only until i printed it that i noticed what i had put, my slave name.  Its a good thing i quickly changed it. 

this came as a shock to me but yet i think it is a sign telling me how much of a slave i really am.



colouredin -> RE: Dangers of revealing your lifestyle in public... (1/14/2009 12:36:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: born4serving
i think it is a sign telling me how much of a slave i really am.


Or that you were seriously daydreaming.



GreeneGoddess -> RE: Dangers of revealing your lifestyle in public... (1/14/2009 12:39:04 PM)

You're spending too much time on the internet if you're signing your screen name to work documents.



DavanKael -> RE: Dangers of revealing your lifestyle in public... (1/14/2009 12:40:51 PM)

I am not sure what makes the incident nearly fatal, though certainly potentially embarrassing for you were folks at work to google it and access your CM posts. 
Certainly one could get all Freudian here and speak about your subconscious desires, etc. 
Or, as coloured in said, perhaps you were seriously daydreaming. 
Hopefully, you caught the error before it was sent out and no harm is done. 
What do you propose to do about your realization of "how much a slave I really am"?
  Davan



born4serving -> RE: Dangers of revealing your lifestyle in public... (1/14/2009 12:42:12 PM)

maybe i am, i am even beginning to write 'You' with a capital 'Y' whenever i type the word 'You', even at work.



RCdc -> RE: Dangers of revealing your lifestyle in public... (1/14/2009 12:51:54 PM)

For me, it doesn't show just how 'slave' you are but that you are spending too much time in online BDSM environments.
 
the.dark.



steviemichael -> RE: Dangers of revealing your lifestyle in public... (1/14/2009 12:57:19 PM)

well we all have to come out the closet !
some of simply fall out and land on our knees !!



steviemichael -> RE: Dangers of revealing your lifestyle in public... (1/14/2009 1:04:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

For me, it doesn't show just how 'slave' you are but that you are spending too much time in online BDSM environments.
 
the.dark.

there you go *grins* another exsample for the media to tell the world that the internet makes people insane or  the internet  makes users of the  internet  suffer from  personality disorders *sic*



KatyLied -> RE: Dangers of revealing your lifestyle in public... (1/14/2009 1:06:41 PM)

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yet i think it is a sign telling me how much of a slave i really am.


Or how unprofessional you are.



Lynnxz -> RE: Dangers of revealing your lifestyle in public... (1/14/2009 1:08:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: steviemichael

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

For me, it doesn't show just how 'slave' you are but that you are spending too much time in online BDSM environments.
 
the.dark.

there you go *grins* another exsample for the media to tell the world that the internet makes people insane or  the internet  makes users of the  internet  suffer from  personality disorders *sic*



Since it's damn hard to distinguish between the pronunciations 'You' and 'you' in actual conversation, I'd say that the dark is pretty much dead on.

Besides... signing the wrong name on a piece of paper seems strangely non-fatal to me.



colouredin -> RE: Dangers of revealing your lifestyle in public... (1/14/2009 1:11:07 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: steviemichael

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

For me, it doesn't show just how 'slave' you are but that you are spending too much time in online BDSM environments.
 
the.dark.

there you go *grins* another exsample for the media to tell the world that the internet makes people insane or  the internet  makes users of the  internet  suffer from  personality disorders *sic*



Hmm see I cant imagine ever signing my screen name on anything really, I dont think it prooves anything other than writing it too much (hense being online too much) oh and i dont think the.darkness mentioned anythong about insanity.



RedMagic1 -> RE: Dangers of revealing your lifestyle in public... (1/14/2009 1:16:59 PM)

I solved this problem by having my name legally changed to "Red Magic One" after I made 1,000 posts.  It surprised my friends and colleagues at first, but now they recognize it as a sign of my true dominant nature.



colouredin -> RE: Dangers of revealing your lifestyle in public... (1/14/2009 1:19:05 PM)

hehehe that is like totally a good idea it would save so much confusion Mr Red



agirl -> RE: Dangers of revealing your lifestyle in public... (1/14/2009 1:48:20 PM)

If only it was THAT easy to see how much of a slave you are....lol

agirl



windchymes -> RE: Dangers of revealing your lifestyle in public... (1/14/2009 2:10:46 PM)

Is this what being a "twue slave" is all about? [8|]



LaTigresse -> RE: Dangers of revealing your lifestyle in public... (1/14/2009 2:14:10 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

For me, it doesn't show just how 'slave' you are but that you are spending too much time in online BDSM environments.
 
the.dark.


I second this. Step awayyyyyyyyyyyyyy from the computer!



Madame4a -> RE: Dangers of revealing your lifestyle in public... (1/14/2009 2:20:10 PM)

as others have said.. its more about spending way too much being your online persona... whatever that is... and its hardly revealing yourself publically



SassySarijane -> RE: Dangers of revealing your lifestyle in public... (1/14/2009 3:49:14 PM)

It definitely comes across as too much online time under that nic than how slavey you are to be blunt.



NuevaVida -> RE: Dangers of revealing your lifestyle in public... (1/14/2009 4:40:32 PM)

I once worked with a couple of executives - CEO and CFO.  The CFO signed all internal memos to the CEO with his name, followed by YLOS.  I once asked what that meant.  He said, "Your loyal and obedient servant."  While he was doing this with humorous sarcasm, I still loved it.

You know, when I first started doing the D/s chatroom thing and the Y/you thing, I would, on occasion, accidentally type the slashy speak when composing an office memo.  I always caught it and corrected it, but I believe it's just your brain not adjusting quickly enough for circumstances & environment.  While at work, focus on work, and the odds of this happening are reduced significantly.



CatdeMedici -> RE: Dangers of revealing your lifestyle in public... (1/14/2009 4:43:01 PM)

yeah right, nice attention getting trick.



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