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MojoRisin -> RE: What turns you on? (1/7/2006 10:51:32 PM)

Am I the only one on the message boards with a pantyhose/stocking fetish speaking of being turned on???




watchersgirl -> RE: What turns you on? (1/8/2006 2:44:17 AM)

Just to be clear, I'm a female describing what turns me on in another woman:

Intelligence

Competence, ability at getting things done well from cooking to changing a tire. A toolbelt and the ability to use its contents is a definite plus. :-)

Physical strength--I love biceps! And I love being overpowered.

Confidence

Dominance that's firm and consistant; that won't take my shit

Hands, fists.

A bad girl mean streak coupled with desire to use *me*

Someone who can be dominant and sadistic and loving and caring

U.K, Aussie, and NZ accents

A sense of humor compatible w/ mine

A hand on the back of my neck.




brigidsub -> RE: What turns you on? (1/8/2006 4:56:24 PM)

His voice...every inflection...

when it is soft, I melt
when it is commanding, I move/do/be whatever
when it is joyful, I sighhhh
when it is angry, I answer to/for it

I, too, love long deep looks into the eyes that speak silently but louder than any words. I, too, love deep discussions about so-called geeky subjects.

More than anything, the coastal rainforest of my home state in the warmer months turns me on without any sexual activity. With it.....mmmmm.




Petruchio -> RE: What turns you on? (1/8/2006 5:10:09 PM)

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Am I the only one on the message boards with a pantyhose/stocking fetish speaking of being turned on???


Uh, wearing or watching?

Personally, I like a girl in about any lingerie, especially when she's removing it.




smilezz -> RE: What turns you on? (1/8/2006 5:51:31 PM)

quote:

So what seemingly mundane things turn you on?


Thorns, coming down the hallway after work......turning that corner to enter the living room....dressed in BDU's and that look/tone about Him.

<swoonz> phew!

~smilezz~




EriaeMelody -> RE: What turns you on? (1/10/2006 3:30:33 PM)

quote:

So what seemingly mundane things turn you on?


Strength in character
A willingness to laugh at him/herself
Openenss, honesty
The ability to admit when he/she is wrong

Little things like that, but they make all the difference.




nonuts4thshoney -> RE: What turns you on? (1/10/2006 3:38:40 PM)

Somes times i playfully kiss Her while laying in bed, but sometimes She just wants to rest. So, Master will take my hand or jaw and pin me down next to Her and tell me She needs to get some rest. This absolutely drives me crazy and sooo turns me on. When She is a tad forceful with me becuase She means business does it for me.




KCMOLucky -> RE: What turns you on? (1/10/2006 3:48:59 PM)

Some of the things that turn me on are:

  • Defined arm, back, and shoulder muscles. They don't even have to be body builder muscles, they just have to look good.
  • Intellect and the ability to converse. I love a man who's not only smart, but can carry on a conversation.
  • Power/money. It's something not a lot of people admit to, but it's really intoxicating to me, too. It means that not only are you business minded, but you're successful, and, most of the time, charismatic. That's sexy.
  • I like someone who's stronger than me. I'm REALLY strong, but I love someone who can overpower me and take what they want.
  • A good kisser, both on the mouth, and on the body. Nothing better than a kiss on the neck right below the jawline or at the jugular vein.
  • Someone playing the saxaphone. Yep, probably really odd, but if the guy's even halfway decent looking, and can play the sax, I start thinking all kinds of dirty thoughts.[:D]





Sensualips -> RE: What turns you on? (1/10/2006 4:13:17 PM)

Okay, okay, I'll play. Mundane things, eh?


  • Sardonic wit. I especially like it if we are in a group and s/he makes a comment and only I "get it."
  • Writing skills. A well phrased sentence can make me wet.
  • A man who lets a dog lick his face may have me licking him next.
  • A clean soapy smell.
  • Touching my face.
  • Singing out loud with the radio / cd.
  • Willing to defy authority and eat a grape right in the produce aisle.







Duste -> RE: What turns you on? (1/10/2006 6:34:06 PM)

Random things?

A dry and direct wit.
A woman with a higher intelligence.
Smokers.
Screwing with The Doors playing in the background.




Notanaddict -> RE: What turns you on? (1/10/2006 6:47:29 PM)

Heaps of things turns me on in women, but here's few..

-For some reson - anyting TARTAN (i have no idea why god gave me a kilt fetish)
-A good laugh (a bad laugh can be such a turn off)
-Pinning someone up against the wall whilst pashing them
-Teasing someone and noticing they're reaction
-being taken
-Someone who knows what they are talkin about (thet could be anything, just as long they are knowledgable)
-Walking up from behind, one arm around her waist, one pulling her head back by her hair and kissing her neck..)
-Her being loud during sex
-foreplay in public and just craving to get home...

Hmmm..looking at my list I'm thinkin i should consider my sub-status in my profile... hmmm




cloudboy -> RE: What turns you on? (1/30/2006 8:26:24 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: QuietDragon

Watching somebody who excels at something, really excels, is oftentimes a mesmerising and uplifting experience. That these persons have "perfection in small things" - every nuance of their craft or art, sport or recreation - makes their actions into a performance, even if it was not intended as such.

It's not so much about being a turn-on, in the sexual sense anyhow, because the performance can engage other areas of your awareness and emotional response - appreciation, enjoyment, respect, fascination, delighted disbelief. It's all good.


I could not agree more. This is one reason I'm mourning the loss of my club's tennis pro. Watching him play was sublime.




veronicaofML -> RE: What turns you on? (1/30/2006 8:33:31 PM)

What turns you on? - 1/6/2006 6:33:45 PM ========
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physically.............nothing.

emotionally........knowing one of my personal convictions have proved right, one more time.

mentally..........knowing i have made an earnest point to someone and they actually understood my point of view...for once.





Dollbecky -> RE: What turns you on? (1/30/2006 10:24:36 PM)

okay I want to play too
*general non gendered turn ons*
Smarter than me....but it doesnt have to be academic; Masters thesis = the skill to craft a saddle or mandolin etc
Glasses
Well spoken ..no slang cursing bad grammer etc in public ;)
Wit (a liking of british humour is good too)
Geeky
nipple rings
combat boots
tatoos

*males*
Big bear like builds ...shoulders wider than my hips is a good rule of thumb :P
Fur /chest hair ... no waxing!
well groomed facial har
long hair

*females*
tartan; tartan combat pants melt me ...
defined upper arms..drool..
short hair
pretty hands




naughtynick -> RE: What turns you on? (1/31/2006 12:36:20 AM)

My turn on

Being tied up and gagged, not knowing how long the woman will keep me. It can be days even if I had to be some place else, I have no choice over it. There is no mercy or safe word in the situation.

I guess its a rape and kidnap fantasy.




Sub03 -> RE: What turns you on? (1/31/2006 1:34:21 AM)

that stern, Dominant, all knowing, Masterly look.....
commanding tone of voice
a stern, commanding and strict Dominant personality

and of course being grabbed by a handful of hair and having my head yanked back and looking up into that look........makes me want to kneel and do anything and everything.......i am putty by then......dang i think its a lil warm in here now. :)




Eir -> RE: What turns you on? (1/31/2006 2:32:39 AM)

Hehe :) Nice move ;)




Eir -> RE: What turns you on? (1/31/2006 2:34:51 AM)

Mmmm... like the accent of the man I hope to be my dom :)




Tantalus42 -> RE: What turns you on? (1/31/2006 6:34:42 AM)

Things that turn me on:

1. Intelligence and wit. Dumb does not appeal to me, nor does a lack of humor.
3. Conversationalist. Someone with whom I can talk about anything and whom can talk back about the same topic is ideal.
4. How aroused she gets when I'm looking at her, or whispering in her ear. There's nothing more appealing to me then seeing that pretty smile suddenly turn into a look of lust when I look at her... just... so...
5. As number 4 suggested, a pretty smile.

I'm not really hung up much on other physical traits, though I do tend to have a particular lust for long, dark hair and voluptuous builds.




RavenMuse -> RE: What turns you on? (1/31/2006 6:43:16 AM)

Mundain things.

The kind of smile that lights up her entire face.
Seeing her draw confidence to try new things just from the fact that I am there with her.
Her enthusiasm, for anything, be it a discussion, some event or activity that has captured her imagination.

Most of all the look in her eyes that says clearer than words could ever manage "I'm yours"




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