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RE: Delusions... ~shakin' My head~ - 1/16/2009 5:44:37 PM

bamagirl4u

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I actually lol when I read some of my emails~~and my radar does NOT always work...I have talked longer to a few than I should have, even to the point of arguing back and forth. That is not what I am here for...I don't really expect to find my One here, I think there are some great and wonderful people here, I love the forums! I learn a lot and get to be friends with some really cool people. If I do meet the right One though and He is from here...well....let's just wait and see!

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RE: Delusions... ~shakin' My head~ - 1/16/2009 5:58:33 PM

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Yeah, I laugh when someone from India or Egypt sends a long mail detailing their skill in massage or service of some kind ending with a request to serve Me. I often send a reply something like: "wow, your arms must be really long to reach me all the way from <insert location here>"

I know a lot of people engage in online service, but some people really seem to BELIEVE the stuff they type...

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RE: Delusions... ~shakin' My head~ - 1/16/2009 6:04:52 PM

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Oh man. I've been here 48 hours...don't even get me started. I get men who want me to answer questions but won't offer me the same courtesy. He'll ask "What do you do for a living?" I'll say "I'm a student. what about you?" Then he'll say "What's you're major?" I'll say "broadcasting. So what do you do for a living?" And this will go on for a while. They'll ask me 6 million questions but I won't get 1 answer. Then when I call them on it, they say "You need to learn to do what you're told. Answer my questions." Excuse me? I don't have the right to know who he is but he's supposed to know me inside and out?

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RE: Delusions... ~shakin' My head~ - 1/16/2009 6:09:03 PM

Calandra

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Unfortunately you have to be aware of whether they are sharing "quid pro quo" as Hannibal Lechter would say. I encourage people to ask questions about Me... but I also expect an EXCHANGE of info... seems fair to Me

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RE: Delusions... ~shakin' My head~ - 1/16/2009 7:40:02 PM

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I must be the odd one. I personally do not understand why this stuff even matters to people. Perhaps it is frustration? Who knows, just not for me to worry about.

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RE: Delusions... ~shakin' My head~ - 1/16/2009 7:47:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: oceanwynds

I must be the odd one. I personally do not understand why this stuff even matters to people. Perhaps it is frustration? Who knows, just not for me to worry about.

No oceanwynds, you're not the only one. I just find it ironic that we got this thread making fun of others for being different on a BDSM website.

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RE: Delusions... ~shakin' My head~ - 1/16/2009 8:55:02 PM

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For instance, I can't say that the person who asked for beth to castrate him with a rusty razor is delusional because I responded; "Sure!" He may be on his way.

*Packs video camera just in case he shows....*

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RE: Delusions... ~shakin' My head~ - 1/17/2009 3:54:56 AM

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ORIGINAL: Calandra
I exchanged perhaps 20 mails with him this morning...

Perhaps this should have been a tip off. How many of your friendships start by bombarding people and demanding their constant attention?

As far as what slavery means to him, and what he needs to be happy, that's his call. It doesn't make him delusional to have different needs than you do. It does make him rude for telling you that your relationships aren't real however.

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