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RE: Small things - 1/16/2009 6:34:40 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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LOL DesFIP, I feel the same way about Skin stimulation, only it's not something he's really good at, or that only he can do,  it's just easy to stimulate me in the ways I want, and I would take a good session of skin stimulation Via touching and stroking, more than I want sex, or even spankings. since a really good skin stimulation session is more fufilling to me than sex or spankings.

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He doesn't let me shovel snow. He will carry down and back up the laundry basket because I'm nervous about not being able to see over it. And since I have one damaged foot, he will rub it if I'm limping.

And he gives the world's best back scratches. I could if necessary give up having sex with him, but I can't give up his back scratches.



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RE: Small things - 1/16/2009 6:41:12 PM   
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Waking up to the smell of coffee in the morning when he knows i've had an exhausting night.  Usually it's my job.  A small thing that means much. 

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RE: Small things - 1/17/2009 2:54:26 AM   
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Mine actually does anything I ask him to do

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RE: Small things - 1/17/2009 4:53:11 AM   
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Good morning!
Oh there are so many! I guess that's why I wanted a Daddy instead of a  plain old Master. I need that cute, emotional tie that akes me feel so very good-for me. I guess the biggest little thing was he kept patting to the couch when he would sit there, Well, being the "proper" slave that  I was , I would shake my head and say no and kneel between his legs( I love laying my head on his thigh) He kept getting frustrated until one day he just said "From now on you WILL sit beside me!" I was appalled, shocked, he wanted me to be equal?? No turns out that next time I sat there, he simply wanted to cuddle, lay my legs over his, and/or have me wrap my arms around him.  Then it hit me what he wanted to teach me without saying it-I had to trust and go along with him.
  He also always gives me coca-colas when i leave, calms me when i start to have my panic attacks, and always asks about my kids or slips me money to take them for ice creams or candy. I absolutely love my Daddy. Good luck!
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RE: Small things - 1/17/2009 8:34:12 AM   
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Some mornings he actually used lube before anal sex.  ~sigh~

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RE: Small things - 1/17/2009 9:43:06 AM   
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My Master is so good to me.  Yesterday for some reason i was very very tired. Master could tell i was tired just by looking at me.  He was tired too usually am am the more wide awake one.  Well anyway here in NY we had snow yesterday and after  Master got home i had to go out.  I was not really looking forward to having to brush off my car.  I mentioned it to Master and he said you stay in here where it is warm sweetheart i will brush off your car.   He also warmed up my car so i would not have to get in a cold car.  It not a huge thing but it was so good of him to do that. I am such a lucky woman he takes such good care of me

So what small things did you Dom/Master do for you that made you feel good all over? 

Matt's littleone

What a great question littleone35,
am enjoying the answers.

Warm Greetingz

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RE: Small things - 1/17/2009 2:18:41 PM   
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well , little things i am not sure, but what She does for me is She listens to me and allows me to communicate, if i would sometimes, and makes me feel important and cares for me like no other has. i guess little thing, is a big thing to me, She lets me be me and i love Her for that.
 
loves Goddezz
 
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RE: Small things - 1/17/2009 3:27:31 PM   
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Sir is pretty giving especially when i do not ask. Just those out of the blue surprises, back massage, coffee brewing, grabbing my bill when I am about to buy myself something, and paying for it. He says he enjoys showing me how much he appreciates me from time to time. The other day I got a letter in my mail box from he. He sat down and wrote a letter and mailed it. What a pleasant surprise.:)

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RE: Small things - 1/17/2009 3:36:25 PM   
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So what small things did you Dom/Master do for you that made you feel good all over? 



I let them go outside in the cold weather to brush of my truck and start it so it's warm for me when I go out.  Regardless if they are tired or not.... It's just one of the simple ways that they are warmly reminded that they serve a cold heartless asshole...  it rather touching how such love keeps them warm.

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RE: Small things - 1/17/2009 3:41:21 PM   
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So what small things did you Dom/Master do for you that made you feel good all over? 



I let them go outside in the cold weather to brush of my truck and start it so it's warm for me when I go out.  Regardless if they are tired or not.... It's just one of the simple ways that they are warmly reminded that they serve a cold heartless asshole...  it rather touching how such love keeps them warm.


Knight of Mists that was one of those things that I use to enjoy doing for my late hubby. It really was my pleasure. Living in Florida I forgot about that pleasure, thanks for the reminder;)

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RE: Small things - 1/17/2009 3:41:30 PM   
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So what small things did you Dom/Master do for you that made you feel good all over? 



I let them go outside in the cold weather to brush of my truck and start it so it's warm for me when I go out.  Regardless if they are tired or not.... It's just one of the simple ways that they are warmly reminded that they serve a cold heartless asshole...  it rather touching how such love keeps them warm.


I'm afraid to ask how they defrosted the windows....

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RE: Small things - 1/17/2009 8:05:21 PM   
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Reading this post makes me sad...but it only makes me more determined to take my time and find the One that is like some of the ones I have read about here...a very good topic...thanks..

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RE: Small things - 1/19/2009 4:33:48 AM   
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Theres lots but the one I loved because it was a one off was when  me and the dog were moving in with him and he bought the dog a new id tag with his addy and phone number on . He knows how much I love the dog.

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RE: Small things - 1/19/2009 3:31:29 PM   
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i clean Master's house and home office once a week. Sometimes He can take the morning off to spend time with me and sometimes there is too much He has to do. One of those times work didn't allow Him to do more than have lunch with me. i finished work and was waiting for the last load of laundry to dry and He came over and told me i could use the hot tub. He took off the cover, started it up and helped me in... then returned with a glass of wine for me before going back into His office. The wine i thought was really sweet. It was such a very thoughtful gesture.

Also, His kids asked Him what He wanted for Christmas. He told them He wanted a vacuum cleaner, of all things! He never uses it, only i do... so He must have been thinking of me.

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RE: Small things - 1/19/2009 10:19:07 PM   
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My Sweetness does lots of little things for me.  When He knows that I hate when the bed isn't made.  It drives me nuts.  So, when He knows that I am going to be going to His house for the night, He will make sure that the bed is made, and there are no wrinkles in the sheets.  I am sure to tell Him thank you when He calls me on His brakes (He is usually at work by the time I get to His place), so He knows just how much I do appriciate those little things.  He also baught me some popcorn and a Life water the other night before leaving work, so that I had a snack and something good to drink since He knows I always have a snack before bed.  He also has my pictures as the back grounds on his phone and xbox. I know that it is for Him, but it means a lot to me that He wants to look at me all the time. When I vent to Him about things that I hate in my life, He is always there to tell me that He loves me, and that things will be better soon, because we will be living together very soon.  And when I appologize for venting to Him, He says "It's ok Kitten.  That's why I'm here!"   This past weekend, when I was there, I kind of dozed off after we had out little play session, and was watching TV.  I was laying the wrong way on the bed, with my head at the foot of the bed.  He didn't try to move me, He just covered me up, and went to go to sleep himself.  I felt Him moving, and it woke me.  I went to lay with Him, and He told me "I thought you were sleeping.  I didn't want to wake you".  He also makes sure that He gives me the remote to the TV before He gets comfortable and gets ready to go to sleep, because He knows that I can't sleep with the TV on, and He has to have it on. 

There are really soooo many things that He does that Just make me melt.

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RE: Small things - 1/20/2009 6:06:50 PM   
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Oh its the little things that matter the most!  How if I ever need a ear he is there to listen. He remembers everything I say....even remembered my favorite drink from sonic and bought it for me after me telling him once what it was.  If my back is hurting he will rub it for me.  Most of all the emails we send each other during work..they get me though my day. 

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