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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/17/2009 12:46:17 PM

RCdc

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ORIGINAL: Loliita
Did I say it made him sick? No
Did you read my follow up post on page one before you accused me of calling another sick and then insulting my name? Apparently not.

When reading posts it is helpful to take in all the posts. Someone suggested to you that they were sick - so I said that it was not necessarily the case IMO. I did not suggest that you said it was sick, so no accusation there.

As for the name, who insulted it? If I had wanted to insult you, I wouldn't have bothered with answering the thread because insults just aren't worth wasting my time or anyone elses over who are reading this thread. What you call yourself is your choice and I highlighted that some people will make assumptions based on the name and it will attract certain types of people, like it or not. For me, people usually assume I am black if they haven't seen my photograph or that I am pagan or goth. With the name Loliiita you will attract the attention of people who have that type of fanasy or attraction. Some people do make assumptions based on names. It's no real big surprise and you just have to accept it as par the course when choosing or using a nickname.

Sometimes it's cooler to not second guess what people are saying and take everything into context because the written words doesn't always carry over well. And really - if I honestly didn't like your name and had attacked it - would it really have made that big a difference to your life? I doubt it.

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/17/2009 2:57:27 PM

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I'm not looking to be dominated either, so I'll add my comment to all other types of women, lol. I adore little breasts. So, there, thats my vote. If anyone is keeping score.

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/18/2009 5:58:22 AM

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i like smaller ones too ...my mistress is perfect she is 36cs

ahhhh just right and very nice nipples indeed

she loves playing with my nipples and i love licking hers until they pop out and stick out ...very yummy to lick and by then boy is she wet

anything over 38dds i think are too big i think ...nice too look at but some women are just too big and its not that attractive i think ..mal

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/18/2009 6:47:58 AM

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We all have preferences, but a woman comes as package and you can't assemble exactly what you want like a Ms. Potato Head doll. The stereotype is that men like tall, blondes with large boobs is true for many, but I will take a short, less "gifted", brunette any time. That said, the brain is what makes a woman sexy and so long at the rest is not a turn off, who cares?

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/19/2009 12:38:10 PM

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A partner's breast size matter little to me. My only comment would be that it would only change the style of play. For example, with regards to rope bondage, breasts of any size can be bound by ropes, chains, leater, etc., but the way in which the breasts are bound would change. Personally, I love to see cleavage displayed even in vanilla situations, and the bust size doesn't matter.

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/20/2009 8:03:23 AM

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Taking this question from a couple of different angles.
I have a sizable rack and booty. Most men, though definitely not all, I have related with have seemed to revere the booty moreso than the breasts (Though, they are, knock-on-wood, in good shape).
Conversely, when I'm looking at the female form, breasts are an extremely important factor in terms of my finding the person attractive, though I range from finding small perky breasts attractive (on a slender, boyish frame) and larger breasts, persuming they are in good condition, attractive (On a curvier frame, though I don't find large women aesthetically pleasing).
The condition of the breasts is waaaaay important. My ex- and I were in a relationship where the female looked like she had a fabulous rack. When she got naked, eek. Seriously false advertising and the best reason for a breast lift I've ever seen.
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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/20/2009 8:06:07 AM

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i love my 38DDs. always have. on 4'11 they look even bigger. once at a club a small chested girl who looked half my age came up to me and asked me if they were real (yes they are), then she asked to feel them, of course i said yes. her boyfriend just drooled watching the proceedings. she laughed and said to him yes they are real.
the fun you can have with big boobs!!!!
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t shirt seen on a friend "tell your boobs to stop staring at me"

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/20/2009 9:34:10 PM

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If I were to look for a Domme I'm not sure that I would have a preference on breast size. I adore breasts of all sizes. Larger breasts I do find a little intimidating though. Since mine are itty bitty teacups, I don't quite know what to do with the really large ones. I've had fun trying to figure it out though (giggle). Fake ones are not nearly as appealing as real ones to me. And by real I mean real life, droops and all. I would rather have that then the fake ones. Visually fake ones can look nice, but they just don’t have the kinesthetic feel that I enjoy.

And as Davan noted, in my experience men that are attracted to me tend to be more fascinated with my hind parts than my teacups.

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/20/2009 9:50:13 PM

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This question doesn't really apply to me as a straight female, but I will say that on other women, I prefer small breasts. I love the lanky look.
But it makes me sad when I read about men preferring smaller breasts, too... heh.

For some reason it seems like the only guys who prefer large breasts are the ones who aren't exactly interested in conversation. I know that's not a universal truth, but that's what I've noticed through my experiences.

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/21/2009 9:22:32 AM

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Women who have an unusually large bit of T or A will get a lot of public attention. For some reason, the "bigger is better" crowd tends to be very vocal.

But at the end of the day, most men just want you to have breasts that are bigger than theirs.

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/21/2009 9:41:52 AM

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Well I do like to tie them up...but in the long run Its more the person than her breast type

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/22/2009 11:56:49 AM

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Hold up, I'm still tripping about the fantasy of being dominated by a preteen girl.....Thats a new one....

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 1/24/2009 7:19:11 PM

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Breast size doesnt matter at all for me. I find women with small breats very attractive. Its a lot more important for me that the domme has nice and beautiful feet.

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 2/2/2009 3:51:06 PM

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Its not important how large the breasts are, as long as they dont keep her arms from reaching your ass..

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 2/2/2009 3:59:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I prefer smaller myself, but I am not going to kick a large breasted woman that I think is totally awesome in every way out of my bed because she's bigger than a B cup.

*Breathes a huge sigh of relief from all us larger breasted girlies who are in the LadyT fanclub.*

the.dark.

Same here. I'm 5'1, 130 lbs with a 36 DDD (Yes, that's a Triple D) sized rack. They aren't perky, but damn if they don't bounce....

Funny people mention boobage, my breast size, being so abnormally large, is actually my number one body insecurity. Weight? I'm fine with it. Chipped front tooth? Don't bother me. Boobs? I've had days when I literally crawl into bed and cry all day because of how large they are. I'm 27 and I've only NOW begun to view them as being bueatiful after years upon years of getting shit for them from both men and women.

(Though oddly never from a fellow kinkster - they've all been exceptionally polite!)

So I appreciate all those folks out there who like teh big boobies - there's a place for us, too!

(Is reminded of....damnit, can't remember the member's name - he has a signature line that says something like "Women...the smaller chested ones want bigger boobs, the bigger chested ones want smaller boobs....quit fretting, we men love you the way you are!")

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 2/2/2009 5:03:56 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: T1981

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I prefer smaller myself, but I am not going to kick a large breasted woman that I think is totally awesome in every way out of my bed because she's bigger than a B cup.

*Breathes a huge sigh of relief from all us larger breasted girlies who are in the LadyT fanclub.*

the.dark.

Same here. I'm 5'1, 130 lbs with a 36 DDD (Yes, that's a Triple D) sized rack. They aren't perky, but damn if they don't bounce....

Funny people mention boobage, my breast size, being so abnormally large, is actually my number one body insecurity. Weight? I'm fine with it. Chipped front tooth? Don't bother me. Boobs? I've had days when I literally crawl into bed and cry all day because of how large they are. I'm 27 and I've only NOW begun to view them as being bueatiful after years upon years of getting shit for them from both men and women.

(Though oddly never from a fellow kinkster - they've all been exceptionally polite!)

So I appreciate all those folks out there who like teh big boobies - there's a place for us, too!

(Is reminded of....damnit, can't remember the member's name - he has a signature line that says something like "Women...the smaller chested ones want bigger boobs, the bigger chested ones want smaller boobs....quit fretting, we men love you the way you are!")

your post struck a chord with me(or more accurately reminded me) of an ex submisive of mine from a few years back that was of almost similiar statistics as you describe except being a tad taller at 5 ft 2
It simply never entered my head to comment or analyse her breast size as she in my eyes was simply beautiful full stop.
But we did have a conversation on male and female endowment on one occasion and she commented on one hand to feeling insecure of her breast size probably due to standing out at school and the usual building site commments she would get in the summer months.but on the other hand she went with the stereotypical belief that all males liked large breasted woman which unfortunately was wasted on me as frankly she could have been completely flat chested id still have adored her.

A poster mentioned earlier that it was a lead on from the does size matter thread on the main board and rightly or wrongly ive always believed that for some size will matter and thats fine but for others size just does nt register whether that be male to female breasts or female to male penis size.
For me personally im a sucker for inner beauty and self confidence in my partners....oh yeah a nice ass too

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 2/2/2009 5:13:05 PM

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Awww, that's so sweet! Thank you for sharing that!

Over the years I have begun to trust people when they say I'm bueatiful, for whatever reason, and you're right - having an overall sense of being loved really does help the specific parts of insecurities mend themselves.

I, too, for the longest time thought men only liked big breasts, until I met the gal who introduced us to BDSM. She's barely a B cup, but had many, many men fawning over her breasts. As time went on, it wasn't so much that she had smaller breasts as it was that she was just that comfortable in her body that was so attractive.

Makes a huge difference.

Thank you again for sharing that story, I really appreciate that!

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 2/2/2009 5:30:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: T1981

As time went on, it wasn't so much that she had smaller breasts as it was that she was just that comfortable in her body that was so attractive.

Now if we could all just learn that lesson would nt the world be a happier place.

Be well :)

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 2/2/2009 7:03:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: T1981

damnit, can't remember the member's name - he has a signature line that says something like "Women...the smaller chested ones want bigger boobs, the bigger chested ones want smaller boobs....quit fretting, we men love you the way you are!")

DarkSteven.

He has a yummy new pic, too...

* sneaks away to go perv DS*

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RE: Does size matter? (breast size) - 2/2/2009 7:05:15 PM

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Thank you!

*goes to find Dark Steven's profile and perv it as well*

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