AAkasha -> RE: Men upside down, straitjackets, water (1/17/2009 12:48:24 PM)
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ORIGINAL: mummyman321 AAkasha, I am curious as too your fetish/porn. Do you enjoy watching it or do you want to live it? Do you want to be the Binder and then watch the Bindee try to escape? And do you have an interest is creating inescapable situations???? Just curious Bondage is sort of my "foundation kink." It is so much a part of my desires that it is the only non-negotiable part of my real life kinky relationships. I have dozens of restraints, shackles, straitjacket, gags, etc. I enjoy both watching it and living it - I was "tying up" boyfriends as soon as I was old enough to date. Even if it was just to tie them up and watch them get loose. On top of that I am a very visual person so I love looking at pictures and videos of men in bondage situations, whether or not they are sexual. I like to see a hot man in a very helpless, vulnerable position due to physical restraints, and struggling is also a huge turn on. To that end, yeah, escape artists have always fascinated me. The fact that they spend so much time in real restraints trying to get loose. Akasha *Shiver* Bondage, fine; bit of fear, fine; but being close to drowning? Nooooooooo Hahah..oh come on. WIMP!! Seriously tho. I had to think about this and realize that yes, on some level, I have a "danger" fetish - but it's not something that has to be for real, it can be staged or fake or roleplayed, but in the right frame of mind, I find the idea of bravery, surrender, and danger to be incredibly hot. At the same time, I am probably one of the most cautious and safety-paranoid femdoms around, so I don't plan on putting any men in water tanks or airtight boxes even though I absolutely love the idea of it. Now if a man does it *for a living* since he is an escape artist, well that's his choice and I'm sure he is being careful. As a side benefit I find water to be incredibly sexy - wet hair, wet eyelashes, wet lips. So add bondage to water with an element of danger (even if make believe) and I am in heaven. Akasha
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