I don;t get rewards, as such. I know already that if I'm nice, nice things are likely to spring from that and if I'm horrid, less than nice things spring from that, too. But I learned that when I was really tiny.
agirl
tkenslve -> RE: Rewards (1/17/2009 3:35:36 PM)
my Master will reward me occasionally by allowing me a 'sub's night' where i am allowed to pick what we do for the evening.
While I firmly believe that service is its own reward, I did often reward my boy with play, my attention, allowing him to give me massages, and cuddling: all things he enjoyed. I think positive words can go a long way too.
bamagirl4u -> RE: Rewards (1/17/2009 8:21:06 PM)
I used to melt when my former Dom simply said..."good girl"...yep...that was my reward...and i relished it...
Huntertn -> RE: Rewards (1/17/2009 8:29:50 PM)
I know alot of subs and their Masters use rewards...but I am wary of those..I want her to serve me because it's what makes her Happy as she serves me..and if every once in a while I say good gurl..its because it makes I really mean it....