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RE: are yiu a poor sub if?? - 1/18/2009 12:08:11 PM

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I believe that chezz is merely looking for input in to things that have happened to him as we all do--many of our experiences we share are not from "yesterday" but from yesteryears, I encourage him to be more open to posting here as his journey has been one fraught with, less then desirable moments and as he has said, he is in renewal mode and still learning.

As for speaking for 5 years, we have been friends-- life and extenuating circumstances prevented us from being able to be in the same life places at the same time--until now. Perhaps we need a more open mind before we jump to conclusions or judge situations.

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RE: are yiu a poor sub if?? - 1/18/2009 2:22:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: chezzy71
To fullFig and iwear...i asked a simple question to start this thread and gave you only a super brief summary of the fledgling relationship Mistress and i have began.So..what gives you both the right to draw such conclusions about me and Mistress as well??

I didn't jump to any conclusions, or made any statements regarding the years. I simply asked for clarification, because in your brief opening post, it sounded like something you had recently gone through, and were wondering if your lack of emotional connection meant something bigger (in your current relationship).
No need for you or Cat to take offense where there was none.

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CatdeMedici
As for speaking for 5 years, we have been friends-- life and extenuating circumstances prevented us from being able to be in the same life places at the same time--until now.

Congratulations to you both. M

< Message edited by FullfigRIMAAM1 -- 1/18/2009 2:25:55 PM >

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RE: are yiu a poor sub if?? - 1/18/2009 4:26:34 PM

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This is why I respect and admire you as I do a few others here.

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RE: are yiu a poor sub if?? - 1/18/2009 5:07:31 PM

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I have always been told, and have found it to be very true, that men simply aren't emotionally wired the way women are. Ergo, I don't think it's unusual if a sub is not feeling an 'emotional connection' to a Domme after a session.

I think its the opposite Ma`am. Men may hide emotions, as its what is expected, but deep down we are very emotional creatures.

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