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StormsSlave -> RE: How Did It End? (2/1/2009 12:08:39 PM)
My Lord took me away from him. He wooed, convinced, and tempted me away from him. It ended because we weren't meeting one another's needs. It's amicable enough. He still pays for my AAA membership, but probably because he has no one else to share it with, anyway. He took it hard at first, trying to fix all the things I had told him were bothering me. I tried to give him space to get through it, but we don't hate each other.

SlaveIndigochild -> RE: How Did It End? (2/1/2009 1:19:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Naberius 1998, November 14th I was meeting my slaves at the airport where they were picking me up. On their way to me, they were struck by a dump truck and killed at the scene. I never got to say goodbye. Nicole, 19, Amber, 26 and Nyte 53. It has taken me 10 years to finally get over it and seek a new family. I met the girls through a LONG process of searching. I had the poly family I wanted so much, and it took a good 9 years just to develop and it took seconds to end that. i am so saddened by your story. i have experienced the death of parents and dearly beloved friends but by natural if untimely and accelerated causes. But never in an accident like this. i have very strong biefs about what happens after death but no matter how strong those beliefs are i knw there is always terrible emotional fallout. i am so happy that you have found the strength to look to the future.

Naberius -> RE: How Did It End? (2/1/2009 3:23:18 PM)
Thank you for the condolences. It's been a long road, but am here and moving on but I rarely dwell in the past as it gets me no where. I'll always have memories both good and bad and that will always live inside me. But yes, moving on.... [sm=smile.gif]

oceanwynds -> RE: How Did It End? (2/1/2009 3:43:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Naberius 1998, November 14th I was meeting my slaves at the airport where they were picking me up. On their way to me, they were struck by a dump truck and killed at the scene. I never got to say goodbye. Nicole, 19, Amber, 26 and Nyte 53. It has taken me 10 years to finally get over it and seek a new family. I met the girls through a LONG process of searching. I had the poly family I wanted so much, and it took a good 9 years just to develop and it took seconds to end that. Naberius, I am so sorry for your loss. It has been 3 and half years since hubby died. When I met Sir, he told me it would take me a good 5 years go through the grieving process. We been together for 2 and half years, and live apart. I am glad he understands that process, since my marriage was a very long one. May your heart continue to grow. oceanwynds

Knite064 -> RE: How Did It End? (2/1/2009 5:12:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Naberius 1998, November 14th I was meeting my slaves at the airport where they were picking me up. On their way to me, they were struck by a dump truck and killed at the scene. I never got to say goodbye. Nicole, 19, Amber, 26 and Nyte 53. It has taken me 10 years to finally get over it and seek a new family. I met the girls through a LONG process of searching. I had the poly family I wanted so much, and it took a good 9 years just to develop and it took seconds to end that. I would be heartbroken to learn of any past girl of mine passing away so i cant imagine the pain of your loss. Best wishes and i hope you find your new family and somewhere that family will be part of the energy that was those three girls Be well

MyWorldCT -> RE: How Did It End? (2/1/2009 5:59:53 PM)
This is hard to write, even now, but it is the ending of my first "real" D/s relationship. I thank Narberius, for his post and know his pain personally. Here it goes... In March (2 weeks before my birthday) of 1997, I came home after being at a filming shoot (I managed the food service/craft services for MGM Studios then) and was eager to see my one and only, my girl Lisa. I searched the apartment and did not find her. I called her work number and she did not show up for work the past 2 days. I started to get worried. I called her mother in San Francisco and her mother did not hear from her for a few days. I was very worried now. I called 3 of her friends, and 2 of them had been trying to call her for 2 days now and came to the apartment, but could not find her. I was very, very worried. I did not know what to think, but being the neat-freak I was, I saw that the trash needed to be taken out and opened the door to the back stairway and dropped the bag of garbage and sank to my knees. She was lying at the bottom of the stairs dead. The police said she must have slipped and fell, breaking her neck. I was broken... totally broken... It took about 2 years for me to even look at another woman, until I met my ex-girl Jillian (Jill). She is a very successful model and actress in LA to this day and why I am here now and she is there now is another story, but that can wait for another day. Savor every minute you are with your One. They can be gone in a minute. Make sure they know you appreciate them and their role in your life, whatever it is... sub, slave, Dom, Domme

chicagoswitch -> RE: How Did It End? (2/1/2009 6:04:27 PM)
He simply, and quite literally just walked away, not a word of explanation, not even a good bye. Why? I wish I knew. I'm putting it behind me the best I can. That is exactly what my first (and last) Dom did. No human being deserves to be treated this way.

Naberius -> RE: How Did It End? (2/1/2009 6:12:03 PM)
Losing anyone in a tragic way is hard (and even hard is an understatement). Life is precious and even though I work in life and death situations (suicidologist), sometimes things are just too difficult to swallow. I have many lady friends, but no submissive or dominant friends as I chose not to be reminded of the lifestyle for the entire time I grieved. But, to get over the grief, one must get back to what they were when they were involved with the other. In this case, bdsm. Having done a few play parties, not my cup of tea really, it did help heal some and some healing is better than none. I'm still not at 100%, but I'm getting there. Life however is about loving, losing, learning and living again. No matter what the loss, we must move on for that is what the other half would want us to do.

MyWorldCT -> RE: How Did It End? (2/1/2009 6:20:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chicagoswitch He simply, and quite literally just walked away, not a word of explanation, not even a good bye. Why? I wish I knew. I'm putting it behind me the best I can. That is exactly what my first (and last) Dom did. No human being deserves to be treated this way. Being a Dom and reading this is very dissapointing to me. He is not a Dom, he is just an A**hole. It sounds as if he did not have the backdone enough to face you to explain = not a Dom. A Dom takes care of his friends, family, children, and subs/slaves, by being honest and communicates with them all. He was just a weak little boy, so get over him and find a man and a real Dom.

Knite064 -> RE: How Did It End? (2/1/2009 6:48:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MyWorldCT This is hard to write, even now, but it is the ending of my first "real" D/s relationship. I thank Narberius, for his post and know his pain personally. Here it goes... In March (2 weeks before my birthday) of 1997, I came home after being at a filming shoot (I managed the food service/craft services for MGM Studios then) and was eager to see my one and only, my girl Lisa. I searched the apartment and did not find her. I called her work number and she did not show up for work the past 2 days. I started to get worried. I called her mother in San Francisco and her mother did not hear from her for a few days. I was very worried now. I called 3 of her friends, and 2 of them had been trying to call her for 2 days now and came to the apartment, but could not find her. I was very, very worried. I did not know what to think, but being the neat-freak I was, I saw that the trash needed to be taken out and opened the door to the back stairway and dropped the bag of garbage and sank to my knees. She was lying at the bottom of the stairs dead. The police said she must have slipped and fell, breaking her neck. I was broken... totally broken... It took about 2 years for me to even look at another woman, until I met my ex-girl Jillian (Jill). She is a very successful model and actress in LA to this day and why I am here now and she is there now is another story, but that can wait for another day. Savor every minute you are with your One. They can be gone in a minute. Make sure they know you appreciate them and their role in your life, whatever it is... sub, slave, Dom, Domme I have carried a little sadness for a number of years over a submissive i felt was my complete soul mate but circumstances forced us apart and she lives in her home area and i in mine and we have both moved on. I will always hold a little candle deep down for her but what you desribe is just so very sad and i wish you well

Knite064 -> RE: How Did It End? (2/1/2009 7:04:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chicagoswitch He simply, and quite literally just walked away, not a word of explanation, not even a good bye. Why? I wish I knew. I'm putting it behind me the best I can. That is exactly what my first (and last) Dom did. No human being deserves to be treated this way. your post reminds me of a sub friend i had years ago that i initially met in an msn chat and used to talk with on msn messenger. She finally found the Dom of her dreams and they had got to know each other online and by telephone and were planning there first meeting together and i still remember her excitement when telling me. One night she told me that he had to go on holiday or business for a couple of weeks and would be in touch on his return....nope that was him he disappeared and the girl was left devastated.(I should add that he signed off his messenger one nihght as soon as she signed on so nothing bad happened to him) As much sympathy as i had for her and although i had warned her just to take care if it was someone she had met online id have to say i just felt very angry at his behaviour....all the girl wanted was to know why! I understand your talking about an r/t relationship but even although they had nt met he had filled her with dreams of what they would be and she believed him. My advice to her was,in time you will heal and will move on but DO NOT let him steal your future as that belongs to you and as hes proven he was nt worth your trust. Theres good and bad in all walks of life just dont let the assholes win [;)]

MistresseLotus -> RE: How Did It End? (2/2/2009 12:36:57 PM)
After 12 years.. we ended our D/s relationship. This poem expresses what it was like for us.. Poem by Langston Hughes I loved my friend. He went away from me. There's nothing more to say. The poem ends Soft as it began- I loved my friend. Our friendship remains. Change isn't easy, it's just necessary.

SlaveIndigochild -> RE: How Did It End? (2/2/2009 2:24:30 PM)
How did it end? It ended today, in friendship and communication. I am released and am Prinsexx once more.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: How Did It End? (2/2/2009 2:32:59 PM)
{{{hugs darling Prinnie}}}

CalifChick -> RE: How Did It End? (2/2/2009 2:34:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: StrangerThan How it started? Fucking her on desk in her office - and that literally was how the relationship started. Mitch?? Is that you? Cali

GrizzlyBear -> RE: How Did It End? (2/2/2009 3:27:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hardbodysub She got engaged to another guy. That's where I draw the line. I dumped her right away. Hah! Sounds funny but might not be a joke at all... I broke it off with one after she went to visit her off-and-on vanilla boyfriend who lived 500 miles away, and came back married. She was 29, it was her 4th marriage. But she told me he was still OK with her playing around, as they weren't going to live together for at least a year, and he had something going on the side too. Said he knew all about us. Turned out he didn't... Got very ugly when he found out. Said something about coming for a visit and bringing his .44 Magnum. That's where I drew the line - she lied to me. Their marriage was annulled two weeks later. I refused to ever see her again. Four years later, she contacted me again on IM and begged me to see her. I asked if she was unattached, she said no she was living with yet another vanilla guy who couldn't satisfy her. Some people never learn.

Prinsexx -> RE: How Did It End? (2/2/2009 3:40:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GrizzlyBear quote: ORIGINAL: hardbodysub She got engaged to another guy. That's where I draw the line. I dumped her right away. Hah! Sounds funny but might not be a joke at all... I broke it off with one after she went to visit her off-and-on vanilla boyfriend who lived 500 miles away, and came back married. She was 29, it was her 4th marriage. But she told me he was still OK with her playing around, as they weren't going to live together for at least a year, and he had something going on the side too. Said he knew all about us. Turned out he didn't... Got very ugly when he found out. Said something about coming for a visit and bringing his .44 Magnum. That's where I drew the line - she lied to me. Their marriage was annulled two weeks later. I refused to ever see her again. Four years later, she contacted me again on IM and begged me to see her. I asked if she was unattached, she said no she was living with yet another vanilla guy who couldn't satisfy her. Some people never learn. goodness i thought my life was complicated!

CalifChick -> RE: How Did It End? (2/2/2009 3:48:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GrizzlyBear I refused to ever see her again. Four years later, she contacted me again on IM and begged me to see her. I asked if she was unattached, she said no she was living with yet another vanilla guy who couldn't satisfy her. Some people never learn. I don't know if you meant that to be funny or not, but it was farking hilarious! Instead of saying "NO", you asked if she was unattached. So who is it that never learns??? Cali

domiguy -> RE: How Did It End? (2/2/2009 3:59:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: StormsSlave My Lord took me away from him. He wooed, convinced, and tempted me away from him. It ended because we weren't meeting one another's needs. It's amicable enough. He still pays for my AAA membership, but probably because he has no one else to share it with, anyway. He took it hard at first, trying to fix all the things I had told him were bothering me. I tried to give him space to get through it, but we don't hate each other. Why would he hate you?....I would thank "Mylord!" It probably was the biggest favor anyone has ever done for him.

gypsygrl -> RE: How Did It End? (2/2/2009 5:47:27 PM)
"I can't keep track of each fallen rhyme." Sincerely, L. Cohen

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