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BxBOY -> Am i being SETUP (1/17/2009 9:00:40 PM)

a slave female contacted me the day she joined asking me to meet her and her master.
he rang me asking to get a hotel they come in an fuck first they play is this a scam, they say they 42 but on phone sound like 20;s and he doesnt seem to under stand the difference between bondage as a lifestyle and just some kink. he was asking me how to punish a slave.

am i being setup, anyone experinece of something like this?


Slave steve



Sanguinarian -> RE: Am i being SETUP (1/17/2009 9:03:57 PM)

Question: Did they want you to pay for their hotel or anything else? If so, then yeah, it is likely a scam. Just the fact that they seem to want to meet for a random fornication shouts REDFLAG. 



KyttynTheMynx -> RE: Am i being SETUP (1/17/2009 9:04:10 PM)

What does your instinct tell you?  (Mine says its a scam, fyi.)  Your instinct is usually steering you right, so go with it if it says dont believe this.



BxBOY -> RE: Am i being SETUP (1/17/2009 9:06:13 PM)

thanks guys/girls, i thought so, i report them



DarkSteven -> RE: Am i being SETUP (1/17/2009 9:08:10 PM)

Flags:

1. They are asking you to play without a public meeting first.
2.The Master seems unaware of lifestyle and kinky play.
3. The Master is asking you, someone who he has not even met, how to punish a slave.
4. They are setting this up but they want you to pay.

I suspect that they are going to do ugly things to the room, and you will have to pay for the damage cause your name is on the books.



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Am i being SETUP (1/17/2009 9:42:06 PM)

*shrug* I don't see anything really wrong here at all, if you're worried about a scam, say that they have to put in for half the hotel room.



blacksword404 -> RE: Am i being SETUP (1/17/2009 9:52:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BxBOY

a slave female contacted me the day she joined asking me to meet her and her master.
he rang me asking to get a hotel they come in an fuck first they play is this a scam, they say they 42 but on phone sound like 20;s and he doesnt seem to under stand the difference between bondage as a lifestyle and just some kink. he was asking me how to punish a slave.

am i being setup, anyone experinece of something like this?

Slave steve



Sounds like a possible robbery. One way to help keep yourself safe if you still go thru with it is Tell them to show their I.D. at the desk to get your room number. Make it a condition. Call down to the desk and ask them to write down the info for your two visitors. At least then they know that if robbery was the idea their info is there at the desk. Along with video. Best bet is to get to know them better before you get a room.

Or it could just be two inexperienced people.



bamagirl4u -> RE: Am i being SETUP (1/18/2009 4:47:21 AM)

First of all why would you want to meet someone the first day you talk to them??  I would want to know more about them...but that is just me.  Secondly, when the reg flag is waving....don't ignore it.  Your gut instinct is usually right.  Good luck to you...



mc1234 -> RE: Am i being SETUP (1/18/2009 5:24:30 AM)

From your profile:  "I am a millionare, but i the guy that pass you by in the bar, just cause i am rich doesnt mean i dress rich,"  This would probably pull all the scammers to you.  I'm not quite sure why you need this line in your profile and what you think it'll attract to you.

Bottom line, if you are uncomfortable meet them in public first.  Easy peasy. 



colouredin -> RE: Am i being SETUP (1/18/2009 5:26:30 AM)

LOL thats funny Mc. I just read the whole thing it is basically a profile saying "go on ask me for money I dare you"



YoursMistress -> RE: Am i being SETUP (1/18/2009 8:31:49 AM)

I am a little curious about how you reconcile interests in Vampirism and Veganism.  Seems like time for a decision may be near. 

yours



thegirlincharge -> RE: Am i being SETUP (1/18/2009 8:36:04 AM)

FYI...I looked at your profile. You are very silly to state that you are "a millionaire" whether you are or not you open yourself further up to the quacks. If you want to get less quack responses think about what you put in you profile. Good luck! :)



Lockit -> RE: Am i being SETUP (1/18/2009 8:38:04 AM)

How many of the same post will you make in different boards... after someone kindly telling you that you were breaking the rules of the site?  I think the red flag has something more to do with your attention seeking.  There is no one to report this to.  You are the one giving out your phone number so people can ring you before you know them even a little.  They say they want this or that.. you don't... don't do it.  But if you are soooooooooo afraid that you need to report to someone... you have nothing to report and no one to report to.  They didn't break a law... and they have nothing to do with this site other than you may have met them here.  You can blame them if you want, but you did ask for trouble by freely, as an adult giving out your personal information and talking to strangers.  So they were strange.  Get over it and move on... don't start mulitple threads over it.



OsideGirl -> RE: Am i being SETUP (1/18/2009 9:59:08 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BxBOY
the difference between bondage as a lifestyle and just some kink.
Hmmm...well...considering that I view bondage as a short term act of fun.....I don't understand what your difference is either. And I've been married into a D/s relationship for 8 years.

Beyond trying to figure out how meeting strangers in hotel rooms for kinky sex is a "lifestyle".

If you really put you're a millionaire on your profile, you've made yourself a target.

FYI, they haven't broken any rules on CM. That doesn't mean you weren't being set up.

You should probably examine your own motivations and standards regarding how you meet and interact with others.



Huntertn -> RE: Am i being SETUP (1/18/2009 5:38:17 PM)

hhmm..How about the cops? Set you up...well Never!!!lol



E2Sweet -> RE: Am i being SETUP (1/18/2009 5:53:03 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BxBOY

a slave female contacted me the day she joined asking me to meet her and her master.
he rang me asking to get a hotel they come in an fuck first they play is this a scam, they say they 42 but on phone sound like 20;s and he doesnt seem to under stand the difference between bondage as a lifestyle and just some kink. he was asking me how to punish a slave.

am i being setup, anyone experinece of something like this?


OK, in my opinion, you're moving way too fast with this. If you slow down and take some time to get to know people first, you probably won't need to ask total strangers here if you are or aren't being set up.



Petruchio -> RE: Am i being SETUP (1/18/2009 11:23:46 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: YoursMistress

I am a little curious about how you reconcile interests in Vampirism and Veganism.  Seems like time for a decision may be near. 


(laughing) THAT is funny!



Petruchio -> RE: Am i being SETUP (1/18/2009 11:26:17 PM)

In my opinion, this could get a whole lot worse than vandalizing the room or robbing you. If you pay for the room, their credit card isn't on file. They could do anything they want with you.

But they must be pretty stupid, too. Most millionaires should be well enough educated to use proper grammar and spelling.



BondageBarbieX -> RE: Am i being SETUP (1/21/2009 6:07:47 PM)

Sound more like swingers to me



antipode -> RE: Am i being SETUP (1/22/2009 12:13:50 PM)

Absolutely a scam.



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