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MirrorrirroM -> RE: Do you find it annoying... (1/21/2009 3:36:13 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Lee4U2tie
When a Dom makes long long speeches or gives you tasks to do that have nothing to do with a Dom/sub type setting?
I'm a type that likes things to be pretty cut and dry, you know, get your points across, no flowery long ass speeches that take all day. Unless you have a voice that's a joy to listen to, it's not really interesting to me. I'll loose focus pretty easy, and it might be ADD, who knows, I am and Art student after all lol. But long winded speeches really don't interest me, especially when it's added in with others own beliefs, say if they think they can read stones, or your energy or have psychic ability. really just makes them sound like a nutjob to me.
The other thing is, does a Dom ever give you subs a random text message to look up somethign for him that has nothing to do with you and him/her and your relationship? Does it annoy you? It annoys me. I'm not a personal secretary...personal secretaries get PAID...
Any other annoying little things you've exsperienced that are thigns you'd preffer if a Dom didn't do? Oh and Doms feel free to say any little annoying thing that you see subs do that you wish wouldn't be. ^_~
In a D/s relationship you're more than just a Dom and sub, you are two human beings who are choosing to be with each other. Hence I'd assume it'd be wise to make sure that fundamentally as human beings you get along and have things in common and find each other interesting. My Master is very spiritual, very into all of the psychic and energy work stuff, but so am I so I love the conversations he and I can have about it. If you are not spiritual than it would probably be beneficial for you to be with a Dom who is also non-spiritual so you're not faking interest in something you don't relate to. As far as the him having you look random stuff up for him...to me little things like that ARE part of a healthy D/s relationship, because by helping him out with these little tasks you are helping make his life a little easier, and if you are with a Dom you really care about and want to serve the desire to make his life easier will be there. I'm happy when my Master has me take care of little tasks for him, it means he trusts me to do a good job at whatever he's asked and that he's willing to accept my assistance. I love to do things to try to make him happy, and he does plenty of things to make me very happy as well :)
Honestly if I were you I would reevaluate my relationship and see if I was really with the Dom that's right for me, or if I even was ready to be a lifestyle submissive at all since a large part of being submissive is SERVING your Master.
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