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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 12:48:35 PM   
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I personally am totally against the every 6 weeks deal. But I just may be a little biased on the subject!

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 2:19:10 PM   
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hello Ms Goddess  my mistress controls my cumming to ...one way or another she is going to  get me to cum on a weekly basis  she loves feeding it back to me once i do whether if its by allowing me to cum inside of her and then sitting on my face so i can lick up the mess i made or by when she fists me anally on a weekly basis my prostate is totally at her mercy once she slides in  she loves the power exchange there is when she milks my prostate until i have no cum left inside of me  6 months of no cumming ? once she allowed me to cum i would probable flood out her pussy if that ever was the case ..sorry we cant go that long ..just like i love watching her cum she loves watching me cum too ..love sharing that with her  just my thoughts ..have fun ..mal

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 2:22:08 PM   
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hmmmm and you just joined today with no profile---My that's convenient--well I hope we see more of your support of Mistress' techniques.

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 3:01:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ghosty1

Hello A/all that are reading this.i and others have the honor of serving our Goddezz T.  Its not a big deal going without cumming for six months or even a year if it pleases Her .we are not "idiots" we know whats right and whats wrong .we all Love Her and want to please Her anyway She deems right  that is Her right. It doesn't mean we have giving up our masculinity but we have channeled it to GoddezzT by having Her controll our bodies which definitely is a good thing..


It is great that your and slavemates are willing to hand over complete control to your Mistress. Bear in mind that not all submissives do well when they give up total control of their orgasms to another. There are just as effective ways for a sub to give complete service and devotion to their Mistress or Master.
  And DV is quite correct when she states that long term orgasm control dies decrease the desire to orgasm. It is common with many males who refrain from masteurbating and having orgasms will tend to lose interest in sexual activity and the plumbing will be less responsive to external stimulation.


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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 3:12:46 PM   
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Peon, I'd have to guess somewhere between Sevierville and Pidgeon Forge.

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What, are those in Tennessee, Ms S? 



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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 3:17:08 PM   
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My experience has been that more than three days of chastity and the boy becomes an absolute pill to deal with: crabby, argumentative, and petulant.  My goal is for him to have a more intense orgasm when he does come, not to deny him the opportunity to have one for an extended period.  Sigh.  Clearly, I've been doing it all wrong.  I'm never going to get the hang of this domme business.

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 3:19:06 PM   
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After ~ 48 hours I just hurt. And dribble. It's very stressful and I can't focus on work. I like the fantasy of being denied and teased for weeks until driven to the edge of sanity etc, etc, but it's just a fantasy..

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 3:44:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TermsConditions

Peon, I'd have to guess somewhere between Sevierville and Pidgeon Forge.


You have obviously tried to get to Gatlinburg in the summer time.

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GoddessTeaze, you totally misunderstood my point.  Every woman possesses the tool of her own sexuality.  Most just don't know how to use it to control men and train them into what we want them to be.  Tease and Denial without sexuality is like the Stick without the Carrot.  Without the promise of something greatly desired, but never obtainable, where's the fun?

My point was that there ARE many tools in the Domme's toybag.  The way we use them may be similar, but it is up to each Lady to choose the best tools at her disposal to acheive the desired result. 


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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 4:09:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

Sigh.  Clearly, I've been doing it all wrong.  I'm never going to get the hang of this domme business.


Practice, practice, practice. 


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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 4:27:08 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Politesub53

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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

Sigh.  Clearly, I've been doing it all wrong.  I'm never going to get the hang of this domme business.


Practice, practice, practice. 




Let me guess:  you're volunteering to let me practise on you?  Unfortunately, you'll have to get in the queue.  Peon has been exceedingly cheeky to me and is in line for some serious punishment.  It will take me a while to get around to you.

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 4:33:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

Let me guess:  you're volunteering to let me practise on you? 



That would be topping from the bottom. I was just being my normal helpful self Ma`am.

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 4:42:31 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Politesub53

quote:

ORIGINAL: Venatrix

Let me guess:  you're volunteering to let me practise on you? 



That would be topping from the bottom. I was just being my normal helpful self Ma`am.


Which, of course, is the difference between you and some of the other men on these boards whom we could name, but won't.

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 6:41:34 PM   
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GoddessTeaze's subs need a class on grammar and simple spelling more than the need to be denied.

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 10:52:24 PM   
GoddessTeaze


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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

I have gone 6 months without an orgasm...not a big deal really.

Did ya got teazed day in day out..?
And edged too?
What's a big task for one, doesn't have to be one
for another, as long as you've fun doing it.

I wish you enough.

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 10:54:46 PM   
GoddessTeaze


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ORIGINAL: willingtolearn10
hi A/all
As one of GoddezzT's subs i have been put on denial by Goddezz and i lasted six months without cumming and i loved every minute of it.

Dedicated to my wonderful GoddezzT   

Hello willing,
happy to finally read you on the forum.
And I'm very proud of how devoted you are towards Me.

big hugglz & smooch

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 10:59:38 PM   
GoddessTeaze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit
At what price do we wish to become closer?  You state yourself that when allowed after six months of not cumming, you didn't wish to.  What happens after a year?  What happens if your mistress is no longer around and another who you fit in most ways, wishes for more than your not cumming?  I believe this can have long lasting effects that are not good that present themselves later on... when it could be too late.


Hello Lockit,

I've never read anything about denial being bad for men.(Health wise)
I can't look into the future, to see how it will go then.

I know that it makes them more submissive,
and they love the subspace they are in all the time.
And that's worth doing it for.

Thank you for your comment.

Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`


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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 11:05:05 PM   
GoddessTeaze


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ORIGINAL: VampiresLair

I have done orgasm control before, but I have alwyas been very disappointed in the effects once I wanted them to cum agai for me. The desire to climax was so supressed to keep them obedient most of the time that once I wanted it it was nearly impossible to get.

I prefer mental and physical control to sexual, in that aspect. Fox and I have sex when I want it, how I want it, and he knows he is not allowed to do anything without permission. However, I wont risk his not being ready right away when I am ready so he is not made to go without for long periods.
DV

Hello VampiresLair,

I don't share the same experiences as you do.
I've them mentally under control, so for Me
having them by the balls is
a good tool to make them
submit deeper.

Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`


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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 11:22:12 PM   
GoddessTeaze


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ORIGINAL: Lockit

I too have used some form of orgasm control or chastity... but I tend to believe that chastity with some will make them focus more on their cock and cumming than what I really want them focused on. 

I don't share the same opinion,I've been using this tool for quite some time, and they do get more submissive, and of course they are trained that their focus is not on their clit, it's just another tool to bring them deep into subspace on daylybasis.  
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ORIGINAL: Lockit
Yes, I do wish to control their cock... but I am more interested in controling other things or being in charge of someone who doesn't need to be locked up to see my worth to him.  This in my opinion is an 'us' thing... not a dominant only or a cock thing.  If the focus is on the cock... cumming and that is what is seen as submission... I am out...

I don't lock them up,
at all, I don't see the fun in that.
I love them to have temptation everyday again.
And to make that decision everyday again.
And other then that they work hard on other things,
it's just a part of My Domination.

Thank You for your reply.

Warm Greetingz

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 11:24:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ghosty1
Hello A/all that are reading this.i and others have the honor of serving our Goddezz T.  Its not a big deal going without cumming for six months or even a year if it pleases Her .we are not "idiots" we know whats right and whats wrong .we all Love Her and want to please Her anyway She deems right  that is Her right. It doesn't mean we have giving up our masculinity but we have channeled it to GoddezzT by having Her controll our bodies which definitely is a good thing..

Welcome laddie to the forum,
when you finally could find it, grinz
It's good to read you here.

Keep up the good work ghosty.

smooch

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RE: To have them by the balls makes them submit very de... - 1/19/2009 11:26:28 PM   
GoddessTeaze


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ORIGINAL: Lockit
I mean no offense to you or your mistress.  But I do wish to say... musculanity has nothing to do with cumming.  Even women do it.

Yes, even My girl does it.
She also makes Me very proud.

Have a goodday.

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