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Hello from the 214 - 1/20/2009 8:24:40 AM

takingoverme

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What's crackin'? I recently made the choice to get into the "lifestyle". I've experimented with women in the bedroom with certain things, but never really fully gave myself to the idea of a BDSM or D/s lifestyle. And since I just moved to a new state (Texas), I thought maybe it would be time for new starts all over.

I do got a question though.

Seeing as how I'm (fairly) new to the lifestyle, as well as the whole "meeting-people-online" scenario, what's the best way to holla' at someone on here. On folks' profiles it always say something to the extent of no generic messages. So what's the best things to throw in there when attempting to open a line of dialogue?

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RE: Hello from the 214 - 1/20/2009 4:38:42 PM

DarkSteven

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Hi there.

I find that a letter written specifically to them, drawn upon my understanding of them from their profile, works best for me.

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"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Hello from the 214 - 1/20/2009 7:21:28 PM

SassySarijane

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Bingo.....that's pretty much it right there.

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RE: Hello from the 214 - 1/21/2009 12:29:59 AM

ChainGoddess

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Hello, welcome to cm.
You have been given good advice. Read profiles, and include something relevant in your mail.
Good luck in your search.

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"Chain of command: I say it. You do it! End of chain."

Anne Rice- When you think night and day and every moment only of pleasing me, things will be very easy for you.

I could give up chocolate but I'm not a quitter.

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