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SavageFaerie -> RE: What do you define yourself as? (3/20/2009 7:07:44 AM)
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For lack of a better option I picked switching loon.
There are very few times where I feel submissive just because Im wired that way. Certain circumstance I will allow the Dominant to see this but its rare. Now dont get me wrong, I love to do things, I will happily spoil someone rotten, they dont have to have a Dominant bone on their body, I love to get things without having being asked, or do things..but thats just my giving nature. I do it on my own selflessly.
Now Maso...LOL Im a pain slut and will offer myself up willingly....okay sometimes Im pretty bold about getting a pain fix. But I do have a say in whats being done, I do like edgy things with those that have the experience. poen says I am 100% SAM....we are still at odds about that. I am defiently verbal. A serious top that like total manilupation would not do well with me I dont think.
At the same time, I have no problem being the Domiant in a service or taking care of a slave that does need guidence. I have worked with a couple of slaves where they truly needed to be micromanaged. This I do well. I do havea touch of sadism but not to a degree where I would care to top, unless it working with another dominant that needs an extra pair of hands. When someone like IronBear compliments me on who devoted I am and how I come up with things that even he as a seasoned Master didnt think of, I figure I cant be that bad.
I find myself lucky as hell that poen and BlackPhx like my traits and we suit each other well, without taking away my spirit and who I naturally am. I find being who I am that playing is not done in such a serious manner and the laughter just adds to the enjoyment.
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