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RE: So I'm Curious - 1/22/2009 10:29:39 AM

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I absolutely LOVE how emphatic dominant men are about saying no to receiving any anal or strap-on play! It is freakin' hilarious! It's like they're scared to lose their dom membership or something if they like it up the ass. Is it a "macho" thing? Is it the fear of being thought of as gay or a sissy? Whatever the reason, it sure is funny to watch them squirm at the thought...LOL.

The doms on here that give a resounding "hell no" need not worry, though. Only real men can take it up the ass from a woman with a strap-on.

FYI - I do enjoy it when Mistress bends me over with her strap-on...quite a lot, actually. Anal play is actually quite fun and pleasurable when done properly.

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RE: So I'm Curious - 1/22/2009 11:05:36 AM

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Fast Reply -

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RE: So I'm Curious - 1/22/2009 11:34:44 AM

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I would say that I really haven't had much experience with this, Being a DOMINANT person it never really sparked my interest. I will say now however, sometimes I think about it... and find myself wanting it at times, not anything big, but just something to be in there and to mix it up a little SOMETIMES. Who knows, I might find that I would love it :P

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RE: So I'm Curious - 1/22/2009 11:37:54 AM

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What's DOMINANT have anything to do with it? It's not like you are suddenly going to pop out with frillies and bows, and have a sudden urge to be locked in a cage and poked with sticks. (K maybe. But not likely)

If it feels good, do it. If it doesn't, avoid it.

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RE: So I'm Curious - 1/22/2009 11:38:12 AM

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Some men love it and would rather have nothing else, others are squicked at the notion of a finger. I have found that the liking of anal sex has nothing to do with orientation, that male dominants are just as likely to enjoy a prostate massage as submissives.

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RE: So I'm Curious - 1/22/2009 11:46:51 AM

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I understand and agree with you both. I am just saying that it doesn't cross my mind often, but when it does, It has started to spark my interest. I would say I used the term " being DOMINANT " as a way of just saying I am busy being DOMINANT in other ways and had not thought about myself getting anal play very much :P

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RE: So I'm Curious - 1/22/2009 11:48:31 AM

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quote:

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I understand and agree with you both. I am just saying that it doesn't cross my mind often, but when it does, It has started to spark my interest. I would say I used the term " being DOMINANT " as a way of just saying I am busy being DOMINANT in other ways and had not thought about myself getting anal play very much :P

uh oh...now what is He gonna be planning...!?!

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RE: So I'm Curious - 1/22/2009 11:57:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: rubberpet

I absolutely LOVE how emphatic dominant men are about saying no to receiving any anal or strap-on play! It is freakin' hilarious! It's like they're scared to lose their dom membership or something if they like it up the ass. Is it a "macho" thing? Is it the fear of being thought of as gay or a sissy? Whatever the reason, it sure is funny to watch them squirm at the thought...LOL.

The doms on here that give a resounding "hell no" need not worry, though. Only real men can take it up the ass from a woman with a strap-on.

FYI - I do enjoy it when Mistress bends me over with her strap-on...quite a lot, actually. Anal play is actually quite fun and pleasurable when done properly.

It could be that some just don't have an interest in it. I don't like shit play either so I must be afraid of getting my nails dirty or blood so I must be afraid of staining my clothes? I'll take the heat and be honest about it. I have no reason to fear what others think of what I like or not but you were right about one thing. I do see it as submissive act and I do see it as a sissy or gay act. Nothing wrong with any of that but it's not my cup of tea.

If you enjoy it more power to you but don't look down on others because they don't. I promise you I wouldn't give a flying fuck what a person thought about it if I wanted to do it.

No Squirming here.

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RE: So I'm Curious - 1/22/2009 12:12:27 PM

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I'm a Dom so the answer is obviously no. If anybody even tried suggesting that to me, I'd slap them into mashed potatoes.

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RE: So I'm Curious - 1/22/2009 12:13:42 PM

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Well, at least I'm learning how to deter overzealous dominant guys.

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RE: So I'm Curious - 1/22/2009 12:20:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

Well, at least I'm learning how to deter overzealous dominant guys.

*pops on the latex glove*

Just be yourself.

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RE: So I'm Curious - 1/22/2009 1:04:00 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

What's DOMINANT have anything to do with it? It's not like you are suddenly going to pop out with frillies and bows, and have a sudden urge to be locked in a cage and poked with sticks. (K maybe. But not likely)

If it feels good, do it. If it doesn't, avoid it.

That was one of my biggest fears.... and it didn't happen. I never did understand why ppl make a big deal about it either pro or con. It didn't do anything for me.

BadOne

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RE: So I'm Curious - 1/22/2009 3:22:02 PM

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quote:

How many guys enjoi taking a strap on up the ass regularly. I've read a few post about how "every guy" loves a strap on. When I"m sitting around with the boys tossing back a couple cold ones anal sex just doesn't come up.

Okay, I give up. How many?

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RE: So I'm Curious - 1/22/2009 3:28:25 PM

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I understand all of the responses and perspectives that have been offered. Like with most "what do you think about...." posts, the responses to this one remind me, once again, that most things pertaining to BDSM are intensely subjective and personal.

I identify as dominant and have had much experience at it, an adult lifetime's worth to be exact. I never thought about being "pegged" until this past year when I got to thinking that I REALLY didn't know what penetration felt like or what emotions it produces. I suspected that it was different from "penetrating" in some material and profound way. In one of those "aha! moments", I speculated that I might become a better and more creative dominant if I actually had that experience. Somewhat like when I have struck my arm or leg with different whips, floggers etc. to see what sensations they bring.

Very long story short, after some solo practice because it did feel a little weird and undomly to have my female sub do it, I became comfortable enough with it to command her to put on the harness I had bought. This was preceded by a frank discussion with her about her feelings. She had no problem with it, saying that she was excited to serve me in any way I desired.

Now, having done it once and..ahem..actually enjoying parts of it, I'm not sure whether I will do it again. However, I believe that my initial speculation was correct, I learned something about "submitting" to penetration that will help me be a better dom. Take it for whatever it's worth.

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RE: So I'm Curious - 1/22/2009 3:35:11 PM

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Which is a very useful skill for an attractive woman such as yourself.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

Well, at least I'm learning how to deter overzealous dominant guys.

*pops on the latex glove*

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RE: So I'm Curious - 1/22/2009 3:36:39 PM

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.... I do see it as submissive act and I do see it as a sissy or gay act. Nothing wrong with any of that but it's not my cup of tea.

By that statement in bold, you insinuate that straight submissive men who enjoy strap-on sex with their Dommes are all sissies or gay?

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RE: So I'm Curious - 1/22/2009 5:03:36 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Icarys

quote:

ORIGINAL: rubberpet

I absolutely LOVE how emphatic dominant men are about saying no to receiving any anal or strap-on play! It is freakin' hilarious! It's like they're scared to lose their dom membership or something if they like it up the ass. Is it a "macho" thing? Is it the fear of being thought of as gay or a sissy? Whatever the reason, it sure is funny to watch them squirm at the thought...LOL.

The doms on here that give a resounding "hell no" need not worry, though. Only real men can take it up the ass from a woman with a strap-on.

FYI - I do enjoy it when Mistress bends me over with her strap-on...quite a lot, actually. Anal play is actually quite fun and pleasurable when done properly.

It could be that some just don't have an interest in it. I don't like shit play either so I must be afraid of getting my nails dirty or blood so I must be afraid of staining my clothes? I'll take the heat and be honest about it. I have no reason to fear what others think of what I like or not but you were right about one thing. I do see it as submissive act and I do see it as a sissy or gay act. Nothing wrong with any of that but it's not my cup of tea.

If you enjoy it more power to you but don't look down on others because they don't. I promise you I wouldn't give a flying fuck what a person thought about it if I wanted to do it.

No Squirming here.

I don't look down on others in this lifestyle, no matter what their kinks may be. Besides, how could I look down on you when you're just as short as me? LOL The beauty of this lifestyle is there is something for everyone. You may enjoy things that I don't and vice versa. It doesn't make me better or you better...we just enjoy different things.

My above reference to dominant men squirming at the thought of receiving anal play was merely a dig at the macho assholes who think it's a strictly gay or sissy thing. I know there are also straight dominant men who think men who submit to women are weak, sissified individuals with no backbone. You just happened to confirm my point with your pointed, narrowminded response of it being submissive, sissy, and gay.

I will say this, though. For someone who doesn't care what others may think if you enjoyed this kind of activity, you sure were quick to mention it twice in your brief response as if trying to convince yourself as much as the rest of us.

Allow me to be the first to wish you a happy life, free and void of any anal play and pleasure.

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RE: So I'm Curious - 1/22/2009 5:20:00 PM

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I think it would be a very Domly thing to do: "All right, bitch, you will spread my ass wide, you will shove that dick in me, and you will hump my ass until shit comes out my ears! Got that, you slut? Now fuck that ass!"

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RE: So I'm Curious - 1/22/2009 5:21:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: beargonewild

quote:

ORIGINAL: Icarys

.... I do see it as submissive act and I do see it as a sissy or gay act. Nothing wrong with any of that but it's not my cup of tea.

By that statement in bold, you insinuate that straight submissive men who enjoy strap-on sex with their Dommes are all sissies or gay?

It wasn't an insinuation. I thought it was pretty well laid out there what my opinion was..

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RE: So I'm Curious - 1/22/2009 5:22:37 PM

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Would it be too bold to slap him on that ass, too, while screaming, "Yeehaw, watch me tap that ass!"?

Maybe, but it would be funny as hell!

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