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YourhandMyAss -> RE: Incident yesterday I found kind of amusing. (1/23/2009 7:34:24 AM)
peach, The spoiling part was a joke, I actually do not believe in over indulging the children, I would have in the future, and it's actually Daddy I think who I am going to have the problem with. We already have some major differences in thinking, even now when it's a hypothetical situation.( I know that doesn't bode well for future situations) For instance I wouldn't want mine to get her ears pierced till she was old enough to work for it a bit, either by chores or baby sitting ect ect, and he says well me personally I'd take her on her birthday and do it just cause it was her birthday and she asked, I'm a big softy. Another instance is I don't want Soda and junk being poured down their gullets, and he's a huge soda junky, so he laughed and said good luck inforcing that. quote: ORIGINAL: hizgeorgiapeach quote: ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss , and do all the spoiling instead lol. How about I let it out with the (probably snarky but brutally honest) truth that many of us who have spawn are thinking? There speaks the voice of someone who doesn't have spawn - and has No Clue.... You don't do the spoiling of your own unless you're either seriously stupid, or such a serious masochist that it's beyond description. You leave that to someone else, like grandparents, and then it's Your job as mommy to Break the spoiling so that other people don't detest, despise, and loath your spawn......

Rainfire -> RE: Incident yesterday I found kind of amusing. (1/23/2009 7:42:27 AM)
[sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif] "crotchfruits"????????????????????????????????? That's a new one - I love it!

Kalista07 -> RE: Incident yesterday I found kind of amusing. (1/23/2009 7:44:50 AM)
Nope.....No snarkiness there YHMA. Regarding the whole having little ones, i am biologically incapable of having any......One of the things that gives me the greatest joy in life is spending time with my sister's offspring. i don't 'deliberately' spoil them......But, they do value everything i do and give them 100% above anyone else... Not sure what the hell that has to do with anything..... Kali

missturbation -> RE: Incident yesterday I found kind of amusing. (1/23/2009 7:49:27 AM)
Honestly if there is any snarkiness and note i said if i think it is out of concern for the things you have written here and possibly in other threads. You are a 26 year old woman who has trouble doing an hours work and openly admits that you do nothing more than sit on a lap top all day. You often refer to how daddy spoils you and does everything for you. Team this with some of your other threads about getting peeps to eat veg, fish advice and how to detox after a sugar binge well it just aint healthy hun. Its all well and good stating you wouldnt want your kids drinking loads of soda but im afraid with kids its monkey see, monkey do and if its there they will want it. I know you keep saying you are trying to improve your health, diet etc but then you post athread on sugar detox, its worrying.

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Incident yesterday I found kind of amusing. (1/23/2009 7:53:32 AM)
Ok, I don't have children, but I love spending time with other people's kids. When my neighbor first adopted her 10 month old nieces, it was so fun to watch em grow and play with them and stuff. And the time we let a lady move in with her two kids, 6 y.o and 6 month old I was in heaven lol. It was finally like having sisters, but ones you picked. quote: ORIGINAL: Kalista07 Nope.....No snarkiness there YHMA. Regarding the whole having little ones, i am biologically incapable of having any......One of the things that gives me the greatest joy in life is spending time with my sister's offspring. i don't 'deliberately' spoil them......But, they do value everything i do and give them 100% above anyone else... Not sure what the hell that has to do with anything..... Kali

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Incident yesterday I found kind of amusing. (1/23/2009 7:59:59 AM)
Missturbation, It very much is monkey see monkey do. The sugar binge was more like how do you like to do it, not advice, all though if they offer advice I am open to it lol. The one thing I do, do right for myself is don't drink soda, actually even though it's a moot point and has nothing to do with much. I would, I will admit have a lot of growing up to do, before I'd ever want to bringing into a situation someone who's dependant on me to have my shit together. I frequently do say I want to eventually but certainly not any time soon since I am very selfish, and it's all about me, what I want, what I will do, my time, my desires, my money. Have someone who's dependent on you for their life and it aaaaaaaaaall changes, I know that, it's why I don't take foolish chances with birthcontrols I can forget or are fallable to user error. And sure BC's not 100 percent reliable, I know that, butt it becomes a lot less reliable if you use a method you know you'd be prone to forgetting or a user error is likelier to happen. quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation Honestly if there is any snarkiness and note i said if i think it is out of concern for the things you have written here and possibly in other threads. You are a 26 year old woman who has trouble doing an hours work and openly admits that you do nothing more than sit on a lap top all day. You often refer to how daddy spoils you and does everything for you. Team this with some of your other threads about getting peeps to eat veg, fish advice and how to detox after a sugar binge well it just aint healthy hun. Its all well and good stating you wouldnt want your kids drinking loads of soda but im afraid with kids its monkey see, monkey do and if its there they will want it. I know you keep saying you are trying to improve your health, diet etc but then you post athread on sugar detox, its worrying.

hizgeorgiapeach -> RE: Incident yesterday I found kind of amusing. (1/23/2009 8:12:35 AM)
It's got little to do with feeling like some sort of "amazing" mom myself - and a lot to do with the general trend of your various threads over the past year, yhma. You don't cook, you don't like to cook, you make excuses about why you can't/don't/won't even when reasonable suggestions are made on how to get around your various stated difficulties. You've stated frequently just how few things YOU are willing to eat - and then only if someone Else goes to the effort to fix them, because you're certainly not gonna get up and do it for yourself. You don't DO anything, and then wonder why you have no energy and can't seem to actually make any Progress in loosing the excess weight that got there from Years of sitting and not Doing anything. And yet, despite the fact that you sabotage yourself Routinely by binge eatting - you seem to feel you're in a position to say "I Won't let my eventual spawn do this." Hell girl - you can't even exert sufficient control to keep Yourself from doing so, but ya think yer gonna manage to keep someone Else on the straight and narrow??? I'm simply tired of giving coddling answers that have little to do with anything other than enabling yet more self destructive behavior, giggling posts that try to turn significant flaws in self control into some sort of Good thing, and blinkered vision.

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Incident yesterday I found kind of amusing. (1/23/2009 8:19:35 AM)
Did you see my reply above to missturbation? It's a moot point, but I'm not over weight from years of sitting around, that's why I stay this way, not how I got this way. I don't think any one really cares, exactly how I got this way though so I won't bore you all with details* nor give some people here more firepower, and an easier target to pick at and flame than I already do lol since it's a kind of person thing sometimes* quote: I would, I will admit have a lot of growing up to do, before I'd ever want to bringing into a situation someone who's dependant on me to have my shit together. quote: ORIGINAL: hizgeorgiapeach It's got little to do with feeling like some sort of "amazing" mom myself - and a lot to do with the general trend of your various threads over the past year, yhma. You don't DO anything, and then wonder why you have no energy and can't seem to actually make any Progress in loosing the excess weight that got there from Years of sitting and not Doing anything. And yet, despite the fact that you sabotage yourself Routinely by binge eatting - you seem to feel you're in a position to say "I Won't let my eventual spawn do this." Hell girl - you can't even exert sufficient control to keep Yourself from doing so, but ya think yer gonna manage to keep someone Else on the straight and narrow??? I'm simply tired of giving coddling answers that have little to do with anything other than enabling yet more self destructive behavior, giggling posts that try to turn significant flaws in self control into some sort of Good thing, and blinkered vision.

FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: Incident yesterday I found kind of amusing. (1/23/2009 8:23:05 AM)
Babes, you sometimes do offer too much info, and open yourself up to responses which are unkind, though maybe true. Why make it so easy? M

missturbation -> RE: Incident yesterday I found kind of amusing. (1/23/2009 8:24:25 AM)
These aren't flames hun, just observations. How you got the way you are is pretty irrelevant. The fact you are doing zilch about is is the point. As hizgeorgiapeach said you ask for advice but when given it worm your way out of following any of it. Noone can help you unless you want to help yourself.

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Incident yesterday I found kind of amusing. (1/23/2009 8:27:30 AM)
Fullfig, Well I'm just a very open and honest and friendly person, I am kind of like the puppy dog, who's always happy and care free and open to being friendly with all people, as long as they don't yank his ears or pull his tail, and if people want to use my open ness and honesty and to target me, sometimes I just have to live with it. All though there are certain things I won't post, since I'm not willing to be THAT easy of a target. Anyway the threads purpose was supposed to be more about how funny, I found saying I'd institute a code phrase, so he wouldn't imagain the worst is happening, when I am simply off doing a day of hard work. Not about how lazy and spoiled I am lol. quote: ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMAAM1 Babes, you sometimes do offer too much info, and open yourself up to responses which are unkind, though maybe true. Why make it so easy? M

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Incident yesterday I found kind of amusing. (1/23/2009 9:10:13 AM)
missturbation, never said they were:) But, I have opened myself up to flaming before, and I am saying I have and recognize that I have, n ot that these are flames. Infact I quite agree with most people on here. I am spoiled I am lazy and I do have one hell of a lot of growing up to do before I EVER co nsider trying to keep someone else on the "strait and narrow" And for people who're pissed off and saying I don't like honest answers tough shit, I never had a problem with the replies here, sept the one pot shot. I fully OWN AND ADMIT AND AGREE to some of the things pointed out in replies, and people are saying I am having problems with the replies, tough shit don't expect coddling? WHERE in this thread, in all the agreeing with people who said I am lazy and spoiled and bring these things onto myself, and saying yes I have tons of growing up to, have I EVER said I don't like your answers stop it stop it, jolly me along coddle me. I have not asked for advice I haven't followed in recent threads, This thread wasn't asking for advice, and the other thread about detoxing wasn't asking for advice IT was asking how others like to detox, as a conversation. IF people want to give advice, go for it, but advice wasn't being asked for. The thread about massage therapy wasn't asking for advice, either, it was asking if any one could recommend a place to go for massging. When I asked for advice about fish I am following what people have said, I have someone privately on CM who's emailing me fish recipes so I can cook myself some fish. When I asked how do you sneak veggies into meats, I've been following their advice. Hell I don't sneak them in, I eat them raw and outright now. How is that "wiggling out of the advice given" quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation These aren't flames hun, just observations. How you got the way you are is pretty irrelevant. The fact you are doing zilch about is is the point. As hizgeorgiapeach said you ask for advice but when given it worm your way out of following any of it. Noone can help you unless you want to help yourself.

missturbation -> RE: Incident yesterday I found kind of amusing. (1/23/2009 9:17:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss missturbation, never said they were:) But, I have opened myself up to flaming before, and I am saying I have and recognize that I have, n ot that these are flames. Infact I quite agree with most people on here. I am spoiled I am lazy and I do have one hell of a lot of growing up to do before I EVER co nsider trying to keep someone else on the "strait and narrow" And for people who're pissed off and saying I don't like honest answers tough shit, I never had a problem with the replies here, sept the one pot shot. I fully OWN AND ADMIT AND AGREE to some of the things pointed out in replies, and people are saying I am having problems with the replies, tough shit don't expect coddling? WHERE in this thread, in all the agreeing with people who said I am lazy and spoiled and bring these things onto myself, and saying yes I have tons of growing up to, have I EVER said I don't like your answers stop it stop it, jolly me along coddle me. I have not asked for advice I haven't followed in recent threads, This thread wasn't asking for advice, and the other thread about detoxing wasn't asking for advice IT was asking how others like to detox, as a conversation. IF people want to give advice, go for it, but advice wasn't being asked for. The thread about massage therapy wasn't asking for advice, either, it was asking if any one could recommend a place to go for massging. When I asked for advice about fish I am following what people have said, I have someone privately on CM who's emailing me fish recipes so I can cook myself some fish. When I asked how do you sneak veggies into meats, I've been following their advice. Hell I don't sneak them in, I eat them raw and outright now. How is that "wiggling out of the advice given" quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation These aren't flames hun, just observations. How you got the way you are is pretty irrelevant. The fact you are doing zilch about is is the point. As hizgeorgiapeach said you ask for advice but when given it worm your way out of following any of it. Noone can help you unless you want to help yourself. Forgive me for my confusion but all through this thread alone you have complained of flaming against you. I'm not saying you don't take it on the chin but you can't post things on the line you do and expect to not get flamed. If you want to psot as honestly as you do then fine, thats great, im the same but dont act shocked or complain when things are said you see as flammatory.

Dnomyar -> RE: Incident yesterday I found kind of amusing. (1/23/2009 9:42:11 AM)
Mod are you looking the other way [sm=stickineye.gif]

missturbation -> RE: Incident yesterday I found kind of amusing. (1/23/2009 9:46:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar Mod are you looking the other way [sm=stickineye.gif] Oi [:@] The mods manage to spot my ramblings pretty wel on their own yanno. No need to direct them [;)]

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Incident yesterday I found kind of amusing. (1/23/2009 9:48:45 AM)
missturbation, I think you misinterpreted my statement, it wasn't complaining, It was a statement that I do invite the trouble I come across sometimes by running my mouth. It's an admission, that I know sometimes I shove my foot in there and gnaw on it, so I deserve some ribbing. quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation Forgive me for my confusion but all through this thread alone you have complained of flaming against you. I'm not saying you don't take it on the chin but you can't post things on the line you do and expect to not get flamed. If you want to psot as honestly as you do then fine, thats great, im the same but dont act shocked or complain when things are said you see as flammatory.

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