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pinnipedster -> RE: Bondage and boredom (1/25/2009 7:12:59 PM)
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I can see where this would be a problem, though, being a bondage lover, I usually have the opposite problem -- I'm disappointed at not being left bound long enough (at least, if the position is reasonably comfortable). Either the Dominant herself gets bored, or is worried that I am bored or uncomfortable.
If someone were to ask me how long I would like to be left tied up, my answer would probably be "10% longer than I want to be," if you see what I mean -- I would like it to go on long enough that it isn't actually disappointing to be released, in fact I'm starting to crave it, but not so much longer that it becomes really unpleasant.
So far, though, the ladies I have been lucky enough to play with are more the sort who view bondage as a means, not an end in itself. I'd love to find someone who found just tying me up for a while to be a satisfying form of play. Objectification also sounds very yummy. :) (Were I female, young, and reasonably limber and pretty, I would so be trying to become a model for the House of Gord....*sigh*)
(One Domme did find it rather charming that I once fell asleep when she had be bound on her floor -- rather than feeling she was boring me, she was pleased that I apparently found bondage relaxing and comforting enough to fall asleep.)
Of course, as others have noted, there's a difference if the bondage is for actual punishment, rather than just a kind of play. Then, you are presumably supposed to suffer enough that you will work to avoid similar punishment in the future. For some people, that kind of boredom might well be a more effective punishment than a beating or some kind of unpleasant make-work. But, if that's the case, presumably the Dominant would explain what it is punishment for and how to avoid being subjected to it again.
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