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iluvurtoes -> When is she the right one (1/9/2006 9:49:43 PM)
This is for all subs curious as to how to decipher a domme in public. Not knowing but believing she is in the lifestyle and unsure how to approach a Mistress?

seaturtle50 -> RE: When is she the right one (1/9/2006 10:36:23 PM)
Hi, Good question. If this is happening to you, you may wish to provide more information, in order to get the best possible answers to your questions. IMHO you do not need to find out if she is a Domme from afar. You simply need to begin to talk to her, and get to know her, and let her get to know you. If there is a mutual attraction at all (general attraction not D/s) you will soon find out what you desire to know. Let your approach and manner with her be natural. If she is a Domme, she will spot you, a mile away. ;-) The whole thing sounds like alot of fun to me ;-) m

veronicaofML -> RE: When is She the right one (1/9/2006 11:44:18 PM)
for the most part..i go up and ask.......

MistressOfGa -> RE: When is she the right one (1/10/2006 3:38:43 AM)
If there is a mutual attraction at all (general attraction not D/s) you will soon find out what you desire to know. Let your approach and manner with her be natural. If she is a Domme, she will spot you, a mile away. ;-) You are so right! I can spot someone who is submissive from across a crowded room. It is like I have sub-radar. <s>

veronicaofML -> RE: When is she the right one (1/10/2006 8:22:09 AM)
You are so right! I can spot someone who is submissive from across a crowded room. It is like I have sub-radar. <s> ======================= i got $100 if I am alone somewhere and doing nothing but being my normal self.. you couldn't tell nothing....as a matter of fact........ "I" bet you would think "I" am a male dom... most people claim..."I" am too loud, aggressive, and over whelming...to be a house slave..

MistressOfGa -> RE: When is she the right one (1/10/2006 8:42:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: veronicaofML You are so right! I can spot someone who is submissive from across a crowded room. It is like I have sub-radar. <s> ======================= i got $100 if I am alone somewhere and doing nothing but being my normal self.. you couldn't tell nothing....as a matter of fact........ "I" bet you would think "I" am a male dom... most people claim..."I" am too loud, aggressive, and over whelming...to be a house slave.. Hmm..you would win that bet then, since I don't know you. Let me just say that "normally" I can spot a submissive across the room! lmao!

MsCece2u -> RE: When is she the right one (1/10/2006 9:20:59 AM)
I would have to agree with just being yourself. I am sure that if she is a Domme you will be able to tell after talking for awhile. Some things are just inherent and natural. So just relax and enjoy the conversation and let nature take its course.

MHOO314 -> RE: When is she the right one (1/10/2006 9:47:36 AM)
It's the red D on Her chest, the whip hanging on Her belt and the spurs, a tad bloodied-- okok sorry a bit tongue in cheek there, now let Me go get the blood off the spurs--

fergus -> RE: When is she the right one (1/10/2006 11:03:51 AM)
Seems to me that if you are a sub naturally, you will naturally be attracted to strong-willed women. I think Elise Sutton has some sound advice on her web-site about bringing out the Domme tendencies in the woman in your life ... most of centered around serving her .... NOT expecting her to Domme you. http://www.elisesutton.homestead.com/Main.html fergus

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