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Who else had types of play seem repugnant at f irst the... - 1/24/2009 2:24:01 PM

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As a negotiation of getting to go to play parties, I was told I'd have to come gagged, because that's what they want,( no, it wasn't daddy who suggested it but I won't go into any more details in a public forrum)

and at first I was put off but then I was like oh hey cool this will be a really good way to connect with Daddy and play in a deeper way. And who knows I may even love being relieved of the pressure I feel to be a social butterfly sometimes.

Now I am eagerly looking forward to Daddy and I working out signals , and discussing how we're going to make this work.

Who else has found a requirement repugnant at first and then after a while became very very excited about it.

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RE: Who else had types of play seem repugnant at f irst... - 1/24/2009 4:51:58 PM

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way back when, in my subbie youth, i used to hate that my dom required me to be fully naked all the time. being new to things and not well versed, it bugged me. and of course having a crappy body image didn't help. after awhile i found it very natural and it almost felt weird in another relationship where the dominant didn't require it.
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RE: Who else had types of play seem repugnant at f irst... - 1/24/2009 5:16:36 PM

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Pm, I had a dominant once who played off my love of being naked when I was with him,* which was sadly only once in real life since we ended shortly after* he required me to wear a bra and clothing. I never learned to like it though lol. But it was an interesting way to show his dominance over me and my actions.

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RE: Who else had types of play seem repugnant at f irst... - 1/24/2009 6:44:56 PM

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I was always terrified of hoods. I guess it was the way they looked on other people

. but, I find wearing one while we play to be tremendously comforting. I like it, and feel really secure wearing one.

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RE: Who else had types of play seem repugnant at f irst... - 1/24/2009 6:50:58 PM

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This might sound wacky, but men. I was *not* interested in them until my bi-sexual Domme started getting me to play with them and learn to appreciate men as beautiful, wonderful beings.

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RE: Who else had types of play seem repugnant at f irst... - 1/24/2009 6:52:35 PM

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That is certainly understandable, Some stuff can look absolutely scary on others, but turn out to be divine once you don't have to see the item in question, just wear it or experience it.

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I was always terrified of hoods. I guess it was the way they looked on other people . but, I find wearing one while we play to be tremendously comforting. I like it, and feel really secure wearing one.

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RE: Who else had types of play seem repugnant at f irst... - 1/24/2009 7:39:05 PM

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There was a time when I thought the idea of spanking was...not really "repugnant", but just dumb. I have since been indoctrinated and have changed my opinion.

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RE: Who else had types of play seem repugnant at f irst... - 1/24/2009 9:10:52 PM

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ORIGINAL: PanthersMom

way back when, in my subbie youth, i used to hate that my dom required me to be fully naked all the time. being new to things and not well versed, it bugged me. and of course having a crappy body image didn't help. after awhile i found it very natural... PM

Same here. The funny thing is that when I first started chatting with Sir, I swore I'd never, ever be comfortable with, much less choose to be nude most or all of the time. And now....

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