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sparkyRBF -> RE: Play Questions for Subs (1/26/2009 2:50:00 PM)
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ORIGINAL: LarabysLair
Perhaps people here need to look up the definition of flame(r/ing). Flaming is akin to ad hominem attack. It is certain verbiage that is directed against a specific individual that is unfounded/untrue and used only to redirect attention from the main argument.
Are you all just so ditsy or walled-up or batty or fake or what-have-you that you need someone else to answer simple questions for you?
And this is true and founded and not meant to redirect attention from the main topic?
In my opinion, the argument is simply whether or not it is apropriate for a sub to ask a forum to do her assignment for her/him. Note the original pot.
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I have a weekly assignment of writing journals describing what i think a session with Sir would involve and be like on any play i choose.
This part of the OP is NOT a question. It is NOT an argument. Nothing in the OP is an argument. Only one question, a specific question.
Three issues here. - She was given the "assignment", not the board.
She never asked the assignment be done for her, but for personal experiences in specific areas
If any submissives could tell me about their experience with vaccum play, outdoor play, breast and ass play i could get some ideas about what it might be like to go there.
- He wanted to know what she thinks / feels / expects.
It is for her Dom to decide if she does her assignment, not you.
- The idea was for her to choose what play she enjoys.
Did you give her this assignment?
- I expect the Dom didn't expect a game to be made out of it, but that's just my opinion as perhaps he did.
Where is the game in this question?
If any submissives could tell me about their experience with vaccum play, outdoor play, breast and ass play i could get some ideas about what it might be like to go there.
As far as my take on the quality of persons here with actual background and desires for what they claim goes - I have already experienced the scammers (nigerian and otherwise), the ones with fake pics, the ones with no idea what they really seek but know some terminology, the ones with multiple profiles to present different faces, the ones who need to get out more, etc. So, perhaps I am jaded and sceptical an even cynical.
Everyone else on collarme has also experienced such people and don't feel the need to add unhelpful unwelcome, degrading speeches.
However, as I said, my soapbox stand was not aimed at the OP, it was a rant in general. Don't like me? Fine, don't play with me and put me on ignore. Always a fine choice. :-)
If it was not aimed at the OP then start a new thread. and i don't know you enough to not like you, but it's looking promising so far.
Who in the blazes could ever tell her what kind of play she likes? Someone here clain to have her answers? LOL
Now, if the post had already included her thoughts on play choices and she had done her assignment and wished to check with others for comparison, that would be an entirely different matter. :) But then, I'm not the assignment police. So I don't really care.
She is not asking you to tell her how she feels about breast play, or vacuum play.. she is asking how you feel about your experience. And if you aren't the assignment police, why are you so up in arms about her assignment and how its done?
You were rude, and it doesn't take a mind reader to see it, just an average reader.
Sincerely
sparkyRBF
Happily owned slave of
RedBotttomFarms
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