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Sexual oddities? - 1/10/2006 3:56:37 PM   
KCMOLucky


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Status: offline 		So, in the General forum is a "What turns you on" thread. Well, I thought about a few of the things that turned me on, and some of them are seemingly sterotypically unusual. Here's a portion of my answer:


quote:


  • I like someone who's stronger than me. I'm REALLY strong, but I love someone who can overpower me and take what they want.


*also added

  • A slap on the bottom
  • A slap on the face
  • Sometimes being choked, if the moment is right. Selective asphyxiation, I suppose. It's not about the choking, though, it's about the fear.


    So, Domme's, do you find that sometimes you get turned on by or desire things like that?
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    RE: Sexual oddities? - 1/10/2006 6:14:48 PM   
    mp072004


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    Status: offline     		Absolutely. I bottom periodically myself, and have quite a masochistic streak. I'd be a laughably rotten submissive, but a good caning _on my terms_ is great.

    On the other hand, you might be a switch on the D/s axis, especially if it's being overpowered that turns you on. Something to think about...or, you could just eschew labels and get choked when you want and make people kneel before you when you want. :)

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    RE: Sexual oddities? - 1/10/2006 6:25:33 PM   
    Duste


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    I'm definatly a fan of the sudden switch-around. There's nothing as 'refreshing' as the whole thing changing at the drop of the hat.


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    RE: Sexual oddities? - 1/10/2006 6:47:01 PM   
    sub4YourPeds


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    Status: offline     		One sterotypical persona that always turns me on, is that of a strong woman.

    When one couples that persona with a deep desire to project her power, to fulfill her needs, though the use of a submisssive male, that is not a sexual oddity. That is an extremely desirable woman to a select subset of the population.

    And those of us in that subset, eagerly strive to meet such a woman - just once in our lives. A woman with a distinct and clear sense of what she wants would have her choice of men to occupy that very special place at her feet.


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    RE: Sexual oddities? - 1/10/2006 9:31:12 PM   
    veronicaofML


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    is there one for house chores?

    it's all I do..it's all that turns ME on...but I THINK .. I said that ..in THAT thread?

    I do not do anything else...
    sex is not for me
    s/m stuff aint my line
    romance sucks

    I mean hey yo..
    all I got left til my grave is my house chores.


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    RE: Sexual oddities? - 1/12/2006 1:52:30 AM   
    gasper1


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    Status: offline     		i like being choked. it makes me orgasm really strongly

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    RE: Sexual oddities? - 1/12/2006 6:24:29 AM   
    BeeQueen


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    the wish for strong woman is nothing odd...met dozens of guyz...its a bit tricky tho
    i used to do bodybuilding, but still a male with 160lbs up, usually overpowers a woman easy.
    since most of u guyz outrun us in weight and size, finding a dominant woman that can hold u down is tricky.

    i used to pick my subs wise *grin*, not more than 150lbs and slim, that puts me in the possibility to control them, lift them up in bondage, and throw over my lap with one arm (holding them in a leglock).

    im not a big fan of guyz that try to *fight* back, it usually ends in one gettin harmed, while a bit wrestling around for fun is nice tho. but i generally drop guyz that try to show how tough and strong they r. its no fun to have a real fight match, and i dont fancy a role change on force.
    Bee

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    RE: Sexual oddities? - 1/12/2006 7:00:11 AM   
    MHOO314


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    Status: offline     		I prefer and have always sought a submissive who is taller and larger than I am--I stand 5'7 barefoot and can tower 6 in heels--there is just something hot about a big man kneeling, or crawling--- I just like knowing I can take what I want when I want it, that in itself is a huge turnon---

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    RE: Sexual oddities? - 1/12/2006 9:17:59 AM   
    veronicaofML


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    Status: offline     		it seems to ME..............size should NOT be a factor unless you are a domme that has 'an' issue of getting above a slave/sub...when ya wanna BE domme.
    i.e
    'a' domme somewhere...in 'a' list..said she had difficulty standing above a boy that was taller than she was...even on his knees....

    otherwise..if he aint being subservient..he aint real..huh?

    there should never BE a struggle of strength...
    but then again..the brute strength OF a male vs female..
    my 1st wife was 325 lbs and i was a mere 170...but "I" was still brute enough to pick her up and put her anywhere i wanted.

    'a' man will always be...bigger...in brute...
    a female..should not...have-to..revert to it..

    either he WANTS to comply or he dont.

    take care


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    RE: Sexual oddities? - 1/12/2006 10:01:43 AM   
    LadyBeckett


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    Status: offline     		Among My favorite "things" is a sweet leather paddle that I adore using on smooth unblemished buttocks. Alone, the ability to do so does not equate to power.

    If submission isn't natural, boys and girls, then it isn't submission. A natural submissive adores the power so obvious in a Domina's breath, the gentle lowering of Her eyelids as she turns to look, the confidence in her stride, and the energy in every single word she speaks. The natural submissive will ache to be close enough to memorize the scent and taste of Her. Whether he is on his knees or not his submission, dedicated to Her, is apparent in the unbroken flow of power between them continuously.

    I prefer My boys to be tall, masculine, realistically muscular, and naturally submissive. I don't believe there any sexual "oddities" in the Lifestyle, are there?

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    RE: Sexual oddities? - 1/13/2006 4:59:45 AM   
    BeeQueen


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    it seems to ME..............size should NOT be a factor unless you are a domme that has 'an' issue of getting above a slave/sub...when ya wanna BE domme.

    u ever tried to do a hanging bondage with a guy that is double as heavy as u??....hmm..guess not or u would know that for some games it DOES matter. the factor is also personal preference - dont u guess that? i like guyz slim, i like the feeling of his weight on my shoulders while i hang him off the hook (doesnt work while wearing high heels tho..hehe) and i love the feeling of a squirming body in my arms......so, personal preference before generalised favorism - man does not have to bee bigger than a woman to make a good cpl. i dont need to feel protected by his masculinity

    'a' man will always be...bigger...in brute...
    a female..should not...have-to..revert to it..

    the question was not if female should have to - the guy said he enjoys a woman to bee stronger ...all i said is that that is tricky when u 6ft3 tall and muscled, than it is VERY unlikly that u will find a stronger woman.what i dont like is guyz that go for a real confrontation, by using brute force, or masochists that all of a sudden wanna switch the roles and use their physical strengh to do so - would not want to play with them

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    RE: Sexual oddities? - 1/13/2006 1:32:19 PM   
    jock888


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    Status: offline     		BeeQueen,
    WOW, you look very strong and powerful. I just love to be overpowered by a stronger mistress and love to be carried and tossed around. There are some very very strong mistresses I have met that take an equal pleasure in showing me their superior strength. I have truly enjoyed reading your posts and look forward to more of your experiences and thoughts. I hope you are enjoying the New Year.
    Sean

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    RE: Sexual oddities? - 1/14/2006 8:18:01 AM   
    TexasMaam


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    quote:

    ORIGINAL: MHOO314

    I prefer and have always sought a submissive who is taller and larger than I am--I stand 5'7 barefoot and can tower 6 in heels--there is just something hot about a big man kneeling, or crawling--- I just like knowing I can take what I want when I want it, that in itself is a huge turnon---


    YOU SAID IT!

    I stand six feet tall. My sub is 6'5". His long legs, long arms, long torso, broad shoulders, muscular frame, the thickness of his neck, wide jaws, masculine demeanor suddenly softening as he lowers his head, dropping to kneel before Me as he begs to touch Me...............*OH MY*............absolutely SENDS Me every single time!

    Excuse Me, I have to go now...(heart thumping, face flushing with heat)....



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    RE: Sexual oddities? - 1/14/2006 1:18:07 PM   
    seaturtle50


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    Status: offline     		Thank You LadyBeckett,

    quote:

    If submission isn't natural, boys and girls, then it isn't submission. A natural submissive adores the power so obvious in a Domina's breath, the gentle lowering of Her eyelids as she turns to look, the confidence in her stride, and the energy in every single word she speaks. The natural submissive will ache to be close enough to memorize the scent and taste of Her. Whether he is on his knees or not his submission, dedicated to Her, is apparent in the unbroken flow of power between them continuously.


    i now understand that i am 100% natural!

    michael

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    RE: Sexual oddities? - 1/18/2006 2:28:11 AM   
    mons


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    Status: offline     		i adore the lowering of the eyes that look of oh please pick me take me spank me and hold me after is my turn on the eyes have it, humor and knowledge is a great turn on. someone who thinks i can not control own, orbeat him is something too i adore .i like my man taller even if it one inche taller and no the size does not matter lol spanks a lot


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    RE: Sexual oddities? - 1/18/2006 11:10:53 AM   
    MadameDahlia


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    quote:

    ORIGINAL: TexasMaam


    quote:

    ORIGINAL: MHOO314

    I prefer and have always sought a submissive who is taller and larger than I am--I stand 5'7 barefoot and can tower 6 in heels--there is just something hot about a big man kneeling, or crawling--- I just like knowing I can take what I want when I want it, that in itself is a huge turnon---


    YOU SAID IT!

    I stand six feet tall. My sub is 6'5". His long legs, long arms, long torso, broad shoulders, muscular frame, the thickness of his neck, wide jaws, masculine demeanor suddenly softening as he lowers his head, dropping to kneel before Me as he begs to touch Me...............*OH MY*............absolutely SENDS Me every single time!

    Excuse Me, I have to go now...(heart thumping, face flushing with heat)....



    Texas Maam


    *Chuckles* On that alone I might have to um... take care of business. Without a doubt hot.

    I'll definitely second all of that - aside from the six feet tall thing. I'm five foot two without shoes.

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