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Male Dom in BootWorship/Trampling and SubLadies: Why it... - 1/26/2009 4:40:24 PM

BootSadist

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Hey there guys, and girls. I am kind of puzzled after some events ina chat for another website and I am curious. I am into boots, hence the nick, and I love using boots, but the most I love is to use them, my favorite being cowboy, english riding/hunting, wescos/engineers harness and bikers and hevea thermo and tower sole boots. I enjoy getting them licked, using them sexually and also for trampling/stomping and crushing, perhaps some ebatdown and I am a good whip user and use body suits such as rubber and latex or hazmat ones and the typical armor gear.

My question is: Every time I find someone into boots, doing my thing fromt he receiving end, they happen to be Male slaves or Subs, I mean, only once ina blue moon a girl comes around to ask me if she can play with me in my boots. I once heard in this website that boot fetish and such is practically a 99% male thing if it comes from the receiving end, but c'mon, no girls into it really ?

I guess I am either looking to see if 1% is the right number or a zero can be added on the right of it or if it's a larger chunk off the pie, just to see if life's not so dull in that fetish field.

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RE: Male Dom in BootWorship/Trampling and SubLadies: Wh... - 1/26/2009 5:28:02 PM

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Heh, the trampling might just be that most men are generally heavier than their female counterparts, and the woman might be a little squeamish about being smooshed. For me something like that would be out of the question- as I've had so many little breaks and stuff that it would probably re-injure something.

When you say using them sexually... would that mean trying to cram your boot up in her hoo-ha? I wouldn't think that would be too healthy, but what the hell, I've heard worse, perhaps its something like fisting if you do it right.... and if she can convince you to lube up your boot.

And, while I don't have a boot fetish exactly, I do love 'dirty' men... contruction workers, fire fighters, a army guy in camo (Did you know an army ambulance is quite roomy in the back?) So it stands to reason I love their dirty boots as well. ;)

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RE: Male Dom in BootWorship/Trampling and SubLadies: Wh... - 1/26/2009 5:38:16 PM

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i enjoy trampling men not men trampling me

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RE: Male Dom in BootWorship/Trampling and SubLadies: Wh... - 1/26/2009 6:36:53 PM

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I'd venture to say because most women do not get off or see service as licking dust off a guys boots where men see it as a means of grovelling to the lowest depths--I mean guys will eat anything right?

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RE: Male Dom in BootWorship/Trampling and SubLadies: Wh... - 1/26/2009 6:49:20 PM

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True fetishes are rare in females no matter what the object d'fetish is.

That being said, plenty of fem subs are into the activity, it just needs to be about more than "the boot"- unless you find a read bootpig, but those are rare and usually taken.

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RE: Male Dom in BootWorship/Trampling and SubLadies: Wh... - 1/26/2009 6:56:32 PM

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I'll admit to having a boot fetish.....not so much being trampled....but there's something very hot about a Man wearing boots...maybe it's the sense of power it portrays, the confidence.
I like taking care of my Man's boots.....bootblacking when they need it....an act of service to Him..
Then there is the whole ritual of kneeling before Him to assist putting them on or off.....
The submissive posture of kneeling and kissing them.......
Lets also not forget the sexual use...rubbing a wet cunt against His boot...riding it...getting yourself off while He watches........ Oh my!

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RE: Male Dom in BootWorship/Trampling and SubLadies: Wh... - 1/26/2009 7:03:19 PM

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What LA said. It's fairly rare that I come across a profile for a woman expressing much interest in any particular item: be it a piece of clothing, a type of fabric, or a specific toy. That seems to be more of a man thing generally.

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RE: Male Dom in BootWorship/Trampling and SubLadies: Wh... - 1/26/2009 7:52:20 PM

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I can't say it's a fetish, and I'm not into fetish wear, but I do enjoy worshipping Sir's boots. I love it when he plops them in my lap when I'm naked and I unlace and take 'em off. But it doesn't go much beyond that. (and I have a sneaking suspicion he cleans them somewhat before I get there so I'm not licking anything awful.)

Trampling? No thank you.

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RE: Male Dom in BootWorship/Trampling and SubLadies: Wh... - 1/26/2009 8:15:15 PM

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While I don't have a bootlicking fetish, I do worship Master and that includes licking his boots when he requires it and anything else he wishes me to lick and/or worship.

It's not about the boots though..it's about the fact that I enjoy being of service to him in whatever way he wishes and/or allows.

At times he will also "trample" my face with his foot but I don't really see this as trampling, just exerting his power and strength over me because I know that with enough pressure if he wanted to do damage to me he could. It's just one more way of making sure I understand where my place is with him.

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RE: Male Dom in BootWorship/Trampling and SubLadies: Wh... - 1/26/2009 8:28:20 PM

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Sometimes I wonder what exactly is a fetish. Is it something someone needs in order to get off or just something that turns someone on? I mean, a lot of things turn me on but would that make em fetishes? Like having my inner thigh rubbed..is that a fetish?

Aside from all that, I know for sure boots do nothing for me and I certainly don't want to lick them. I don't like nasty tasting things in my mouth and boots hit the ground to get walked on so...eww dirt. They'd have to be uber clean and the guy would have to be uber special; ie I wouldn't do it because I want to, I'd only do it for a special guy with clean boots if he wanted it. But hopefully no guy ever will because it also looks like a degrading act and not one that entices me.

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RE: Male Dom in BootWorship/Trampling and SubLadies: Wh... - 1/26/2009 8:42:11 PM

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Like others, I'd do most of it but it wouldn't be about the boots. It'd be about him. For me, I'd squirm a bit about licking the boots because that the idea of licking dirt and whatever might have been stepped on would send me to a not happy place. If I did it, the result would not be happiness and wet panties. Plus spit polishing doesn't feel like an act of devotation to me. It sounds gross. I can achieve the same effect without using a germy mess of saliva and getting my mouth dry. No doubt it's a mental thing on my part.

I think boots are sexy but I don't think I'd ask to see a guy play in them. I'd probably just comment that they are sexy and assume that if he wants to wear them he will. There are few things I actively seek out and even then it's not with the fevor that I see in men going after their "prize".

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RE: Male Dom in BootWorship/Trampling and SubLadies: Wh... - 1/27/2009 3:20:39 AM

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Oooooo...I love boots. And tennies. And slingbacks. And pumps. Ohh...and sandals.

Not my kink, but I think you're right...probably more a man thing. I have a thing for arms, but I can't think of any clothing item that fits the bill.

(oh, yeah...flip flops are nice, too!)

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RE: Male Dom in BootWorship/Trampling and SubLadies: Wh... - 1/27/2009 9:46:34 AM

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Boots have never really done anything for me. Unless they are snow boots they are useful, boots for me is when you ride horses. Master does not wear them he wears dress shoes or sneakers. if Master did wear boots and he wanted me to lick them (though he would never ask) i would do it but not be happy about it. As for the trampling no thank you i bruise way to easy.

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RE: Male Dom in BootWorship/Trampling and SubLadies: Wh... - 1/27/2009 11:19:30 AM

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I don't care about boots or feet but i really like trampling.....without shoes. Licking shoes is gross to me, not arousing at all.

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RE: Male Dom in BootWorship/Trampling and SubLadies: Wh... - 1/27/2009 11:41:01 AM

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If you are talking about a Bootfetish, then yes, it is more male orientated because less women have a fetish of any kind.
But yes we are out there and boots/show/foot worship rocks.

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RE: Male Dom in BootWorship/Trampling and SubLadies: Wh... - 1/27/2009 1:01:23 PM

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I was talking to a friend a few nights ago, he was mentioning how hard it is to find a fem-sub who is willing to kiss his boots in a club.

The conclusion he and I wound up at was that a lot of people are less "submissive" and more "masochistic" in public. Granted, this was a conversation between he and I and I am certainly far more submissive in private than public, but then, I hold that intimacy is a fundamentally private thing.

In other news... I like boots. But in private, not public.

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RE: Male Dom in BootWorship/Trampling and SubLadies: Wh... - 1/27/2009 1:58:59 PM

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I dislike the incorrect usage of the term fetish that has become popular.
Generally, the males I have discussed foot or shoe worship with like the perception of the female as more powerful and being tred upon or at the woman's feet/shoe level tweaks that sense of relinquishment of power.
Perhaps fewer women are into feet/footwear-baed play because we already realize that we're the physically weaker of the sexes (Generally) and, thus, it's not as direct a symbology.
That having been said, I prefer boots, on myself and others, more than any other footwear; it is an aesthetic I particularly enjoy and I do connote boots with power (Even if they have 5 inch spiked heels, boots are more structurally sound than shoes of similar height, thus I feel I can walk with greater authority and strength when wearing them).
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RE: Male Dom in BootWorship/Trampling and SubLadies: Wh... - 1/27/2009 3:06:02 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

I'd venture to say because most women do not get off or see service as licking dust off a guys boots where men see it as a means of grovelling to the lowest depths--I mean guys will eat anything right?

LOL ROTFLOL, LMAOL Ha ha ha ha ha ha......

Oh man...never had I laughed that hard.....

Ok, yep, we can eat anything as long as it contains proteins and doesn't contain too many germs (so we can coock it first) and it's not a product of but instead a part of a living organism.....

And that would explain why I can eat Hindu food.....not to insult Hindu food, i hate it, but my boss loved it so..what the Hell...i don't complain for the flavor, it's good, but I need a lot of room to run for the next restroom available when we finish .....how's that for an image ?..LOL

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RE: Male Dom in BootWorship/Trampling and SubLadies: Wh... - 1/27/2009 3:16:35 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: silkncarol

I'll admit to having a boot fetish.....not so much being trampled....but there's something very hot about a Man wearing boots...maybe it's the sense of power it portrays, the confidence.
I like taking care of my Man's boots.....bootblacking when they need it....an act of service to Him..
Then there is the whole ritual of kneeling before Him to assist putting them on or off.....
The submissive posture of kneeling and kissing them.......
Lets also not forget the sexual use...rubbing a wet cunt against His boot...riding it...getting yourself off while He watches........ Oh my!

Well..that surely lifted my spirit today....and as for what Lynnxz said about it...which was this

<<<<<.......the trampling might just be that most men are generally heavier than their female counterparts, and the woman might be a little squeamish about being smooshed. For me something like that would be out of the question- as I've had so many little breaks and stuff that it would probably re-injure something.

When you say using them sexually... would that mean trying to cram your boot up in her hoo-ha? I wouldn't think that would be too healthy, but what the hell, I've heard worse, perhaps its something like fisting if you do it right.... and if she can convince you to lube up your boot......>>>>

Well, I do lube it up, they are boots I ONLY use for this play, and although i did find some girls in the apst who enjoyed licking ym boots that I wear to work, they did so after we asked mutually to enforce hygiene and clean them first.

The boots I use for this are only worn over plastic or rugs I clean myself (and also hire a service for it that works for Hospitals too and explain I need the environment dust and mold free for I work with sensitive microparts whent hey ask why so clean) and I haven't ever stepped with them 1 foot away from the plastic or rug. The sole is so clean it looks brand-new even. And I sterylize them with some ingredients and never applied any conservant to them, like shoe polish, only an organic oil I purchase once for it. Plus, I never let anyone lick and swallow anything, from the boots or else.

As for the trampling, I fitted a ceiling railing that allows me to walk even on a potato without placing much pressure on it, because I am literally suspended from the harness by a rope. I went to this great lenghts for a Male Sub who had several fractures inh is body healing after almost a year (a dozen and a half of them courtesy of our neighbor country's fighting style and rules) and I had to be extra-careful and very in control to not cause any damage on him. He said that the pressure wasn't even like a massage given to him by a girl half his weight before the fight that broke him. I once tested it and got on a scale placed in his chest when doing so. The numbers didn't go above 100 pounds. And i am not that heavy either !!! I only weight now 145 pounds. Thanks Slim Fast!!!!

Maybe my question is if girls are also fetishists with objects as we men can be. I do get that a girl can lick a man's boots out of her service desire, not out of a love for men's boots, but for the man in the boots. But I am really wondering why is it that, once I explain this to other people too, they also say "well, it's nice, clean and safe...not even hard....but it's not really anything spcecial" while guys actually can say "well, it's too clean and safe and soft for my liking, but if you rough it up and toughten a bit on me we can make things work fine" and I get really shocked at the difference.

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RE: Male Dom in BootWorship/Trampling and SubLadies: Wh... - 1/27/2009 3:52:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BootSadist

quote:

ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

I'd venture to say because most women do not get off or see service as licking dust off a guys boots where men see it as a means of grovelling to the lowest depths--I mean guys will eat anything right?

LOL ROTFLOL, LMAOL Ha ha ha ha ha ha......

Oh man...never had I laughed that hard.....

Ok, yep, we can eat anything as long as it contains proteins and doesn't contain too many germs (so we can coock it first) and it's not a product of but instead a part of a living organism.....

And that would explain why I can eat Hindu food.....not to insult Hindu food, i hate it, but my boss loved it so..what the Hell...i don't complain for the flavor, it's good, but I need a lot of room to run for the next restroom available when we finish .....how's that for an image ?..LOL

Your humor and your image is ill presented IMHO--

Ok, yep, we can eat anything as long as it contains proteins and doesn't contain too many germs (so we can coock it first) and it's not a product of but instead a part of a living organism.....Then why do you go down on women or men for that matter--oooh yeah that whole product of a living organism, but then it can't be cooked can it? and why many women can't swallow---hmm would it be better if we could cook it?

--- when you eat steak its dead, and it has to be dead for a while for the flavor to set in, or do you eat it on the hoof?

And honey I hate to tell you, there are plenty of men who lick boots willingly and Mine are coated with horse manure, just for the chance to kneel in My shadow.

I so hate it when a man is dressed in Armani and arrogance.

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