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Searching for myself ... - 1/26/2009 9:22:49 PM

notsolittleone

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I just left a 20 year relationship. I struggled so long to hide my feelings ... my desires ... I asked and was laughed at ... demeaned. Now I'm free to explore who I am and I don't know where to begin.

I'd love to hear from anyone who cares to write ... especially those in my area.

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RE: Searching for myself ... - 1/26/2009 11:57:04 PM

thesugarplum

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I have no advice I could share with you. I do send my condolences, and hope you find what you are looking for.

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RE: Searching for myself ... - 1/27/2009 3:05:25 AM

ChainGoddess

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Welcome to cm. I wish you so much luck for the future and in your search.

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"Chain of command: I say it. You do it! End of chain."

Anne Rice- When you think night and day and every moment only of pleasing me, things will be very easy for you.

I could give up chocolate but I'm not a quitter.

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RE: Searching for myself ... - 1/27/2009 9:14:35 AM

bardtothebone

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Visit the chatrooms and talk to other subs - their wise counsel will show you whom
to avoid, and save you hours of unwarranted heartache.

Good luck and good health,

The Bard

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"Always do right. This will gratify some people and astonish the rest."' Mark Twain.

Why the Ice Cream? Read this...

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RE: Searching for myself ... - 1/27/2009 1:10:49 PM

Outsider434

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Congratulations on the fresh start, and good luck.

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RE: Searching for myself ... - 1/27/2009 5:27:22 PM

Huntertn

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I agree get into the rooms..ask other subs for advice...and have some fun...Huntertn

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RE: Searching for myself ... - 1/27/2009 9:32:21 PM

FullfigRIMAAM1

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Read books, join groups which are close to where you are in NH or MA, like New England Dungeon society. My thoughts are that it's a very good place for introducing new people to what we do, where you'll make friends, and you'll learn what works for you in time.
Welcome as this place is also great for information seeking, M

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The place to improve the world is first in one's own heart and head and hands.-Robert M. Persig

Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence Erich Fromm

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