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something to think about - 1/27/2009 12:52:50 AM

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is the thought of castration in a femdom context realistic?

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RE: something to think about - 1/27/2009 1:18:43 AM

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Only if the femdom has a jail uniform fetish she wants to turn into reality, I believe.
Besides, why would you put a fem dome in harm's way, when you co it yourself?

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RE: something to think about - 1/27/2009 2:51:08 AM

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No.

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RE: something to think about - 1/27/2009 3:36:25 AM

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NO.

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RE: something to think about - 1/27/2009 3:56:03 AM

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i've only encountered one single solitary person that truly had an interest/fetish/involvement with it. even at that, the method was with a burdizzo, and not some completely unrealistic fantasy driven scenario of blithely removing anything.

so no, it's about as rare and unrealistic as can be achieved; unless you count the pills which will have that "effect", or impending sex changes, but even among "trans" folk, it's pretty rare to see. i suppose you could 'say' it's not unrealistic in the sense of threats, much as the same sense as most 'knife play' is just to make you sweat and worry.

i expect it to remain forever in the realm of 'not even in fantasy' to me, the thing people for some reason don't seem to understand is that you'll lose more than you could imagine if you have it done, you'll lose your entire state of mind, your way of life will change, you will be a completely different human being as a whole; it's not like just losing an arm. [yes i know it sounds ridiculous saying "just" losing an arm] suffice it to say, i like who am at the present, and even if i wanted to change and for some reason was so pathetic that i lacked willpower enough be the person i want to be, i'd look for less absurd means.

so in a nutshell, just read the 2 posts above mine.

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RE: something to think about - 1/27/2009 7:21:21 AM

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Only if your really spaced out on drugs or Loreana Bobbit.

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RE: something to think about - 1/27/2009 7:39:40 AM

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I think one should be:

1) careful about even encouraging someone in this direction for fear of a subsequent lawsuit or charges it the poor little ball-less boy changed his mind, and

2) wondering about the stability and judgment of someone seriously considering proceeding down this path.

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RE: something to think about - 1/27/2009 7:58:19 AM

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No but the constant posting of it in threads is more than annoying.

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RE: something to think about - 1/27/2009 8:01:43 AM

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Agrees with Cat. Its a fantasy you can only realise once...then what?? Are you prepared to live with the consequences. Its a hot fantasy for males, but once it goes to reality...its a dead end, personally I like to be able to relive fantasies over and over again.
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RE: something to think about - 1/27/2009 8:02:42 AM

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Ahhh good morning! What a wake up!

Do you hear no, no, no.... ringing in your ear? You are asking the wrong people... I would suggest a medical expert.

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RE: something to think about - 1/27/2009 8:07:24 AM

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Is this one of those things where fetish and mental disorders go hand in hand?

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RE: something to think about - 1/27/2009 8:13:24 AM

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This is really a one-shot deal.

Personally I like to be able to do things over and over, with variations and subtle or great changes over time.

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RE: something to think about - 1/27/2009 8:16:08 AM

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Real castration? No way. Too risky - medical, legal, ethical, ick-ical...nuff said on real castration...

HOWEVER...a scene where castration is simulated on a blindfolded submissive who maybe doesn't know it's coming...interesting possibilities for CBT, and a pretty good mindfuck, IMO. You would have to be VERY secure in your relationship to do this mind...

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RE: something to think about - 1/27/2009 8:20:59 AM

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likes to play with both the bat and the balls.. so NO

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RE: something to think about - 1/27/2009 9:42:12 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

This is really a one-shot deal.

One shot deal for the sub, too. You can only see what fun it'll be to be a "slave" from the vantage point of someone who's not a slave. You can't jettison your vanilla side - and a man's testicles would be an important part of that vanilla side, I'd imagine.

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RE: something to think about - 1/27/2009 9:44:13 AM

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Thanks for the giggle! I haven't seen a castration thread in ages. Of course, I haven't WANTED to...

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RE: something to think about - 1/27/2009 10:25:48 AM

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I hear you can get a Mexican surgeon to cut off most anything.

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RE: something to think about - 1/27/2009 12:53:11 PM

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I hope this is the right site. I changed my OS and I'm still looking for my links - lol.

http://www.eunuch.org/vbulletin/

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RE: something to think about - 1/27/2009 1:11:49 PM

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Castration????!!!!!!!!!!!!!....Are you leading an abnormal sheltered life and figure this is a good way to breakout???Just a word to the wise..if you cut it off you will be the recipient of another in jail..now that is something to think about.

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RE: something to think about - 1/27/2009 1:24:38 PM

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I don't like penises, and I am not all that fond of the idea of having a male submissive around..........but oh hell NO!

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