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Nikitaa -> Hi. Where do submissives go in the light? (1/27/2009 6:41:07 AM)

Hi collarme people. I am Nikita. I made a profile on collarme last night for the first time. My pictures were not approved and still waiting. I received some mail and I wrote some forum post. This was fun.
I went to bed when 2am came. I woke up right now and I see my pictures and I see 3 pages of mail from submissive men. WOW! I only sleep in bed for 5 hours. Where did the submissive men come out from hiding? Where do they go back to hiding when the lights are on?

I am shocked to see this much mail. Questions are rhetorical do not feel necessary to answer. I make post to introduce myself to collarme forum members before I go to classes. I am a University student. You can tell English is not my first language (Polish, Russian, English). I am getting better and I speak English much better than I write.

bye

Nikita




DarkSteven -> RE: Hi. Where do submissives go in the light? (1/27/2009 6:50:51 AM)

Privet, Nikita!  Welcome to collarme!

You have a lot of reasons.  New females can expect a LOT of interest from men.  We call that the fresh meat syndrome.

Also, the ratio of sub men to Domme women is high.

Then your pics are pretty cute.

Welcome again and I hope you like it here.



SassySarijane -> RE: Hi. Where do submissives go in the light? (1/27/2009 7:10:37 AM)

Hi and welcome to the boards. As Dark Steven said, it's the fresh meat syndrome and I'm betting as soon as your pics showed, they started emailing. Expect 90+ percent to be trolls and HNGs out for whoever will respond, who haven't read your profile, and are not after you as a person, but rather a life support system for their kink. It is a sad fact of reality here. Also expect this to last at least the first month you're here as you show on the new members list for that time and many tend to hit those on that list.



Nikitaa -> RE: Hi. Where do submissives go in the light? (1/27/2009 8:13:07 AM)


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Privet, Nikita!  Welcome to collarme!

You have a lot of reasons.  New females can expect a LOT of interest from men.  We call that the fresh meat syndrome.

Also, the ratio of sub men to Domme women is high.

Then your pics are pretty cute.

Welcome again and I hope you like it here.


Hi DarkSteven
I like the interest submissive men show to me and I am not upset about number of messages.

I am some confused about the messages. Many of the messages only say what the men want. The men do not have a picture and do not write information about themselves with their profile or their messages. I have lots of messages telling me what men want and few messages telling me who men are. I wonder why a man think I would pick him when the man does not tell me about him.

Is okay. I feel like girl in a candy store with lots of money.


Hi SassySarijane. My post is for you and DarkSteven.



peppermint -> RE: Hi. Where do submissives go in the light? (1/27/2009 9:21:45 AM)

The messages you get say what the men want because they don't care what you want.  You see, they are not submissive men.  They are men who come to this site and hope to get someone to talk sexually to them so they can jerk and get off.  It has nothing to do with you except for the facts that you are new here, young, and pretty.  If no one will talk to them sexually, they will jerk to the pictures they find here.  Heck, they get off by just sending the message to you.  This is a free site.  A man does not have to prove he is a submissive before joining so you get all kinds around here.  You'll get a lot of cut and paste messages.  You'll know them because they will not mention anything about you or your profile.  They write a message they can send out to the greatest number of females...and they do send that message to dominant females as well as submissive females because they never read a profile.

My advice is to delete and ignore those messages you do not want to deal with.  Otherwise you will be doing nothing but answering mail here.  Another thing you could do is to say in your profile that you will delete any message that doesn't begin with a certain word.....for example, bunny.  That way you would know that the sender at least read your profile. 



Nikitaa -> RE: Hi. Where do submissives go in the light? (1/27/2009 10:20:03 AM)

Hello pepperment.
I am getting smarter about the message already. I do not try to answer them all. I am choosing short ones randomly and asking the men why they send a message with no information. I am curious and I think asking specific a man why he does something is better than asking everyone on forum. Maybe I make fake submissives happy because they get message but this is okay. I am not upset when people are happy from my actions.

I came to collarme to learn. When I began receiving all the strange messages I almost posted my questions on the forum. I think all on the forum are tired of same questions so I am sending my questions directly to the submissive men in email. I cut and past them back. LOL



windycitysub78 -> RE: Hi. Where do submissives go in the light? (1/27/2009 10:32:17 AM)

Witaj w collarme! :)  Mam nadzieje ze Twoj pobyt tu bedzie pozyteczny.



SassySarijane -> RE: Hi. Where do submissives go in the light? (1/27/2009 1:12:51 PM)

Good thinking, Nikita in sending messages asking them that. *grins*

Now for the big question....how many, if any have replied and did they actually give you any answers when/if they did? Probably most won't reply to answer you and will just move on, or will come back with more do me lists, or insults or some such crap, but that is the way of the trolls and HNGs.



LaTigresse -> RE: Hi. Where do submissives go in the light? (1/27/2009 1:16:23 PM)

How delightful! Another witty sense of humour that is always welcome here.

Welcome to the delicious madness that is Collarme.



ChainGoddess -> RE: Hi. Where do submissives go in the light? (1/27/2009 1:18:54 PM)

Hello Nikita,
Welcome to collarme.  Stay safe and enjoy.



JoePNY707 -> RE: Hi. Where do submissives go in the light? (1/27/2009 2:40:13 PM)

Welcome to CM, Nikita--enjoy!



SassySarijane -> RE: Hi. Where do submissives go in the light? (1/27/2009 3:08:51 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

How delightful! Another witty sense of humour that is always welcome here.

Welcome to the delicious madness that is Collarme.



*grins* Yeah, she oughta fit right in here LaT.



peppermint -> RE: Hi. Where do submissives go in the light? (1/27/2009 3:50:23 PM)

I tried asking them questions.  They replied with one word answers...."bitch".




SassySarijane -> RE: Hi. Where do submissives go in the light? (1/27/2009 3:53:08 PM)

Which is pretty much par for the course, peppermint.



Huntertn -> RE: Hi. Where do submissives go in the light? (1/27/2009 5:24:42 PM)

From what I understand from Domme friends alot of them don't seem to put many thoughts into what they write..they just throw a line out and hope for the best..just have fun reading them and I wish you luck...Huntertn



Nikitaa -> RE: Hi. Where do submissives go in the light? (1/27/2009 5:53:40 PM)


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ORIGINAL: peppermint

I tried asking them questions.  They replied with one word answers...."bitch".




This happens with men in real when not using collarme so I am okay with. I think google translation is becoming tired. Many men are using translation from website to write Polish words to me. Some using bad translator and not realizing what is said to me. They are cute.


Hello to everyone.



SassySarijane -> RE: Hi. Where do submissives go in the light? (1/27/2009 5:55:25 PM)

Sounds like it's proving to be entertaining for you lol, enjoy.



Nikitaa -> RE: Hi. Where do submissives go in the light? (1/27/2009 5:58:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

How delightful! Another witty sense of humour that is always welcome here.

Welcome to the delicious madness that is Collarme.


Some humor is humor because I like to write humor and some is humor because I think in Polish and I when tired my words do not translate correctly. My Polish to English dictionary does not have kinky words. I do not think is appropriate to make call to the English teacher and ask how to write "What size strap on dildo do you prefer."


quote:

wendycitysub78 Witaj w collarme! :) Mam nadzieje ze Twoj pobyt tu bedzie pozyteczny.

Thank you.

I know you did not use google. :-)



windycitysub78 -> RE: Hi. Where do submissives go in the light? (1/27/2009 6:53:18 PM)

Moge wymienic polonijne "atrakcje" na greenpoincie jako kolejny sprawdzian.  Naprzyklad: klub europa, krolewskie jadlo...etc... :)

Napisalem Ci tez prywatna wiadomosc.

Pozdrawiam!

Sorry english speakers, that was rude - back to english! :)




GreedyTop -> RE: Hi. Where do submissives go in the light? (1/27/2009 7:30:56 PM)

welcome, Nikita! 



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