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Man spanking/masturbating other men - 1/11/2006 1:29:19 AM

loopyjohnny

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Since I realised that I wanted to spank etc. Other ideas have come to my head. I feel no sexual , attraction for men as men. They do not attract me in the same way as women I do not want to kiss and cuddle them. However, I am now fascinated by an erect penis. Basically, I want to touch and fondle.

It has been suggested that transvestites may be more appropriate than gay men. What do others hink?

Does this make be gay? How do I get to go about fulfilling this fantasy? Where is the best place to go in Liverpool/Southport/Merseyside?

I can't just go up to a mate or stranger and say all this can I?

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RE: Man spanking/masturbating other men - 1/11/2006 3:04:26 AM

DungeonSpain

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Ho Loopy

I was interested to read your post.

When I first entered the BDSM scene, I was very definitely a submissive. Dominant women, especially bigger fat girls, with large breasts were those that I found most exciting. To be dominated by one was to be everything.

About four years ago. my partner, a very full figured female, and I opened our own dungeon here in Spain. During our training phase when we advertised on Alt.com (a good starting place for you, by the way), I was always the submissive.

As time went on, I became a Master, not by choice, but by demand (yes ... odd ... but there are a lot of females... and males, of course who want to be dominated by a professional male), I discovered that what most excited me was dominating a male slave. I am not sure (like you what the turn on is, beause I am not normally attracted to males, gay or otherwise.

However, in the BDSM scene my excitement is all too obvious. Another odd thing to emanate from this (I can only call it...) a fetish is that my partner finds it a big turn on when she watches me play with another man ...no sexual intercourse, but to merely to watch me masturbate, fellate beat, or humiliate him.

The bottom line on your interest, therefore, is 'go with the flow' and do not try to analyse it ...it's not harming anyone, and you enjoy it. Do not consider yourself gay ...you are not; you just enjoy a different kind of adult 'cowboys and indians'.

Regards from sunny Spain

Highlander (akaStewart)
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RE: Man spanking/masturbating other men - 1/11/2006 4:45:46 AM

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You might want to check out www.informedconsent.co.uk .

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RE: Man spanking/masturbating other men - 1/11/2006 5:00:58 AM

MysticalPhoenix

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ORIGINAL: loopyjohnny

Since I realised that I wanted to spank etc. Other ideas have come to my head. I feel no sexual , attraction for men as men. They do not attract me in the same way as women I do not want to kiss and cuddle them. However, I am now fascinated by an erect penis. Basically, I want to touch and fondle.

It has been suggested that transvestites may be more appropriate than gay men. What do others hink?

My former sub was a cross dresser, and as such, heard from a great many straight men who were interested in a "girl with something extra", so that they could touch and fondle (and suck) on an erect penis.

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Does this make be gay?

No, a desire for a little same sex activity does not automatically make you gay. In fact, the people that my sub heard from, met, was picked up by, etc., because they wanted that "something extra" under her skirts, almost universally identified themselves as straight, not gay, bi, or bi-curious. Straight.

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I can't just go up to a mate or stranger and say all this can I?

Probably not a good idea, unless that mate or stranger is hanging out in a known cruising spot and looking to be touched and fondled only.

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RE: Man spanking/masturbating other men - 1/11/2006 6:04:31 AM

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has been suggested that transvestites may be more appropriate than gay men. What do others hink?

Being a transvestite has no link to sexual orientation. It will not make you any more or less likely to be any particular orientation.

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Does this make be gay? How do I get to go about fulfilling this fantasy? Where is the best place to go in Liverpool/Southport/Merseyside?

No, it makes you curious about other men. You find other men who are willing and happy with you exploring your curiousity with them. I have no idea where to go in that area.

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I can't just go up to a mate or stranger and say all this can I?

In the good ole gay male haunts...yes :) I envy them.

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RE: Man spanking/masturbating other men - 1/11/2006 4:15:45 PM

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DEAR LOOPY JONY
I HAVE TO SAY I ADMIRE THE MALE ANATOMY, AS WELL, BUT, IN ART AND FROM AFAR
I PREFER WOMIN BUT IT DEPENDS ON YOUR POLITICS I GUESS
IF YOU INSIST ON WOMIN CERTAINLY A POST OP-FEMALE TO MALE ;
HAS AN ERRECT PHALLUS 24/7 ,BUT, I DONT KNOW....
PEOPLE CAN AMAZE YOU ,AT THEIR TOLERENCES ,AND ,DIFFERENCES, IN SEX ;SENSUALITY,AND ,SEXPLAY, SO IN :
S AND M;
I FIND IT HARD TO LABEL SOMEONE WHO'S ADMIRING, BOTH SEXES,ITHER ,OR ANATOMY, AS GAY; STRAIGHT; OR BI ;BUT;
YOU ARE CERTAINLY, NOT VANILLA;
LEATHER IS LEATHER;

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