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male crossdressing - 1/11/2006 6:09:56 AM   
timg


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Status: offline 		hello does anyone have a view on this subject?
i myself was a crossdresser in my first marriage that ended do to my dressing
let me hear from all the men and women.
thanks
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RE: male crossdressing - 1/11/2006 6:54:37 AM   
LindaLashes


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Status: offline 		Hmm. My crossdressing has kept me away from forming any relationships most of the time. Crossdressing is such a big part of who I am, and I tend to bail out first if I sence a rejection to my way of living.
I would never go into a deep relationship or marriage with a woman without her knowing about Linda, and accepting her.

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RE: male crossdressing - 1/11/2006 7:01:31 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I'm not into it, but if I had a partner who was, I'd get into it for them to enjoy, as long as they enjoyed trying to pass or be casual about it. Some crossdressers go in for the "Ooo look I'm a man in a dress and horrible make up" humiliation thing, and I don't like that for men or women :)

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RE: male crossdressing - 1/11/2006 12:53:51 PM   
FTopinMichigan


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LindaLashes

I would never go into a deep relationship or marriage with a woman without her knowing about Linda, and accepting her.


Your a wise person, LindaLashes.

In response to the OP....Crossdressing is a hard limit for me. It's not negotiable for the man I would be in a serious relationship with, but I'm not completely opposed to scening in the club with men I know that enjoy it.

I have no interest in a man that also states he would put aside that part of himself, to pursue a relationship with me. This type of action (or denial as it would be) would not be fair to me OR him! And don't get me started on the man that just thought he'd surprise me...and shows up in his frilly best. Not a good move!

My feelings have always been, if I wanted to be with a woman...I'd BE with a woman.

K

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RE: male crossdressing - 1/11/2006 2:52:36 PM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		I'm not interested in cross dressers, The ocasional girly thing would be kind of fun like getting joeseph to agree to letting me paint his toenails with cl ear sealer polish, or doing facials on him* no not sexual ones legitimate* and getting him more into grooming, but I enjoy having a man for a bf and if I wanted someone who wanted to be or look like a lady then I'd be with a lady. that actually reflects what FT just said.

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RE: male crossdressing - 1/20/2006 1:08:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		I do some Cross Dressing, and the wife is okay with that, as long as I don't go outside the house, with anything more Fem than Leotards and Ballet Slippers or Mary Janes at time. And not them either, when I am with her. I don't dres up all the time, and do go overboard, mostly on Halloween.

She did tell me I MAY wear my French Maids Outfit a couple monthes ago, if I mopped and waxed the floors, so I jumped right to it. But not too hig, I had 4" heeled Mary Janes on at the time. Most of the time is is something subtle, like Thongs, Lace Ankle Socks or a Bra, under my regular clothes. Now when it comes to Ballet, she knows I relaly LOVE that, and can wear anything to do with Ballet, with no other clothes over them...even without working out at my Portable Ballet Barre.

When I did have MADAM, she use to have me wear things to bed or work, but I just do whatever I want now, within reason of course. A few Female Subs I met on Collarme, also helped me out some with Outfits they wanted me to wear, and I obliged them, and took Pictures for them to see too. After all, they were nice enough to hel me out, and we BOTH had FUN doing it.

Planning my Halloween Costurme for 06 already, BalletBob

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RE: male crossdressing - 1/20/2006 1:16:22 PM   
windy135


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Status: offline 		hmm cross dressing.. I've never really thought deeply about it. I can't say im completely opposed to dating someone who cross dresses. I'm pretty openminded. I have a lot of gay male friends that enjoy dressing up on halloween and I think many will end up doing it more often. But I guess that is more of a Drag Queen thing. Which I guess is just like cross dressing except they are gay.... haha I'm rambling. I say do what makes you happy! Crossdressing never hurt anybody

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RE: male crossdressing - 1/24/2006 10:45:35 AM   
MstrTiger


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Status: offline 		Most gay men who crossdress do it for fun rather than to explore a part of their sexuality. I have known several slaves into it for humiliation and to degrade their masculinity, I don’t find it even remotely erotic though it can be quite amusing seeing a muscular slave parading around in a pair of panties.

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RE: male crossdressing - 1/24/2006 12:05:33 PM   
NakedOnMyChain


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Status: offline 		It's never really been an issue for me. I have a few very good friends who are crossdressers, so it's never really been an issue. They are who they are, I have a great time with them, they have their lifestyle and I support them. I don't even think about it unless it's brought up. It would be a lot weirder if they weren't crossdressers.

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RE: male crossdressing - 1/24/2006 4:24:05 PM   
veronicaofML


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Status: offline 		i am less...the crossdresser....and more the aspiring sex change-er...




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RE: male crossdressing - 1/24/2006 5:36:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		There's a great discussion going on in ask a submissive/slave including theories as to why some women love it or hate it.
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RE: male crossdressing - 3/26/2006 5:31:42 PM   
lushusboobs


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Status: offline 		There are so many guys who feel isolated in their dressing.  I've met so many crossdressers that just have come to terms with their feelings about it later in life.  Many  are sweet  middle aged virgins who'd love nothing better than to be dressed up and admired by a strapon wearing hot mama.  I find this very exciting, the idea of the 40 year old plus anal virgin who just wants to feel like a pretty girl.
Lushus the Crossdresser Lovin' Lesbian

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RE: male crossdressing - 3/31/2006 2:50:09 AM   
Leigham


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Status: offline 		My girlfriend knows about my crossdressing and she even lets me wear her clothes(Im really skinny so they fit me) which is great. Its makes me realise how lucky I am.  Ive wanted to dress up for most of my teenage life but had no way too, then when I met my girlfriend she became the dominant one and told me to dress up without knowing that it was what I wanted, she enjoys it and I enjoy it so we are a great match.

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RE: male crossdressing - 4/20/2006 2:46:23 PM   
MissZaffy


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Status: offline 		My definitions
Sissy a male who dresses en femme within the BDSM lifestyle
Cross Dresser / Transvestite a male who gets sexual satisfaction from wearing feminine clothing, makeup etc
Transsexual / Transgender a male born with a female brain who adjusts their outer appearance even up to the level of body modification to match their inner female
Tranny/Tgirl I use as an enveloping term for all of the above, which in reality means for clarity one needs a closer definition of that individual.

I have always found a closeness with this community. Previously a genetic female identifying lesbian, do people change?, I certainly have! I still define myself as a lesbian as I am with a beautiful transgender woman. If I want a woman I have a choice!

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RE: male crossdressing - 4/20/2006 3:07:25 PM   
DelightMachine


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Status: offline 		I tried it a bit last weekend at a play party. No makeup or wig, but a silky bright red blouse, taffeta like dress (I'm not sure about that, but it was puffy) and some kind of a dress just over that, hose and shoes with a bit of a rise in the heel.

But no wig or makeup or falsies, and I certainly didn't shave anything I normally don't. I was already wearing red lacey panties that my Mistress decided she likes.

How did I feel about it? Eh. Doesn't do anything for me -- not when I was in the clothes, not afterward when I thought about it. It was something to try out. My Mistress doesn't really like it, but she wanted me to try it out, and I like trying new things out at least once.

They certainly were softer than the clothes I normally wear. If I'd put on a wig and had to act girlish, maybe I'd have felt more humiliated and submissive. 

The clothes were hot when there were a lot of people in the same room together and the temperature started rising. I was happy to take everything off except for my panties. Now, exhibitionism -- THAT'S a turn-on!

For those that like it, why would you say you like it? What do you get out of it? What feelings come up?

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RE: male crossdressing - 4/20/2006 3:08:59 PM   
LexiLuthor


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quote:

ORIGINAL: timg

hello does anyone have a view on this subject?
i myself was a crossdresser in my first marriage that ended do to my dressing
let me hear from all the men and women.
thanks

I defenitely enjoy forced femme. I don't enjoy it so much if it is not forced.It is the illusion, the persona of helplessness.
mmmn..to dress him up as a youngslut or a goth doll is alot of fun, I can create whatever I want him to be.

.lol..he looks better than me sometimes
I keep a mine and "hers" section of my dressingroom. Lingerie, makeup,wigs, outfits, shoes.

L

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RE: male crossdressing - 4/20/2006 3:24:33 PM   
MistressLlyoness


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Status: offline 		I love crossdressers!!  My husband/slave is one and to see him in a pair of men's underwear gives me the willies anymore.  He has frillier panties than I do!  Most crossdressers I have met, and there have been many, are very sure of themselves, sexually.  The crossdressing is just another part of who they are.  Given the choice, I choose something pretty, soft and sexy every time so it does not seem odd that a man would do the same.  It is no different to me for a man to dress in women's clothing than it is for a woman to dress in men's clothing.  Either way, we wear what we like and what makes us feel good.

Ms. Lynette

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RE: male crossdressing - 4/20/2006 7:59:42 PM   
sweetbbwsub31


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Status: offline 		My ex husband was a bit of a crossdresser. i kinda liked it. i would enjoy dressing someone up and doing his make up and all. Also, i am just dying to go to a drag show.

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RE: male crossdressing - 4/22/2006 9:54:42 AM   
MistressDREAD


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quote:

hello does anyone have a view on this subject?

My view is that what ever anyone wants to wear, (OR NOT) is a personal issue that society shouldent have a say in. No one should be
ashamed of what or who they are in their own time. ( Notice I dident say on business time or the time of others who have a say on such issues I feel as well. Its their coin after all.) If the desire to dress gender spacific is wanted, so be it. I make a point when I see any who are obviously dressed not to societies manners to smile or nod or even make comment on what looks good. ( And I gotta tell Ya some Men are damn FIONEEE dressed as woman!) Its all about feeling good about ones self now isent it folks ? By the way for those who are not aware I Own two cross dresser slaves, one male one female who make a damn good income for My home by cross dressing I might add.

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