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thesugarplum -> RE: Desperate to find a Dom (1/28/2009 1:10:44 AM)
Awe you're making me blush. You're very beautiful yourself. I was admiring a photo of your rear a few moments back!

ResidentSadist -> RE: Desperate to find a Dom (1/28/2009 2:16:08 AM)
Yeah… your pool is gonna’ be a lot smaller than most. 1. “Sometimes I come out to play” sounds like you won’t be available when he needs you but only when you need him or can get away from your marriage. Not a lot of “Doms on call”. 2. You are married but never mention that your hubby is aware or OK with what you are doing. Many Doms are allergic to lead fired from jealous husband’s guns when they catch their wife cheating. You might want to clear that up. 3. Submitting “gets you off” and you are not “here for purely sexual desires”. That seems to rule out leather swingers seeking part time sexual submission. You are a cutie and as mentioned, local munches might be productive grounds.

thornhappy -> RE: Desperate to find a Dom (1/28/2009 3:34:21 AM)
I steered far and wide of married men, and I'd just run away faster from someone who doesn't say right up front that they have an open marriage. The OCD tendencies and the "testing for dominance" may also be a problem... thornhappy

Dnomyar -> RE: Desperate to find a Dom (1/28/2009 3:39:39 AM)
Chia arent you supposed to turn them upside down anyway??

DarkSteven -> RE: Desperate to find a Dom (1/28/2009 5:23:05 AM)
What Resident Sadist said, plus... 1. "Yes, I am married. I am married to a wonderful, lovely, honest man who cherishes me, and who I dearly cherish. We live very different lives, very far apart, and circumstantially, find ourselves in an interesting situation. I am open to sharing more about our predicament if you are polite." Just saying "I'm in a completely open marriage, and there are no jealousy issues" is much more concise. Also, your description implies a lot of drama, and the "if you are polite" sounds a little toppy to me. As does the "Do not message me with rubbish" sentence at the end which will not deter the wankers. 2. The only qualifiers I see is that discipline is important to you, and it cannot be a purely sexual thing. But I don't see whether you are seeking local only, what age limits you have, etc. Are you looking for something long term or not? Are you willing to move in with someone? Since you're essentially a single mother who's OCD and keeps in touch with your husband, how much time do you have available?

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