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What do you think about dominant sex? - 1/27/2009 10:52:29 PM

atUrMercy

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Greetings Mistresses,
I just wanted to ask whether you like the idea of sexually dominating your partner, doing things like pushing him against the wall suddenly and wanting to have sex with him, pushing him to the bed and mounting him, not listening to any of his pleas and having your way with him sexually. I personally find all these things a great turn on and I think such dominance is practicable by a wider variety of people, even vanilla couples.

Mistresses please share what do you think about it, whether you like it, dislike it or don't care.

Thank you.

A submissive.

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RE: What do you think about dominant sex? - 1/27/2009 11:26:57 PM

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Thanks.

Mistress just slammed my head into the wall, then mounted it over the bed.

I'm sooooo turned on.

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RE: What do you think about dominant sex? - 1/28/2009 12:21:09 AM

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I have always had enjoyment for this behavior. I do not consider this kinky and I have some friends show this behavior and these friends are not kinky. (they say but maybe they really are)

I have fantasy and in my fantasy I am super strong and I throw my boyfriend around the same as I threw little man dolls around when I was young. I wish I could beat my boyfriends with my fist then tie them and then ----(you understand the rest of thought).

Only a dream. Most men are too big to throw across the room and the little men cry when I punch them. Okay, I admit I only punch one man in my whole life who cry. We were both 15. I grab his hair and punched him and knocked him down and I wanted to do more but the teacher stopped me.

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RE: What do you think about dominant sex? - 1/28/2009 1:38:35 AM

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I love it! :)

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RE: What do you think about dominant sex? - 1/28/2009 2:57:38 AM

LadyMedusa

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quote:

ORIGINAL: atUrMercy

Greetings Mistresses,
I just wanted to ask whether you like the idea of sexually dominating your partner, doing things like pushing him against the wall suddenly and wanting to have sex with him, pushing him to the bed and mounting him, not listening to any of his pleas and having your way with him sexually. I personally find all these things a great turn on and I think such dominance is practicable by a wider variety of people, even vanilla couples.

Mistresses please share what do you think about it, whether you like it, dislike it or don't care.

Thank you.

A submissive.

Hmmmm, I try to keep sex as the last thing on My mind when with My girl (kelaine), I find most will not exactly protest at getting sex from a Mistress, so why do you seem so interested on Our feelings on it? Do you just want some Woman to take you that way, or are you willing to take all that comes with it?! We are not there for a romp in the sheets you know ...

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RE: What do you think about dominant sex? - 1/28/2009 4:15:28 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: atUrMercy

Greetings Mistresses,
I just wanted to ask whether you like the idea of sexually dominating your partner, doing things like pushing him against the wall suddenly and wanting to have sex with him

Oh yeah babaaaay. Wall slamming is HOT! I LURVE grabbing my man, and playing 3D human ping pong, and watching him bounce off of the living room walls. Just slam 'em, into the wall, and watch 'em rebound off of the opposite wall, then the roof, and then floor, and so on. The self perpetuating motion means he never runs out of steam – hours of entertainment it is.

I often hear his faint, muffled pleas to get laid as he is bouncing around. I fail to pay attention, and continue munching on my popcorn.

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RE: What do you think about dominant sex? - 1/28/2009 5:04:27 AM

chezzy71

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am i wrong or does this sound like the OP already has in mind what a Domina should do??

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RE: What do you think about dominant sex? - 1/28/2009 5:14:46 AM

MistressAinCT

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Is it really Dominance or sexual aggressiveness? I tend to think of Dominance as adding a little "kink" to the mix like a spanking, cropping, bondage, etc. I think of aggressiveness as the thing we see in the movies where someone rips the clothing off someone else (providing it isn't rape), throws them down on a bed, kitchen table (which could be kink,lol) or floor and they screw the crap out of each other.

Could be a semantics, I don't know. But this is just MHO.

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RE: What do you think about dominant sex? - 1/28/2009 5:39:52 AM

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I thought that WAS vanilla sex???

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RE: What do you think about dominant sex? - 1/28/2009 6:41:06 AM

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I'm sexually aggressive as others have said about some of the time we have sex. Other times sex happens because of me saying "Get ready, you're pleasing me up in my bedroom in 10 minutes, boy." Other times sex is a slow romantic build up.

The first, like the example in the OP, seems more like a reaction to something between me and my partner. Often a response to not having sex for a while or after one of us has been away for a few days. It's a feeling of "I want it now" and it won't be denied, it feels very primal to me.

Now all of these in my owner-slave dynamic are by the definition of our relationship examples of Ds you might say. In fact, within them all I'm the one who is active though Fox or Tom can be seductive too subtly encouraging me to initiate sex.

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RE: What do you think about dominant sex? - 1/28/2009 6:46:54 AM

Lashra

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Yes I do these things all the time to my male sub. Our first time together he got himself shoved up against a wall and his shirt torn off. He was very pleasantly surprised I must say. So yes some of us Ladies roll this way, on the rough side.

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RE: What do you think about dominant sex? - 1/28/2009 6:53:41 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyLou

Oh yeah babaaaay. Wall slamming is HOT! I LURVE grabbing my man, and playing 3D human ping pong, and watching him bounce off of the living room walls. Just slam 'em, into the wall, and watch 'em rebound off of the opposite wall, then the roof, and then floor, and so on. The self perpetuating motion means he never runs out of steam – hours of entertainment it is.

I often hear his faint, muffled pleas to get laid as he is bouncing around. I fail to pay attention, and continue munching on my popcorn.

Bravo!!! :> I've read thousands of posts on here and have made over a thousand myself and this is one of the funniest posts I have had the pleasure of reading on CM; thank you, I laughed so much it brought tears to my eyes! :>
Davan

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RE: What do you think about dominant sex? - 1/28/2009 7:46:26 AM

LadyHibiscus

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I like to have sex with dominants.

Did I get the question wrong? I pretty much stopped paying attention to a lot of these threads..

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RE: What do you think about dominant sex? - 1/28/2009 7:51:56 AM

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Watching a person bounce off of walls and furniture is quite entertaining. As long as they are not knocking my favourite artwork off the walls while they bounce.

I have found that too many martinis are quite condusive the the "human pinball" game. Unfortunately they tend to end up curled up half naked, in the fetal position, on the bathroom floor, moaning. I have photos, and yes they are valuable.

As far as sex, I've had a few........growl, grab the girl by her hair, rip her clothes off and take advantage of her........moments.

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RE: What do you think about dominant sex? - 1/28/2009 7:58:20 AM

hardbodysub

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quote:

ORIGINAL: chezzy71

am i wrong or does this sound like the OP already has in mind what a Domina should do??

He said what he likes, and asked dominant women if the like it, dislike it, or don't care. There's no "should" stated or implied.

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RE: What do you think about dominant sex? - 1/28/2009 8:00:24 AM

Madame4a

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I like to have sex with dominants like that described above.. *grin* but then again, I like sex with everyone...

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I like to have sex with dominants.

Did I get the question wrong? I pretty much stopped paying attention to a lot of these threads..

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RE: What do you think about dominant sex? - 1/28/2009 8:07:22 AM

LunaVenus

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Yes, I LOVE taking the man I love and fucking him in the ass. But if he has a nice piece and turns me on ..... I love sliding on top of it too YES!!

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RE: What do you think about dominant sex? - 1/28/2009 8:32:18 AM

allthatjaz

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ORIGINAL: LadyMedusa

Hmmmm, I try to keep sex as the last thing on My mind when with My girl (kelaine), I find most will not exactly protest at getting sex from a Mistress, so why do you seem so interested on Our feelings on it? Do you just want some Woman to take you that way, or are you willing to take all that comes with it?! We are not there for a romp in the sheets you know ...

I think its a starting point of what could be a very good discussion. Sex with my partner is very important and never the last thing on my mind.
When I worked as a pro Mistress I never had sex with my clients and when I had my own male sub we never did penatrive sex. With my female sub it was very different and I enjoyed full on dominant sex whenever I desired it.

I love full on hard, ruthless sex with my man... get him all trussed up and fuck his brains out

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RE: What do you think about dominant sex? - 1/28/2009 9:16:17 AM

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ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

I thought that WAS vanilla sex???

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lashra

Yes I do these things all the time to my male sub. Our first time together he got himself shoved up against a wall and his shirt torn off. He was very pleasantly surprised I must say. So yes some of us Ladies roll this way, on the rough side.

~Lashra

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RE: What do you think about dominant sex? - 1/28/2009 10:00:48 AM

hardbodysub

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Wow, I was expecting more of a backlash to the OP, but there seem to be a lot of positive replies from dominant women. Since I'd love this kind of treatment, I'm very pleasantly surprised!

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