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BobSwitch -> new switch male (1/11/2006 11:07:59 AM)
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Well, not new to the scene, but new to these forums.
I'm Bob and wanted to do a formal intro so there is a record of me.
I've been in the lifestyle pretty much all my adult life (with some breaks now and then) and consider myself a switch. I've been involved with various public scenes depending on where I was living, and tend to play casually with friends in the lifestyle, and mostly as bondage bottom. However, I do enjoy topping and I want to explore that more. However the play I enjoy once bondage or confinement has been acheived is on the sensual and psychological side of things. The impact play and other pain aspects are of less interest to me, though I do dabble in it.
I've served a Mistress for a few months, but it turned out we weren't compatible in several major ways, so at this point, I'm not sure if serving a Mistress is something I really want, especially if I wish to top. Mostly I think I would be best in a committed relationship with a woman that has a fair amount of kink, probably with someone who enjoys switching as well. I'm not into the whole leather Domme type. I always find myself more attracted the cute and frilly sub and switch women.
I'm also into crossdressing, but I have no desire live as a female. It's mostly for dress up fun and pictures and something I do on occasion and the outfits I enjoy mirror the type of outfits I enjoy having women wear (full skirts, petticoats, feminine frills, etc). I'm mostly into costumes and roleplay, as opposed to casual female appearance. I enjoy switching in that role as well. I do not need to be forced, though sometimes, having the choice taken from me or being intrstructed what to wear is fun, and it certainly helps my motivation when i have an appreciative partner.
One of my favorite aspects of play is photographing or having it photographed. I do photography has a major hobby and do a lot of self-portraits and have done some photography of some friend's scenes. Of course, my alter ego Becca loves the camera and being photographed. In some ways, I don't consider a scene complete unless some pics are taken, especially if it's something new and special.
Anyway, that's enough for now.
Take care,
Bob
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