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TeeGO -> RE: the lifestyle (1/13/2006 10:53:45 AM)
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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo
Sorry to burst the bubble of everyone who wants to find someone online (that's most of us on here) but your best luck, in my not limited experience is to get involved in a face-to-face community -- munch, workshops, conferences, conventions, clubs. whatever is near you.
Now near you may be an hour or more travel so you have to ask yourself what is all of this worth in terms of gas money and time.
Also I note your listing for posts is "vanilla" -- I'd work on changing that. I, myself, would be far more impressed by someone who posts and tries to be come part of this online community than someone who just hangs out.
If I may also suggest expand your horizons. Think beyond finding "the one" or "the only" or a mistress and finding play partners and buddies to talk to first. The more experience you have and the more knowledge you gain the more attractive you may become to a lot of people.
I'm not a vanilla anymore, THANK GAWD!
As to finding somebody on here. Well I'm not seeking but have a friend who is and by just posting an incredible profile she has been hit with over 500 offers. And some are very interesting to say the least. Lots of pretenders on this site but I can assure you there are many legit "MAJOR LEAGUE" lifestyler types around here as well.
I am quite involved in her search, acting as an assistant (what a surprise.) Make no mistake, finding somebody on here will take work, lots of work.
First you need to find somebody that strikes you as a possibility. Then you have to present yourself. Read and study this individuals profile. If possible check out any posts in the forums (if they participate) Your first E-mail contact should be special, yet real, and not over the top with superfluous crap. Make sure you hit all the points on the number as to any info they have requested. Then explain concisely, without flowery exaggerations, why YOU would be desirable and someone they would want. (I’m always telling my “Ma’am” that it is my goal to have her “think” she would never want to be without me. In my mind I always remind myself that there are millions and millions of other subs out there ready to take my place.)
A picture is worth a thousand words. So many pics on here are anything but flattering, and that frankly shocks me. Do yourself up the best you can. This is the attention grabber. Most of us are not graced with ideal physical qualities, but if you do the BEST with what you have it makes a very good impression. Maybe a secondary pic could be more "fun" in nature, but you need to make a splash in your presentation so make that first pic count.
This friend’s profile is not real long. But the verbiage is impressive and the pics are phenomenal. Go check out the profile “blondbluesub4u” and you’ll see what I mean.
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