TreasureKY -> RE: Master Attire (1/31/2009 7:00:45 AM)
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ORIGINAL: LarabysLair My implication as you probably well understood, is that the Dominant usually has the control and clothing-choice is a common part of that control. For some, it isn't about control. The basis of our M/s relationship is authority. He has it and Alandra and I only have the authority that he has delegated to us. He hates picking out his own clothes, so he has exercised his authority and instructed Alandra and I to pick them out for him. When he is here, his clothes are picked and laid out every morning when he gets in the shower. Yep, we have control over what he wears, but it is his authority that has given us that control and his authority that can take that control away whenever he chooses. I don't see it as flipping roles at all. As the one with the authority he gets to make the decisions that will make his life easier. Part of that is putting Alandra and I in charge of things that he wants us to take care of. I would find it pretty sad if he structured our relationship in a certain fashion because others do it that way and not because he wants it that way. Knight's Kyra This sums it up for mine and Firm's relationship, as well. He has neither the time nor inclination to fool with picking out his clothing, and that task has been delegated to me. *gasp* Among many other things, he has made me his valet.
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