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torturedmuse -> Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) (1/29/2009 8:47:47 PM)
I was just wondering if you ever had a fantasy of being used by man after man for a whole night? I almost have pictured something along the lines of a glory hole. I don't want to see the men, I don't want to know them, I just want to have one after another. I also think of being with my M and another couple, perhaps full swapping among other things. I have this in my head, but I worry that in reality I wouldn't want it at all. Did your fantasy of it at all live up to the reality? Was it better, worse? I am stuck between wanting to experience so many sensations in life, yet being afraid the reality of those things won't be anything like what I have imagined.

Lynnxz -> RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) (1/29/2009 8:49:37 PM)
Nope. I've gone through way too many random little health classes to be ok with random dicks in random holes. All of those pictures... no thanks I'll pass.

torturedmuse -> RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) (1/29/2009 9:02:53 PM)
Lol..well, I know condoms would be a must have. I have never known the free love years, it's always been best to be a "safety girl". Soooooo...since condoms will be used in any of the situations, maybe we can all go from there. [;)]

Lynnxz -> RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) (1/29/2009 9:08:28 PM)
You do know Herpes and Genital Warts are skin to skin contact, right? You can get them even with the protection of a condom, although admittedly the risk is a little less. So.. yep. Although it's a fairly common fantasy, sometimes things are best left like that. A couple swap type of situation, where there is more control over the people involved, and it's easier to get everyone tested... that might be a better way to go. Then again.. hey I'm paranoid.

BalletBob -> RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) (1/29/2009 9:11:36 PM)
More than 1 male? I don't think so. Now maybe doing things to please more than 1 female in a room, I would like to try that, since I do Fantasize a few times about it. I had other fantasizes too, but that has to deal with Female Subs, LMCLAO HA HA HA Still Dreaming while awake, sub BalletBob

MakeMeSmile4U -> RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) (1/29/2009 9:39:34 PM)
That's been one of my biggest fantasies for as long as I can remember... the whole being used by others... many others.. two and three at a time thing. what's always held me back is the the health risk. sigh If only....

torturedmuse -> RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) (1/29/2009 11:11:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MakeMeSmile4U That's been one of my biggest fantasies for as long as I can remember... the whole being used by others... many others.. two and three at a time thing. what's always held me back is the the health risk. sigh If only.... Yep..the health risks are just a part of my list of concerns. I probably have a hep fear as much as the other ones. I know that condoms don't protect against everything, but I am also aware that anytime you have sex with someone you don't know...that risk exists. I suppose it's just how much you want to gamble in order to play. I have never been much of a gambler myself, but I suppose I enjoy the whole idea just a bit too much sometimes. As for the swinging, that is something that exists in my head also as possible, but that might almost be too intimate (I know that won't make sense..lol).

rubberpet -> RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) (1/30/2009 3:06:44 AM)
I have the fantasy of being abducted and used, raped, and gangbanged by domme after domme after domme with Mistress being the ringleader and orchestrator. The thought of being taken away to a unknown location, used, abused, and passed around by a group of dommes is quite a hot idea to me. I've had the pleasure of being triple-dommed during a play session recently and while I wasn't abducted and since there were certain limits imposed by Mistress, it was still a very fun and intense scene. It would definitely be something I'd love to experience again. Sometimes, a fantasy is better off being just that...a fantasy. Other times, it can be even better than the fantasy. As with any scene, take the necessary precautions, make an informed decision based on as many variables as possible, and if you still think it's something you want to do, just do it and enjoy the experience. I'd love to do the abduction scene, but there are many things that have to be factored in for it to work.

thishereboi -> RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) (1/30/2009 5:49:29 AM)
fr They did something like this at Dark Odyssey or Leather Retreat. I don't remember which. They took all the subs and placed them in positions that alllowed access to various holes and then covered them so you could not tell who they were. Then anyone could come in and fuck who ever they wanted. Condoms were required and everyone seemed to have a great time at it.

masterericslave -> RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) (1/30/2009 6:02:28 AM)
Being dominated by more men?...NO...but I absolutely DO fantasize about my Master dominating me alongside other women. Tying us up together, making us do things to each other...OMG! THAT is MY ultimate fantasy! Will it ever happen?? Probably not. (how many submissive women would really want to be dominated by someone else's Master??) giggle...but, hey...one can dream, can't she? [:D]

lostgirl83 -> RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) (1/30/2009 7:13:37 AM)
Hmmm I've done group sex. Honestly yes I am worried about diseases but all that were involved were people I knew quite well, safe sex was practiced and I still have a clean bill of health. I agree with being cautious and protecting yourself, but you only live once! Every group experience I've ever had has been enjoyable enough to make it to the list of top 5 things that I love to do. I have always fantasized about being with multiple women. I prefer agressive women in bed. Maybe one or two other dominant women, one sitting on my face and the other ripping me apart with a strap-on... It'll never happen, but a girl can dream :)

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) (1/30/2009 8:05:08 AM)
People usually call it a "gang bang" situation. And trust me, if you do some searching on craigslist, fetlife or other websites, you can find some good opportunities in your area.

allthatjaz -> RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) (1/30/2009 8:13:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi fr They did something like this at Dark Odyssey or Leather Retreat. I don't remember which. They took all the subs and placed them in positions that alllowed access to various holes and then covered them so you could not tell who they were. Then anyone could come in and fuck who ever they wanted. Condoms were required and everyone seemed to have a great time at it. Yeah I know a lot of people are into this and most will play it out safely but lets remember that the odd condom splits. My other concern with this sort of scene would be that the girls covered over would not be able to see if a condom was being used on more than one of them if at all. I have a friend who books a hotel room and a local add in the paper inviting men along. She then sits in the bath while they all wank over her before walking out. She never wants sex but around six months ago she was unconsensually gang raped. a couple of weekends ago in a club, some guys suddenly started to come on to me in a club room even though I was there with my partner. They clearly had too much to drink and they were starting to get aggressive when my partner told them to get away from me. He dragged me away quickly and admitted to me later that he suddenly had this really bad feeling that they were going to do what they wanted to me regardless of him.

masterericslave -> RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) (1/30/2009 8:19:17 AM)
OMG Craigslist!! giggle Yup...that's where I'll be gang bang shopping!!

masterericslave -> RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) (1/30/2009 8:21:00 AM)
OMG lostgirl83 ~ that whole dominant woman sitting on the face and another with a strap-on comment just made me...oh never mind! Damnit...maybe it's time to place an ad on Craigslist after all! [:D]

Lynnxz -> RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) (1/30/2009 10:48:16 AM)
Meh, craigslist isn't all bad... I met my current boyfriend there, accidently more or less. [:D]

oceanwynds -> RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) (1/30/2009 10:54:27 AM)
Way back when I was in my early 20's I was into swinging. It had it's pluses and minuses. Gang rape I experienced in real time as a real rape, and would not ever want to experience that again.

Madame4a -> RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) (1/30/2009 2:45:19 PM)
as a dominant female.. I'll admit that something like this is something daunting to arrange -- particularly when you want to make sure its all very safe for the person on the bottom... fun idea though one caution on Craig's list.. this kind of scenario, or similar.. a couple who offered to perform sex for a single male resulted in murder in my area... makes one think twice about CL http://www.connectionnewspapers.com/article.asp?article=323534&paper=60&cat=104

Madame4a -> RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) (1/30/2009 2:46:32 PM)
I've been invited to similar situations with women only.. a kind of dyke night.. and ultimately, it didn't really go over well...

NCNutCase -> RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) (1/30/2009 4:07:20 PM)
I have had several fantasies that are wonderful to day dream about... but due to my moral perspective I would not be interested in carrying them out... I've also enacted many things that were only fantasies for many years... and greatly value those experiences... Just remember, once you do something, you can't undo it... so think it through and be very honest with yourself and others involved before you take such steps... I'm personally not at all interested in sharing my girl, so I can't relate to your specific fantasy, yet I know many people who are happy to do so under certain limitations, therefore I have no judgement of such things in the lives of others... Best of luck...

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