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RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) - 1/30/2009 4:40:38 PM

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Always fun to dream ! Much harder to live the reality though - with both your health and psyche intact .

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RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) - 1/30/2009 4:45:45 PM

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.but I absolutely DO fantasize about my Master dominating me alongside other women. Tying us up together, making us do things to each other...OMG! THAT is MY ultimate fantasy!

OMG ! This is my Fantasy too !

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RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) - 1/30/2009 9:00:11 PM

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hehe oh yes craigslist....... i may have to give that a shot... hmmmmm how many people want to bet it'll all be men who reply?

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RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) - 1/30/2009 9:04:24 PM

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My only advice is that if you do go through with something like this, make sure that someone you trust is there running the show. You wouldn't want to end up seriously injured ... or HIV-positive.

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I was just wondering if you ever had a fantasy of being used by man after man for a whole night? I almost have pictured something along the lines of a glory hole. I don't want to see the men, I don't want to know them, I just want to have one after another.

I also think of being with my M and another couple, perhaps full swapping among other things.

I have this in my head, but I worry that in reality I wouldn't want it at all.

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RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) - 1/30/2009 11:12:38 PM

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obviously fantasties can't all the time live up to reality....

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RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) - 2/1/2009 7:04:21 AM

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I will freely admit that I have long had this fantasy. For me, it's a hot one. In reality, however, I don't want to spoil the dream by making it a fumbling full-of-fail reality. And we are just terrible at sharing, and don't wish to do so.

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RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) - 2/1/2009 7:50:06 AM

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No,monogamy is very important to me and to me it would go against my beliefs ...I don't let just anybody enter my body.

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RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) - 2/1/2009 8:14:14 AM

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I think this is one of those things that will stay a fantasy.

1. I don't see M ever sharing me with anyone else, he doesn't seem to desire it.

2. I think some things are fine in fantasy, but in reality..well..ya know.

3. I don't see myself wanting sex with anyone other than M..unless it's a woman down the road.

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RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) - 2/1/2009 8:33:21 AM

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Just remember, once you do something, you can't undo it... so think it through and be very honest with yourself and others involved before you take such steps...

I have the fantasies too, but this is great advice. It's how you will feel about yourself the next day and after, that matters.

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RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) - 2/1/2009 8:37:12 AM

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I was just wondering if you ever had a fantasy of being used by man after man for a whole night?

Yes.

I've had this fantasy for years. I have a great imagination and can picture it in my mind from start to finish. Sometimes it's 2 or 3 men taking turns, other times it's 4 or more...one after the other until I'm so tired and worn out that one or two of the guys have to hold me up so another one can use me. The fantasy will always get me going, and I picture it happening in different ways, different locations etc.

WIll I ever turn the fantasy into reality? It's highly doubtful. I got close one time. Had a Man I trusted who was going to be there to make sure things did not get too out of hand. I was excited and afraid at the same time. We carefully chose three men and about a week before we were going to do it I realized the 'fear' I was feeling was not so much about my 'safety of the moment' but rather of STD's, HIV and my state of mind after all was said and done.

I've turned a few fantasies into reality but this one, I think, will have to stay a fantasy.

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RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) - 2/1/2009 8:38:33 AM

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I have had this fantasy also - and realistically - i don't want it to come to fruition. I know that with intercourse two or three times a night, i get up the next day sore - now, multiply that by the number of participants. Not for this little bunny! It is hot though (sigh)

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RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) - 2/1/2009 8:38:40 AM

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My husband and I have recently tried our hand at couple swapping, (us two sub gals sexually servicing the other male dom of the couple) and found it a positive experience for us both. But there was tons of discussion before and afterward, as well as setting the stage in a safe manner. (Meeting the couple beforehand, talking with them, negotiating limits, condems, that sort of thing). To be perfectly honest, I was not only turned on by watching him have another, but proud of him for being able to do it. (Since it's something we've talked about for years but never done)

I don't know if it "lived up" to the fantasy I had, as I was more nervous in the reality of it than I thought I would be! (I hadn't slept with anyone but my husband in 10 years, so I was worried that I wouldn't be a good lay!) But overall, I give it a thumbs up and am eager to do more.

Establishing a relationship with the couple we play with helped ALOT, though. I don't think I could be comfortable having a go with just any old Dom. And having my husband there, watching, was also a huge part of why I believe it went well - not only was it fun for me to know he was getting off, but it helped reassure me that I was safe. Very important.

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RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) - 2/1/2009 9:04:45 AM

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Go for it. I have a glory hole you can use. They are not hard to make. Just be sure to brush afterwords, that's all the prophylactic that you will need.

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RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) - 2/1/2009 9:48:48 AM

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Yeah, I had a bizarre dream about this one night.

I was stuck behind the counter at Burger King.

All these men were lined up out the door.

Each one would work his way to the front.

They would grin and say, "I want it my way."

Then they would reach out and slap me with a ketchup packet.

I woke up quivering and dripping with sweat.

The really weird part came as I was making my bed.

I found a french fry under the pillow.

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RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) - 2/1/2009 12:38:23 PM

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Chia, you soooo fucking funny, but, you, and we, know that. Thanks, you can always be counted on for a

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RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) - 2/2/2009 8:57:37 PM

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I am really looking forward to seeing my girl used by other women, etc...and we both have enough trust on each other to carry this fantasy out. We have played with another couple and it was a very fun time...we def. looking forward to it again. Sometimes we have to make a leap to enjoy those fantasies if done properly with care, time, preparation, and being aware at all times to take care of the submissive - since they are under our care (the care of the Doms that is)

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RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) - 2/3/2009 9:45:32 AM

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It is a very hot fantasy for me to watch my girl taken by man after man or to be the one taken. It is just a fantasy, though. Too much chance of STDs, etc.

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RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) - 2/3/2009 11:32:19 AM

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I know this is a common fantasy but not one particularly on my list. I have a distinct preference for one-on-one situations as intimacy is a high priority for me.
The largest permutation that's ever really appealed to me is 2 males in a dp situation with me. Years back, I was in a poly situation and the person to whom I was not married got over his intimidation of my ex's endowments and his homophobia (Not that the boys would have had anything to do with one another sexually but some males are freaked by the idea of being in close proximity to someone of the same sex) and said he would be willing to make that fantasy happen for me. My ex- refused. :< I think that it could have been immensely profound as these were both people I love(d) and who love(d) me. Not to mention, probably spectacular in terms of sensation. :>
Several years later, a boyfriend attempted to make said scenario happen with a playmate of his. I was having a 'dark night of the soul' (Numerous reasons for that) and marginalized what I actually wanted (Above scenario with people where love was actually involved) 'cause I figured I'd never have what I'd had the opportunity for previously again (Especially since my ex- who was then still my husband flat-out refused to grant me my request for such a scenario ever and I wasn't planning on my marriage ending). It wound up being the singularly most disgusting sexual experience of my life (I hope never to have another/others worse) as my boundaries regarding protection were not respected and the boyfriend, rather than protecting me, over-rode my demands and looked out for his buddy more than for my safety. Thinking on the matter, to this day, still makes my skin crawl.
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RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) - 2/3/2009 12:22:38 PM

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From reading the posts i realize this is a hot fanasty for many. It is not for me though. If i was in a consensual gang bang, i would want to know who i was with, i would not want to be blindfolded. The only man i want anyway is Master.

This would never happen because Master will and does not share me with anyone. He says you are mine i don't want any others having you.

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RE: Being used by more than one (and other fantasies) - 2/4/2009 12:02:34 AM

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Gang bang fantasies are realities for many girls. I for example happen to know of a few groups that specialize in making those fantasies come true. Gangbang groups are not all that uncommon. I might also point out that the "victim" has a choice as to which male or female members of the group participate in her fantasy. Also, every member of the group allowed to participate must have current health records for STDs and such.

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