RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure??

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MissMorrigan -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (2/1/2009 12:25:51 AM)
Yoursmistress, you are so naughty! Be orally cleansed and anally douched and present yourself to my tent [;)] I enjoy scars, they're a huge turn on even the 'ugly' one that runs down the front of one of his legs from an accident. I am also turned on by the ones I have etched on his skin. Would I engage in an activity to deliberately scar his face? Not intentionally, but the end result MAY mean a very small scar. What is important is that Reality and I discussed the above and other kinks at length prior to entering into a relationship, he was and remains very much informed. He trusts my judgement and I have never provided him with a reason not to. The issue for you, Subinchico, isn't the scarring itself, it's continuing to allow another person to devalue you as a human being. Instead of asking us what we think of your dominant scarring you after she'd said she wouldn't, what do YOU think about that? The message you are giving your dominant about the whole scenario is that it's fine to break agreements b/c you're still in a relationship with her hence the comment "my present goddess".

ShaktiSama -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (2/1/2009 1:29:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subinchico Some goddesses tell me why; others say they would never and eventually do anyway, why? Allure? Less than none. My submissive is an incredibly pretty boykin. I would sooner cut off one of my hands than vandalize his face. I don't even like gags if they spoil his lines. That said, I have seen men who had scars on various parts of their bodies, not from play but from rough lives and combat. This has a certain rugged appeal, I s'pose. But I wouldn't want to be the one that caused it. If I was going to decorate a man's body, I would give him tattoos.

subinchico -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (2/3/2009 12:10:44 AM)
You all kick ass,and thank you, I can feel sincerity in your words and it's pricless, apreciated. How great that you all teach me, and I'm not young. I never heard "snarky" before, can't wait to use it. My OP (many cyber posts/text) lacked many words plus facial expressions etc.. When they did it, I loved it, and they knew that,,,, somewhat.The one that said she never would was the first and it happened at least a year after she said that. How sweet some of your responses, I loved all posters and especially if you said you woiuld do it ( & cheers to the statenent ,"does it improve the look"?) and know eroticism vs. pity was on this slaves mind. From me a sincere thank you to all ( snarky; "I like you", I like you too)!! bobby

CatdeMedici -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (2/3/2009 4:22:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subinchico Some goddesses tell me why; others say they would never and eventually do anyway, why? Maybe you didn't tribute Her well enough.

FloridaMistresse -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (2/3/2009 5:02:16 AM)
OK some of the answers were hysterical, like the 666, unexpected and it caused Me to really laugh! Good One!! In answer to your query: Did she intentially mark your face with her shoes, or was it just a case of a heavy scene and the results were face marks? Are the marks lasting or did they fade in a few weeks/ months? I know I Own only slaves, so I can do what I want, period, however, I also know My skills, likes, and kinks have evolved over the years, and what I would not do 10 years ago, I love doing now I think really there needs to be more information on this. ~Are you a slave or a sub? ~was the conversation a casual one about her likes and dislikes, or was it a negotiation? ~Are the marks permenent? ~Do you like them? I mean if you like them it is totally a mixed message. I would also state I have seen this from the other end of the spectrum. I have had play partners, or even slaves that want a certain scene or play and when they get it, it was way more than they wanted or they complained or ..... Example: Had a play partner that bought and wanted a medical suture scene, when she got it, she complained for days about it, then later when I took them out, she complained they were out.............. needless to say, she is dumped LOL FM~

subinchico -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (2/8/2009 3:14:05 AM)
Thanks for your questions FloridaMistresse, You're a godess & In response: The marks were Intentional for all the dommes Out of 15, 3 are permanant both, in happened regardless if I was slave or sub very casual converstaion, most won't consider negotiating their techniques Did I or do I Like them?? Thats a tough one, I guess I was like the one you dumped, fickle, except I love when they told me I had no choice and/or wanted their teritory marked and/or for placing artwork. After they are done, I want them to fade away. quote: ORIGINAL: FloridaMistresse Did she intentially mark your face with her shoes, or was it just a case of a heavy scene and the results were face marks? Are the marks lasting or did they fade in a few weeks/ months? ~Are you a slave or a sub? ~was the conversation a casual one about her likes and dislikes, or was it a negotiation? ~Are the marks permenent? ~Do you like them? I mean if you like them it is totally a mixed message. I would also state I have seen this from the other end of the spectrum. I have had play partners, or even slaves that want a certain scene or play and when they get it, it was way more than they wanted or they complained or ..... Example: Had a play partner that bought and wanted a medical suture scene, when she got it, she complained for days about it, then later when I took them out, she complained they were out.............. needless to say, she is dumped LOL FM~

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (2/8/2009 5:23:49 AM)
i never touch my pet's face - off limits. he's in mid-level management and has daily meetings with his boss ...scarring / marking it would only raise unwanted questions.

subinchico -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (4/13/2011 11:32:22 PM)
I'm terrified of it happining. When it does, I often orgasm instantly. If permenent,,,, my brain goes back and forth with feelings that " I like them or don't like them". I confuse my own self just thinking about it. bb

SexyBossyBBW -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (4/13/2011 11:52:40 PM)
Having been in love, married, divorced; with the perfect sub, than not; with a slave, than not... I would NEVER mark a subs face permanently. Let me qualify that: I would never mark a sub's face, unless we'd been together more than 10years, and we're both committed, and madly in love with one another. I would suggest, that any sub/slave, in a relationship that is less than 5 years long, feeling as committed as he did at the beginning, should forego/refuse PERMANENT facial marking. Temporary facial marking is kool. M

GreedyTop -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (4/13/2011 11:59:19 PM)
personally, I wouldnt do any perm facial marking.. because who the hell knows what the future holds? Same reason I would never get a partners name tattooed.. speaking of tats: with the exception of teh one on my earlobe, ALL of mine can be covered by businesswear.. Not to mention the job aspect, as mentioned previously. I am lucky.. I can wear my nostril jewelry because I work for folks whose culture accepts it. The tat on the earlobe is mostly unnoticed. Much as I would LIKE to have an eyebrow piercing, I wont, because I have to be aware of how it might/could/would affect my career.

subinchico -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (4/14/2011 12:39:30 AM)
Got it, a face with many scars can/will influence career opportunities, but what if you're retired?,, quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyToppersonally, I wouldnt do any perm facial marking.. because who the hell knows what the future holds? Same reason I would never get a partners name tattooed.. speaking of tats: with the exception of teh one on my earlobe, ALL of mine can be covered by businesswear.. Not to mention the job aspect, as mentioned previously. I am lucky.. I can wear my nostril jewelry because I work for folks whose culture accepts it. The tat on the earlobe is mostly unnoticed. Much as I would LIKE to have an eyebrow piercing, I wont, because I have to be aware of how it might/could/would affect my career.

AngelDaRainha -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (4/14/2011 12:49:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subinchico Thank you all and in response the scars are made with very sharp shoes (stilettos) or sharps put in bottom of shoes. I never wanted them but like when it happens and the act binds me more to the mistress. It's weird, I know You said it all right there, you like it! It binds you to them even more! I think the real question you're asking is why some people say "i would never do that" then end up doing it anyways. LoL it would be hard to count the number of times a boy has said "i'd never let anyone put anything in my ass!" Guess what? They did! As the relationship develops, so do interests. Maybe in the beginning they didn't think they would be capable of something like that, but the closer you 2 became, the more her interests changed. Who knows, we are not that person so it's hard for us to tell you "why" someone did what they did!

MaxsBoy -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (4/14/2011 1:18:35 AM)
FR If this has been going on for two years, shouldn't your feelings about it be pretty clear by now?

tyrasia -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (4/14/2011 1:24:54 AM)
sweet! they tat earlobes!! May i please see Your earlobe Greedy? (can't believe i am asking to see a fem body part but hey) that is...a captivating thought, dunno why, but tons of different little awesome tiny pics went thru my mind of what to put on my lobes!

GreedyTop -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (4/14/2011 5:23:23 AM)
LOL Tyrasia! I dont have any pics of it (it's really tiny), and even if I did, frankly, you'd probably end up scratching your head and saying WTF?? It's supposed to be a sixteenth note, but the guy that did it was drunker than I was when I had it done way back when (I was 17? 18?). Most folks think its a discoloration from a cheaply plated earring... snerk I was thinking about having it covered with a small flower, then running a small bit of ivy up onto the cartilege...

sunshinemiss -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (4/14/2011 8:13:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subinchico I'm terrified of it happining. When it does, I often orgasm instantly. If permenent,,,, my brain goes back and forth with feelings that " I like them or don't like them". I confuse my own self just thinking about it. bb It took you 2 years to come up with this response? Really? That sure doesn't sound "instantly" to me.

VideoAdminTheta -> RE: Scarring/marking subs face, what’s the allure?? (4/14/2011 8:56:04 AM)
You know what I'm about to say. If the thread is over three months old, please start a new thread on the topic and link back to the older thread if you like. This thread is retired. Scars and all. Thank you

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