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ORIGINAL: LunaVenus

Darling,
I actually agree with your premise in general. Which is why I usually have nothing to do with blacks at all.. 
But  there is always a sexy person that can be an exception....if he behaves himself LOL.

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ORIGINAL: 4u2spoil

I don't think you intended to be offensive, but you're making a lot of assumptions which is why people are taking offense. You assume that because the OP is interested in black guys they'll all come from the inner city. Black person does not equal inner city person.

It's like me pointing to Jeffrey Dahmer or the Columbine teens and saying "watch out for those white guys from the 'burbs. Girls think it's what they see on MTV with pool parties and fun douchebags, but you'll end up in a freezer or shot between the eyes."

Exercising good judgement and common sense doesn't change depending on your racial preference.

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ORIGINAL: UPSG

Had you read and understood my original post - or at least my latter explanations of what I was intending to try and say - you would have grasped that I was partly just offering advise for Little A to be cautious because she seemed to me to not have the cynicism and hardness etched into her face like many people that spend many years in the inner-cities (or at least people that have lots of life experience that builds distrust and even hardness). And I'll point out that I have already acknowledged that I probably have misjudged Little A in that respect.

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II. Race and Joblessness in Milwaukee: A Comparative Perspective, 2002-2005

Despite modest improvements between 2002-2005, the rate of black male joblessness in the Milwaukee region remains near the highest of Northeast-Midwest metropolitan areas, and in 2005 the racial gap in male joblessness was, with the exception of metro Pittsburgh, the widest among "Frostbelt" metropolitan areas.

In 2002, Milwaukee registered the highest working-age black male jobless rate among the 15 "Frostbelt" metropolitan areas against which we benchmarked Milwaukee's performance; in 2005, Milwaukee recorded the second highest black male jobless rate among these regions. The gap in Milwaukee separating white and black rates of male joblessness, which was 27.8 percentage points in 2002, the highest in the Frostbelt in 2002, declined to 23.0 points in 2005, which nevertheless placed Milwaukee second worst among our benchmark regions.

Milwaukee's ranking on these indicators is somewhat better when comparisons are at the city level, but city-to-city comparisons are somewhat misleading, because in metro Milwaukee, unlike elsewhere in the Frostbelt, there has been virtually no suburbanization of the working-age black male population.
Table 2:
Black Male Jobless Rates in Selected Metropolitan Areas: 2002-2005
(percentage of working-age (16-64) black males either
unemployed or out of the labor force)
2002 2005
Baltimore
N/A
Boston
28.3%
Minneapolis
N/A
Baltimore
31.6%
Cincinnati
N/A
Indianapolis
34.4%
Indianapolis
30.8%
Kansas City
34.9%
Pittsburgh
31.9%
Minneapolis
35.9%
Cleveland
32.3%
Cincinnati
36.3%
Boston
36.4%
Philadelphia
39.7%
Detroit
39.0%
St. Louis
40.1%
Kansas City
39.1%
Buffalo
40.4%
Philadelphia
39.7%
Chicago
42.1%
Chicago
41.1%
Detroit
42.7%
St. Louis
42.8%
Cleveland
42.7%
Buffalo
45.7%
Milwaukee
43.1%
Milwaukee
46.5%
Pittsburgh
48.3%
Average
38.7%
Average
39.1%


III. Black Male Joblessness in Milwaukee, 1970-2005: Historical Development and Explanatory Factors

The rise in joblessness among working-age black males in Milwaukee during the past 35 years has been relentless, increasing substantially at each census measurement until reaching a staggering 51.5 percent in 2003 (before improving to 44.1 percent by 2005).

Perhaps even more striking has been the growth in joblessness among prime working-age black males in Milwaukee since 1970. Joblessness among males between the ages of 25-54 is particularly revealing of the state of the local labor market; we're much less likely to see, in this age group, potential workers voluntarily absent from the labor market because of schooling, retirement, or homemaking.

The jobless rate for prime working-age black males was 15.2 percent in 1970, relatively modest by historical standards, albeit double the rate for white city residents and almost quadruple the rate for white suburbanites. However, as has been the case for all working-age black males, joblessness among prime-working age black males has grown ceaselessly in Milwaukee since 1970, peaking at an astonishing 40.8 percent in 2003, before improving to 34.6 percent by 2005.

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ORIGINAL: dociggy523

most white subs who prefer black doms do so because they REALLY love the contrast.  It is a bigger physical turn on than anyone gives it credit.  But just the simple dark vs light color contrast is a HUGE turn on for most of the subs I have talked to.

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ORIGINAL: RealityLicks

Race play and interracial bdsm relationships are not interchangeable

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                                                                                                                                                                                   But I'm from London and mixed relationships, committed or casual, are very common here - totally unremarkable, in fact.  

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ORIGINAL: littleannie

I'm just wondering how common this really is... the concept of being racially dominated, especially by a black male. I've talked to a couple black Doms off this site and a few that were directly into black master/white slave. But I will admit I do not know much about it in general, and am just now trying to turn thought and fantasy into reality.

im just wondering if this is a too far out concept even for this site, which seems weird. I have heard some people say that within d/s there should not be racial boundaries like that. However it is a huge turn on, and I believe I would much more eagerly serve a black master then anybody else.

Anybody have experience with this?
Eager to hear any and all thoughts on this subject.

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ORIGINAL: JustDarkness

What is "funny" about this thread is..that saying "I prefer coloured people" causes as many emotions as saying "i don't prefer coloured people" in other threads.Didn't expect that.

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It is quite acceptable as long as both sides are comfortable with it no matter what anyone here says.

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ORIGINAL: littleannie

I'm just wondering how common this really is... the concept of being racially dominated, especially by a black male. I've talked to a couple black Doms off this site and a few that were directly into black master/white slave. But I will admit I do not know much about it in general, and am just now trying to turn thought and fantasy into reality.

im just wondering if this is a too far out concept even for this site, which seems weird. I have heard some people say that within d/s there should not be racial boundaries like that. However it is a huge turn on, and I believe I would much more eagerly serve a black master then anybody else.

Anybody have experience with this?
Eager to hear any and all thoughts on this subject.

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ORIGINAL: dociggy523

OMG.  I love the fact that this little post from a sub eager to learn and explore something that appeals to her turns into some blown out discussion of racism.  I am a black dom.  I have been a black dom all of my life.  was raised into by my black dom father who took a white sub wife after my mother died.  I grew up in an inner city and now I own my own consulting firm and travel the world doing my work.  I have seen both sides.  I have asked the very question she is asking to MANY subs I have been with.  Its not some deep inner conflict rooted in how or where they were raised.  It isnt an economic boundry line where the sub can feel like she is slumming with a black guy.  The truth that I have learned is two fold. 

First  most white subs who prefer black doms do so because they REALLY love the contrast.  It is a bigger physical turn on than anyone gives it credit.  But just the simple dark vs light color contrast is a HUGE turn on for most of the subs I have talked to.
Second, and this is a bit of a sociological statement, but most black men have a chip on their shoulder.  Honestly its something that most all of us seem to pick up some time in our angry teen years.  In fact most all males of any color get that chip at that time of our lives.  However black men are constantly fed this pc bull.  We constantly have to deal with those people who go out of their way NOT to seem racist so they watch every word they say and yes unfortunatly we also have to deal with some racist bigots out there.  Truth be told there are plenty of black racist bigots against whites too.  But because (even though its getting better) there is still a large part of the everyday public that cant just treat us like normal folk, we get a bit of an attitude.  That attitude tends to lead us to more dominant and aggressive personalities.  And that extra dominance is something that most of the subs I have been with were attracted to. 

The fact that she is into black is nothing more than just that.  what she wants.  Is she more likely to run into pimps and thugs?  YES.  unfortunatly  that is the way a lot of black men go.  But she doesnt want a pimp  she wants an owner.  and from her posts and talking to her she strikes me as smart enough to know the difference between someone who can own her and some dumb punk who wants to pimp her.

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No matter how many times the police find the remains of half-eaten corpses in the basements of middle classed white men, black people are still the scariest people on the planet.

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JustDarkness  
you can calm down again
the last line was enough 
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It is quite acceptable as long as both sides are comfortable with it no matter what anyone here says.