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DelilahDeb -> RE: How to... (2/1/2009 3:52:16 AM)
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ORIGINAL: ExKat
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How to get a mistress to respond to you?
Read her profile. Mistresses get A LOT of mail, so they tend to put sneaky things in thier profile like, "If the first word of your message isn't watermelon, you'll be deleted", or "No doms over 35". If you can't bother to take 30 seconds to read their profile, then they why would they expect that you'll take the time to be a good submissive? Write a unique message to send, even if it's only a few sentences. It's obvious when you're sending out a form letter, and people see right through it.
Last of all, be patient. It's gonna take a while. Good luck.
Thank you for saying so. From the other side of the kneel, I will just comment that while I'm not overwhelmed with mail (being on the "wrong" side of 50, and plump), I think I have had two—count them, TWO and ONLY two—submissives write to me and prove by the content of their missive that they actually read my profile before they set fingers to keyboard. (Hint: you can always quick-scan the profile all the way to the bottom and disqualify or qualify your "target" domina before wasting both of your times.)
Most of the messages I get assume that I want a slave, or a LTR/live-in relationship. Most of the first-contact messages I get focus on sexual interests of the sender, or offer me an instant message contact, or an online web-cam "I'll do anything you say, Mistress."
Communication is not rocket science, but no one teaches basic communjication skills any more. Pretend that there are NO photos online (or even set your browser not to load them) and make believe that you are literate.
Most people over 30 can recall when a single photo in an email clogged up the modem, but text still goes whizzing through on the slowest conections. By their words shall ye know them.
Lady Delialah Deb
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