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RE: What Makes a Good Mistress? - 2/2/2009 9:43:27 AM   
Nikitaa


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Status: offline 		"What makes a good mistress"

Short skirt
Ping pong paddles
handcuffs
ice tray

^This only if not pro.

Pros should obtain their own ice maker.

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RE: What Makes a Good Mistress? - 2/2/2009 10:01:22 AM   
CatdeMedici


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RE: What Makes a Good Mistress? - 2/2/2009 10:07:12 AM   
Nikitaa


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ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

A solid command of who and what She is.


^^^yes. This good too.

Post serious answer under my silly answer and make me look foolish? I do not mind. errrrrrrrrrrrr. lol

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RE: What Makes a Good Mistress? - 2/2/2009 10:23:46 AM   
subtex


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Status: offline 		Nikitaa,
I've never done the ice thing so I don't know if that's good or not. 

I like the signature which I see is in English now.  I guess you got tired of people asking you about it.  Me, I found an online translator.  It seemed funnier popping up in a translator for some reason.

Bill


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RE: What Makes a Good Mistress? - 2/2/2009 10:27:22 AM   
MissEnchanted


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Excellent answer!

Me

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RE: What Makes a Good Mistress? - 2/2/2009 11:05:08 AM   
Nikitaa


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ORIGINAL: subtex

Nikitaa,
I've never done the ice thing so I don't know if that's good or not. 

I like the signature which I see is in English now.  I guess you got tired of people asking you about it.  Me, I found an online translator.  It seemed funnier popping up in a translator for some reason.

Bill






I am going to change it back. I like mystery of the way it was.

Ice is cold, very cold when ice ventures where ice never gone before. Is an exciting way to punish.

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RE: What Makes a Good Mistress? - 2/2/2009 12:10:03 PM   
subtex


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Nikitaa


quote:

ORIGINAL: subtex

Nikitaa,
I've never done the ice thing so I don't know if that's good or not. 

I like the signature which I see is in English now.  I guess you got tired of people asking you about it.  Me, I found an online translator.  It seemed funnier popping up in a translator for some reason.

Bill



I am going to change it back. I like mystery of the way it was.

Ice is cold, very cold when ice ventures where ice never gone before. Is an exciting way to punish.



Another Star Trek reference?  To coldly go where no ice has gone before.

Bill

Does this work?  It took a few tweaks to get it to come back out right.
stawiać na kartę gdzie żadnego lodu nie postawił przed

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RE: What Makes a Good Mistress? - 2/2/2009 1:14:28 PM   
Nikitaa


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Another Star Trek reference?  To coldly go where no ice has gone before.

Bill

Does this work?  It took a few tweaks to get it to come back out right.
stawiać na kartę gdzie żadnego lodu nie postawił przed


LOL, is close enough. I know what you say.

I use to watch Star Trek Next Generation and Voyager on illegal dvd in Poland. I love those shows.

I make edit.
Subtex. I like your profile and I like your humor. If you ever become 20 years younger, and 1500 miles closer, and less nerdy, send message to me.

I like your little man you use as picture too. He looks goofy.

< Message edited by Nikitaa -- 2/2/2009 1:18:51 PM >

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RE: What Makes a Good Mistress? - 2/2/2009 1:46:42 PM   
MistressDolly


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ORIGINAL: secretdreams

Hi Everyone,
I'm new to the site and still fairly new to this lifestyle.  I'm looking to try and find out what makes a good Mistress?
Thanks x
 


A good Mistress is a Woman who knows what she wants, knows how to get it and makes no apology for it. She inspires others and brings out the best in them. She contains the essence of a leader, not a follower. She is accountable, creative, clever, nurturing and strict. She is graceful. She is vibrant and exudes a pleasantness about her that others see and want. She does not need the spotlight; the spotlight needs her, and she knows it. There must be within her knowledge of how to use her beauty to attract and entice. She enjoys dominating men and she knows she deserves to be served.



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RE: What Makes a Good Mistress? - 2/2/2009 2:11:23 PM   
subtex


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Status: offline 		Nikitaa,

Thanks!  I'm working on getting younger but not much chance of me getting less nerdy.  I kind of look like that little man in the picture but a little older and goofier.

Bill


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RE: What Makes a Good Mistress? - 2/3/2009 3:28:15 PM   
rosemary4elius


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RE: What Makes a Good Mistress? - 2/3/2009 3:33:23 PM   
rosemary4elius


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RE: What Makes a Good Mistress? - 2/3/2009 3:34:31 PM   
rosemary4elius


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RE: What Makes a Good Mistress? - 2/3/2009 4:39:47 PM   
chezzy71


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RE: What Makes a Good Mistress? - 2/3/2009 4:48:07 PM   
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RE: What Makes a Good Mistress? - 2/3/2009 6:43:14 PM   
SthrnCom4t


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Status: offline 		A good Mistress will have interest in her craft. :) Are you seeking a list of characteristics, a specific skill set, books, videos or other resources?

Are you looking to be a Mistress, or are you seeking to find a Mistress?

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RE: What Makes a Good Mistress? - 2/3/2009 8:06:43 PM   
KinkyJody


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Nikitaa

"What makes a good mistress"

Short skirt
Ping pong paddles
handcuffs
ice tray

^This only if not pro.

Pros should obtain their own ice maker.


How come you didn't tell them about the strap-on? *wink wink*



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RE: What Makes a Good Mistress? - 2/5/2009 1:01:09 PM   
malloves69


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Status: offline 		strapon ? perk  please make it a big one size does matter  and yes women wearing them look sexy as hell as far as im concerned  assuming the position anyways she wants me ....have fun mal ....oh yesterday was the doggy position

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RE: What Makes a Good Mistress? - 2/6/2009 7:57:21 PM   
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RE: What Makes a Good Mistress? - 2/8/2009 5:34:07 PM   
LovingMistress45


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Status: offline 		I am not sure if the question is asking about being or finding a Mistress. But perhaps the answer is similar for either question - on being a Mistress the simplist answer is "to thy ownself be true" know who you are, what you want and don't allow anyone else to define how you express your dominance.  Learn about what interests you, take time to practice, don't lie about your experience, and don't be afraid to ask someone to teach you.

On finding a Mistress - again "to thy ownself be true" know who you are, what you need and don't lie or pretend to be anything else. Find out about who the Mistress is not just in the BDSM context but as a person. There should be a connection - what that connection is different for different people.

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