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Facny collars - 2/1/2009 3:57:15 PM

Lovemetomorrow

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Would anyone be able to point in the right direction here?

I am looking for a leather collar that has a 'D' ring or an 'O' ring. I would like one that is... eloquent and could be worn at a professional work place?

Does anyone have any suggestions? Or pictures that might help?

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RE: Facny collars - 2/1/2009 4:04:31 PM

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Stockroom.com has some good stuff and a good search will probably get you a ton of results.

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RE: Facny collars - 2/1/2009 4:16:46 PM

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Maybe we define "professional" differently? I worked in professional offices for a whole bunch of years and I know that there isn't a leather D ring collar made that would have been allowed or acceptable. Now in an office where "business casual" is acceptable you may be able to get away with something along those lines...but even then it's iffy.

As an employer, my own personal opinion is that I would not allow my employees who must present a professional appearance to wear one. There are lots of alternatives and work is not the place to flaunt the fact that you're kinky. I don't know...maybe if we were in San Francisco or something...but not here in the middle of the conservative midwest.

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RE: Facny collars - 2/1/2009 4:20:38 PM

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Leather, a D or O ring AND low key enough to be worn to work? You are asking a lot. You might not find what you want short of having one custom made. You are not going to be able to find something with a useable ring that will still be lowkey enough for a workplace. Not unless you take to wearing turtlenecks over it all the time. Leather doesnt make for a good permanent collar because of other reasons, but it is too nonstandard a look to slip under the radar. You might want to consider something more metallic... or you might need to contact an artisan and work with them to custom design something.

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RE: Facny collars - 2/1/2009 4:20:54 PM

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Please use the search feature. You'll find scads of good information here on these boards, from the bazillion other times this question has been asked by others who have also not bothered to use the search feature.

I recommend an either an eternity collar, or one made by Vad Farkas. He's VadFarkus here, or you can google him to get to his site. My slaveboy and I are very pleased with his work and he'll get it to you ASAP, at a good price.

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Edited to add: Oh. You want something leather, with D or O ring and yet low-key enough to wear to work. Good luck with that. The ones I recommended are metal, but you can get away with them in vanilla settings.

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RE: Facny collars - 2/1/2009 4:24:45 PM

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I agree the fancy leather collar with the D ring may not be appropriate for the high powered professional. But there are other things that can pass as a collar and a necklace. A Dom up in Michigan here on Collarme named MasterStAndrew makes some beautiful metal collars. My own collar is a metal chain that is fastened on a link leaving a trailing end like a little leash. It's best seen in my new years photo.

But the most important collar is one i wear on the inside.

best of luck to you

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RE: Facny collars - 2/1/2009 5:22:05 PM

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I have always made mine...

With a little patience and a few leather tools is not that hard...

If there is a cobbler shop in your area thats the first place I would go to have the leather sewn together...the rest can be done by hand...

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