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SassySarijane -> RE: When You Hear the Word Fantasy (2/3/2009 6:25:09 AM)
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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz
Hi sassy
I talk openly with S about the things I think up in this kinky little head of mine. My fantasies are not my secrets and I happen to think this is an important part of sharing within a relationship
Hi [:)].
I have to agree that they are an important part, especially the sexual/sensual ones. If you can't share those fantasies with your partner, it could easily be a sign that you're in the wrong relationship for you. I wouldn't share such fantasies right off, but as the people get to know each other, they should start opening up and see how the other reacts and discuss it. If your partner can't handle or is disgusted by some of your fantasies then it's another sign that that isn't the right relationship for you. Secrets can really ruin a relationship. They tend not to stay secrets permanently and cause so much pain and anguish when revealed. They can also lead to things being done that hurt the other in the relationship.
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