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verbal control - 2/2/2009 3:43:59 AM   
oralslave4mstrs


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Status: offline 		Mistress wants me to learn to get hard and soft and cum on her command untouched without any chastity will I be able to learn this is it really possible.
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RE: verbal control - 2/2/2009 4:57:08 AM   
Madame4a


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Status: offline 		personally, I think its a myth.. but there are plenty of people out there who will tell you otherwise... getting hard and soft at a word is probably not so hard.. cumming on command, male or female... well, ultimately, my orgasms are a bit more complicated than that.. maybe most others' are not...



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RE: verbal control - 2/2/2009 6:31:50 AM   
chiaThePet


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RE: verbal control - 2/2/2009 7:33:00 AM   
LunaVenus


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Status: offline 		It  ha ve an OWNED slave that performs such  tasks at my instruction on  web cam every night
He can get hard when i ask in less than 60 seconds without touching himself
He can go from hard to soft if I ask in the same time period
He also ejaculates on my count down right after I say ONE
within 1 second
HE IS HIGHLY SEXUAL! and that is the first key
He is turned on 1000% by the very sound of my voice and gives into me totally
Thus, giving himself over to me subconsciously and consciously TOTALLY is key number 2
Going into internal sub space is key 3
Ritualistic PRACTICE is key number 3

I studied these arts for over a decade and teach my pupils.
So it is NOT a MYTH.  Perhaps I will have him to make a recording and post it if you don't believe it.
He will do whatever I tell him because I am his QUEEN


You can not however perfect this in a month. He has been working at it for  9 years


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RE: verbal control - 2/2/2009 8:24:24 AM   
thetammyjo


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ORIGINAL: oralslave4mstrs

Mistress wants me to learn to get hard and soft and cum on her command untouched without any chastity will I be able to learn this is it really possible.


You both need to know that this will be a joint effort not you learning to do it. She will need to work just as much as you to help you transfer your current arousal triggers into her commands. Chastity isn't the issue so much as limiting what you do to the desired triggers.

It will take a long time to make these changes so if the two of you aren't in this for the long haul you don't have a chance.

Realistic expectations plus the willingness and ability to do the work is what makes all types of relationships and behavior modifications possible. Desire and fantasies mean nothing if you aren't both willing to do that work.

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RE: verbal control - 2/2/2009 8:26:49 AM   
MsDDom


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ORIGINAL: oralslave4mstrs

Mistress wants me to learn to get hard and soft and cum on her command untouched without any chastity will I be able to learn this is it really possible.

yes it is possible...
the tough part is getting soft...voice inflection and mental connection is key.



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RE: verbal control - 2/2/2009 2:04:19 PM   
slavekal


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Status: offline 		If your Mistress wants to elicit that response, it is up to HER to condition you that way.  Training you is her job, not yours.

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RE: verbal control - 2/2/2009 2:09:14 PM   
CatdeMedici


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RE: verbal control - 2/2/2009 2:21:41 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I think it is possible for SOME.  I also think that this kind of conditioning is not the best thing for the person on the performing end...  once the relationship with the trainer ends, will he be able to perform freely?  There could be a lot of UNtraining to do.

For most I think it's hooey.  If you really want to learn these kinds of skills/tricks, I would find someone of your gender who CAN perform and get them to tell you their techniques.  Yogis and such folk can exert tremendous control over their bodies, I am sure there is tantra for doing this kind of thing too.  But that is an INTERNAL control, that you would allow to be triggered by the trainer.

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RE: verbal control - 2/2/2009 2:35:41 PM   
Scotty306134


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Status: offline 		I believe getting hard or soft and cumming on command could be accomplished by having a Hypnotheripist instill trigger commands in post hypnotic suggestions. I've attended a few classes on the subject and witnessed it happening to some in the class. It was amazing! Scotty

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