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Demspotis -> RE: A silly question probably... (2/4/2009 10:11:33 AM)
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There's nothing un-submissive about asking for something. Ordering, telling, insisting... those would be dominant. If you are really worried about seeming dominant, you could beg for the chance to do what you describe. Either way, if he agrees with it, I'd advise then asking him if there are any particular things that you must not do while exploring. I'm sure you can imagine certain things that some doms would never permit to be done to them, while others might not mind.
As for body exploration itself, whether it is dominant or submissive depends on who is doing it and how. Even a subtle difference in mood or intention can make a huge difference in how it feels; psychological factors are huge in their effects.
However, there's not very much chance (possible, though) of being able to do your exploration without him wanting to be satisfied at least after, if not during. You could always continue your exploration after a little satisfaction break. On the other hand, if you ask, even if he does want satisfaction, perhaps he might allow you to complete your explorations first. For one thing, many people enjoy a sense of anticipation and build up. And the whole exploration would make a nice extended foreplay. In fact, I'd suspect it's not uncommon among vanilla-types for both people to explore each other's bodies... without it being either dominant or submissive, poor things.
Best wishes,
~Demspotis
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