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RE: A silly question probably... - 2/3/2009 7:43:25 PM

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OMG, Master did this to me just our last session. HE set a timer and i had until the timer went off to do ANY thing i wanted with out getting in trouble!

And it was the hardest thing i've ever done.

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RE: A silly question probably... - 2/3/2009 11:04:10 PM

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i always have questions about men's bodies. They're so foreign and interesting...nicky you should ask to see the seam on the balls :-D i find that facisinating. No other part of their body has a seam...just right there. ha ha ha.

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RE: A silly question probably... - 2/4/2009 3:29:16 AM

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Would it be weird to ask to explore your Dom's body for 1 night? I've never really had a good look a guys body. I've always wanted to mush around a guys' balls and mess with his dick without him actually expecting me to suck it. I want to see what makes a guy's body tick. But this means I'd be playing a Dominant role, asking him to turn around or spread his legs or be still while rub his lower belly. I've always wanted to nibble on a guys' inner thigh. It just seems so out of character though. A sub telling a Dom what to do. A Dom allowing a sub to press his buttons, stare him up and down, and expose him at his weakest. Doms might not be willing to submit to my probing for one night anyway. I just don't want to look silly for asking for such a thing. Should I just forget about it?

Lol, keeping my dick "happy" is one of the girl's primary functions so, yeah, she needs to know her way around the "neighbourhood"....

But there are (5) specific "rules of engagement" she also has to be aware of when touching. For eg, No touching in public and No touching in a disrespectful manner.... As for sucking, well I never allow her to use mouth and hands at the same time, anyway, so I usually have them tied off round back when I'm in the mood to work her mouth. Which makes for the most obvious of the 5 rules - No touching when she physically can't, anyway.... lol

Mostly when it's just us (and it's within all the rules), the girl may touch, explore etc at her leisure....

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RE: A silly question probably... - 2/4/2009 5:39:52 AM

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i've asked for this as a way of exploring my lady, her reactions, and her likes. She thought it was a wonderful idea, although, you know, it did end in the happy happy for us. ~blushing~ It involves some very concentrated attention on your Dom too, so i don't really see how that would be excessively dominant behavior. It's an extension to your training for which you're making a special request.

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RE: A silly question probably... - 2/4/2009 6:17:46 AM

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No,I would not do that and I doubt any Dominant I would be with would ever accept that kind of inspection.I have had my body inspected by potentials and that is fine...I am for their use not vice versa.

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RE: A silly question probably... - 2/4/2009 6:23:33 AM

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It's less inspection than it is 'getting to know you' Barbie.

I've never done it with the sole purpose of 'inspection' or what have you, but there have been times of groping and licking everywhere.

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RE: A silly question probably... - 2/4/2009 6:24:19 AM

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... As for sucking, well I never allow her to use mouth and hands at the same time ...

Wow... I can't imagine. Most men I've ever been with greatly desire this from me.

To answer the OP...

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Would it be weird to ask to explore your Dom's body for 1 night?

I don't think it would be weird in the least. I've always advocated that any dominant who wants his submissive to be pleased and be pleasing sexually should teach her about himself. I've recommended many times, "Have a "dom exploration day" where she can learn what pleases you from the top of your head to the toes of your feet."

I would think if you ask him with that approach, you couldn't possibly go wrong. If you're lucky, he'll reciprocate.

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RE: A silly question probably... - 2/4/2009 6:40:14 AM

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I recommend doing so with warmed hands. (Just a suggestion...)

Oh, and asking where you put the batteries? Not a good idea. (Found out the ouchie way)

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RE: A silly question probably... - 2/4/2009 6:42:14 AM

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Not weird at all and not inherently Dominant at all either.
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RE: A silly question probably... - 2/4/2009 9:06:14 AM

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nicky > never feel silly or think a question is silly or asking is stupid ,seeking answers never is .Now i would suggest to you dressing in scrubs or a sexy nurse outfit and making it a nice fun exam , poke prod , get a stethoscope and in general have fun exploring .

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RE: A silly question probably... - 2/4/2009 9:46:56 AM

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I guess I've been lucky. All the guys I have been with either Dom or straight laced have always let me just play with them. I never really thought to ask I usually just start fooling around when we're laying there naked. Helps that I'm not really the shy type I guess.

Funnest thing is to make the lil lips on the "head" sing or give kisses hehe

trailing feather kisses from one end of the body to the other is very very fun.

I wouldn't think of it as a Dominant thing to do. I mean really he can say stop at any time. I find they tend to laff at my antics for a while then then grab me by the hair and take over after that hehehe

by the way, you'd be suprised how far scrotum skin will stretch

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RE: A silly question probably... - 2/4/2009 10:11:33 AM

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There's nothing un-submissive about asking for something. Ordering, telling, insisting... those would be dominant. If you are really worried about seeming dominant, you could beg for the chance to do what you describe. Either way, if he agrees with it, I'd advise then asking him if there are any particular things that you must not do while exploring. I'm sure you can imagine certain things that some doms would never permit to be done to them, while others might not mind.

As for body exploration itself, whether it is dominant or submissive depends on who is doing it and how. Even a subtle difference in mood or intention can make a huge difference in how it feels; psychological factors are huge in their effects.

However, there's not very much chance (possible, though) of being able to do your exploration without him wanting to be satisfied at least after, if not during. You could always continue your exploration after a little satisfaction break. On the other hand, if you ask, even if he does want satisfaction, perhaps he might allow you to complete your explorations first. For one thing, many people enjoy a sense of anticipation and build up. And the whole exploration would make a nice extended foreplay. In fact, I'd suspect it's not uncommon among vanilla-types for both people to explore each other's bodies... without it being either dominant or submissive, poor things.

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RE: A silly question probably... - 2/4/2009 11:20:25 AM

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Well speaking for this Master hands on exploring of each other does bring us closer. Mostly done after training during our pillow talk time. And well yes some times exploring does lead to sex...hard to resist at times!

And my dear slave is quite safe from any punishment as long as she doesnt talk about my ticklish spots! Ooppsss got to go more exploring coming up soon.

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RE: A silly question probably... - 2/4/2009 11:35:28 AM

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Just don't try sticking a finger up my ass.

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RE: A silly question probably... - 2/4/2009 2:45:22 PM

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another approach would be to ask to give him a head to toe shower, drying, powering and massaging and then you wouldn't be anything but serving.

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RE: A silly question probably... - 2/4/2009 2:53:59 PM

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I would love to be licked, explored, and examined by my sub. Just remember though - if it starts out limp and gets hard then you are expected to return it to its original state, regardless of how you choose to accomplish that.

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RE: A silly question probably... - 2/4/2009 6:00:16 PM

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I don't think there would be a guy on God's green earth that would object :)

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RE: A silly question probably... - 2/4/2009 6:46:47 PM

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Yes, touching and exploring has many benefits. First of all the most obvious is that it feels good to be touched and caressed. It also helps you learn your partner better, learn what works and what does not. Find out the exciting spots is a lot of fun.. I get a big thrill when I caress Master and all of a sudden he says: " Hey now" because I know I just found another ticklish spot :) hehehhheehh and no I am not telling anyone where those are :) I value my life too much *snigger*

above all you know you hit the jackpot when a certain touch results to a moan or soft enjoyable sigh.

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RE: A silly question probably... - 2/4/2009 6:49:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: mozartsfuneral

i always have questions about men's bodies. They're so foreign and interesting...nicky you should ask to see the seam on the balls :-D i find that facisinating. No other part of their body has a seam...just right there. ha ha ha.

hehe... balls are funny.

I'm easily entertained... sue me.