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Lovemetomorrow -> Checklist (2/3/2009 3:19:27 PM)

Where can I find a good subbie checklist? A few websites would be great that way I can look them each over.



feydeplume -> RE: Checklist (2/3/2009 3:20:07 PM)

What KIND of subby check list are you looking for?



T1981 -> RE: Checklist (2/3/2009 3:22:22 PM)

http://www.ehbc.ca/resources/checklist.php
http://latches.webslaves.com/checklist.htm

We found checklists and lists in general very helpful when we first started exploring BDSM



Lovemetomorrow -> RE: Checklist (2/3/2009 3:23:28 PM)

An extensive one that lists the things hard limits, soft limits, things I have done, things I would like to do. So on and so forth.



akisha -> RE: Checklist (2/3/2009 3:26:00 PM)

google  bdsm checklist


You'll get about 15 hits. bondage.com had a good one, hell POF has a semi decent one

I have one somewhere on my home computer

alt has one that is about 10 pages long




feydeplume -> RE: Checklist (2/3/2009 3:29:43 PM)

See I was good, I didn't make any of the more obvious jokes and I didn't assume that one style of list or another was what they were after. BTW have fun with them and look up the terms, even if you think you know what it means. You are bound to learn something new!



loveandlight87 -> RE: Checklist (2/3/2009 7:54:50 PM)

I have a rather extensive one in excel that I put together using several (7 or 8 I think) checklists, as well as things that I came across. It's 14 pages.  If you message me on the other side I will see if I can send it that way.



Focus50 -> RE: Checklist (2/4/2009 3:50:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Lovemetomorrow

Where can I find a good subbie checklist? A few websites would be great that way I can look them each over.

Dunno but here's my own checklist of questions I ask myself of a prospective partner:
 
1. Human?
 
2. Female?
 
3. Submissive?
 
4. Location?
 
5. Mutual compatability/chemistry?
 
Tends to fall through a bit on 4 & 5 but anything after is usually just fine tuning (both ways)....
 
Focus. 



Aileen1968 -> RE: Checklist (2/4/2009 5:11:25 AM)

I hate the idea of checklists. The best way, for me, is to just talk, talk and talk some more and then explore to discover what we like to do with each other.



angelikaJ -> RE: Checklist (2/4/2009 5:21:45 AM)

Someone sent me this one:
http://ds-arts.com/academy/BDSM_Checklist_shevah.xls



NCNutCase -> RE: Checklist (2/4/2009 9:44:48 AM)

This is the best one I've ever used... has a thorough list of questions/topics and a wide arrange of possible responses...

http://www.soulshaven.f2s.com/nchk_main.php3

I agree completely that conversation will give you far more detail than any check list ever will. But this list (and others I assume) will allow you each to list interests and compare them to one another. Reviewing the list together in person can do a lot to ensure the conversation covers 'all' points and doesn't let potentially important points go overlooked.

Do not give much credit to the comparison percentages to the site I listed though...



azropedntied -> RE: Checklist (2/4/2009 10:07:49 AM)

I am with Aileen on this one , although on another  site i have an extensive fetish list posted on my page if people wish to refer to that , and it is great for further conversations .



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