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Kissing a girl... - 1/14/2006 3:46:52 AM   
typesgirl


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Status: offline 		Hey fellow subbies! In a recent rather intense scene with my Master i somehow admitted curiousity about kissing another woman. i'm not sorry i admitted it but since it came out i can't help but think about what i'm going to do about it. i don't believe i'm bi, though you never know. i think it's a scenario that i once thought so tabboo, back when i was soooo limited, that now i want to push myself (with Master's gracious help) to experience things i never thought i could before.
My hope is that someone else out there has experienced this (curioiusity) and will be willing to let me know what happened and how you went about figuring out this feeling and how to fulfill it. i apologize for the naivete and vanilla-ness of the question but i'm breaking out of my societal bonds rather slowly and carefully.
thanks so much for being such a great network of support and encouragement!
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RE: Kissing a girl... - 1/14/2006 4:16:10 AM   
Sirandlittle1


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Status: offline 		my first kiss of a woman, i was like, omg, she's so soft, her lips are so soft, she smells lovely, my hair on my arms stood up as if cold, most intrusive and ruminating thought, 'softness'.
Id never realised how scratchy men's faces are really, until id kissed a woman.

And later on, that whole encompassing softness, extended to elsewhere. She felt spongier, softer than the hard male body.

So vastly different, i really dont think you could say its like having sex with the same species. Odd. Blissful, beautiful.

I didnt really feel sexually stimulated by the female, more like it was sensually stimulated.
Until it came time for play, then it was like anything 'new'. It was as hot as!

This experience taught me, that i am sexually defined by the moment, the 'feel' of things. I am not bi, i am not straight, im me. So i dont have any 'issue' with being bi. Because i am not. But i really really am happy, that i have made love to women. It was a gentler side to things. Lovely memories.

I was at a club that was advertised as BDSM/pansexual, but turned out to be predominantly swingers. I had danced for some time, and noticed a D/s couple approach me. He asked if his submissive could kiss me, nothing else, just a kiss. I said yes. She had apparently been taken to the club that night, to achieve the task he'd set, of kissing a female. So i gave her the best snog evah then turned and walked. Lush!
I got a real high from this brief encounter. Maybe you could do something like that to realise your ambition.

little1


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RE: Kissing a girl... - 1/14/2006 4:49:29 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		You need to free yourself and accept where your mind goes to "play".
Here's how I see it....girls are soft, tender, giggly. I view it as little1 does - a gentler side. Different from men. At least there is where my mind goes when I consider the possibilities.
Have your fun. Free yourself. It's only a kiss....

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RE: Kissing a girl... - 1/14/2006 7:08:50 AM   
JohnWarren


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Status: offline 		Libby's comment after her first kiss was "She's so soft and she smells so nice."

I didn't ask for a comparison

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RE: Kissing a girl... - 1/14/2006 10:54:03 AM   
sorriah


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Status: offline 		my first kiss was so soft. but warming. her passion was intense as the moment became heated. He watched us play with content. Afterwards i was relieved, but then questioned am i lesbian now? A woman lets us connect to our inner self. they like to cuddle and be held, Men sometimes rush through the foreplay just to get to the sex. When we want to be emotional, well we just connect lol. Go for it, is my best answer, you will not really have your answers until you have tried it. go slow, and don't worry about what others say, heck its behind closed doors anyway!

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RE: Kissing a girl... - 1/14/2006 12:12:27 PM   
miticantenslaved


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quote:

My hope is that someone else out there has experienced this (curioiusity) and will be willing to let me know what happened and how you went about figuring out this feeling and how to fulfill it.


smiles at you....it was wonderful!

mitis first bisexual experience was upon visiting a fellow slave on her way back from visiting Master. "play" had been discussed between all of U/us and we both had permission to play at will...

kissing her was not the same as kissing Master, but a softer and sweeter kiss. never having had a bisexual experience before, i did let her take the lead and simply let myself go and enjoy and eventually become the aggressor. then again, miti is usually insanely curious about that which she has not experienced.

did i enjoy it, HELL yes. will i do it again? absolutely! i DO hope you will be able to fulfill that fantasy....*smiles*

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RE: Kissing a girl... - 1/14/2006 2:09:32 PM   
lilyophelia


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Status: offline 		It's my preferred experience in sexual terms, so i'm probably a bit biased, but...kissing another girl is a very pretty experience, usually. The most important thing is that you like the person, and that you like being close to them. There are lots of women that i would feel very squeemish about being intimate with, and then there are girls/women that i would just really like to kiss...it just depends! You might have the best experience if you ask your Dominant for permission to be involved in selecting your new kissing partner, if that is where you eventually end up going.

Good luck!
lily

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RE: Kissing a girl... - 1/14/2006 5:20:20 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		One of these days....I too will kiss a girl.....two at a time....O.K. that's what I'm looking for!

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RE: Kissing a girl... - 1/14/2006 6:18:54 PM   
miticantenslaved


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One of these days....I too will kiss a girl.....two at a time....O.K. that's what I'm looking for!


only two? *blinks innocently*

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RE: Kissing a girl... - 1/14/2006 6:25:40 PM   
IrishMist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: miticantenslaved

quote:

One of these days....I too will kiss a girl.....two at a time....O.K. that's what I'm looking for!


only two? *blinks innocently*

Above the hearth was a huge pokerwork sign saying 'Mother'. No tyrant in the whole history of the world had ever achieved a domination so complete. [Wyrd Sisters]

~miti (wanter of a slutpile)


/giggles

/looks innocently at Miti and wiggles her eyebrows suggestively


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RE: Kissing a girl... - 1/14/2006 6:30:44 PM   
miticantenslaved


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/looks innocently at Miti and wiggles her eyebrows suggestively


woooohooooo! ummmm....can two be a slutpile? *leers quite innocently back*

'Yes, bugger all that.' said Nanny. 'Let's curse somebody.'
Even Nanny Ogg gets upset occasionally. [Wyrd Sisters]

~miti (lascivious wink)

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RE: Kissing a girl... - 1/14/2006 6:35:42 PM   
IrishMist


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woooohooooo! ummmm....can two be a slutpile? *leers quite innocently back*


Hmmmmmmmm...well, if it looks like one, and talks like one.......

/nods

absolutly, we can be the slutpile

/moves over and makes room for miti

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RE: Kissing a girl... - 1/14/2006 6:44:56 PM   
miticantenslaved


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quote:

Hmmmmmmmm...well, if it looks like one, and talks like one.......


walks like a slut and *quacks* like a slut? *grins*

i wonder if typesgirl would like to join us....

quote:

/moves over and makes room for miti


miti cannot be on top? *criessss like a slut*

Hour gongs were being struck all across the city and nightswatchmen were proclaiming that it was indeed midnight and also that, in the face of all the evidence, all was well. Many of them got as far as the end of the sentence before being mugged. [Wyrd Sisters]

~miti (okay....bottom works too. after all i am a slut)



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RE: Kissing a girl... - 1/14/2006 8:39:34 PM   
sothernnyte


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my first kiss from a woman was when i was 17...my first real kiss that is, not a chaste friendship one

it put me on my back then and puts me on my knees now.

sincerely
sothernnyte

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RE: Kissing a girl... - 1/14/2006 8:57:20 PM   
IrishMist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: miticantenslaved

quote:

Hmmmmmmmm...well, if it looks like one, and talks like one.......


walks like a slut and *quacks* like a slut? *grins*

i wonder if typesgirl would like to join us....

quote:

/moves over and makes room for miti


miti cannot be on top? *criessss like a slut*

Hour gongs were being struck all across the city and nightswatchmen were proclaiming that it was indeed midnight and also that, in the face of all the evidence, all was well. Many of them got as far as the end of the sentence before being mugged. [Wyrd Sisters]

~miti (okay....bottom works too. after all i am a slut)




sure you can...I was just hoping that some others would join us...but hun, if you want the top...you can have it

/winks


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RE: Kissing a girl... - 1/15/2006 1:17:09 AM   
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My hope is that someone else out there has experienced this (curioiusity) and will be willing to let me know what happened


There is almost nothing better than kissing a woman as far as I am concerned.
I can't recall my first kiss with a girl, too long ago, I remember my first girlfriend though.
I always felt attracted to girls, I owned my feelings at 16 and came out as a lesbian at 17.

Hope you enjoy your journey with openess and honesty, so no one gets hurt.

*Brightspot

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RE: Kissing a girl... - 1/15/2006 6:18:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: fastlane

One of these days....I too will kiss a girl.....two at a time....O.K. that's what I'm looking for!

really...gosh i hope so....lol

your dream will come ture if you keep trying...don't give up!!!!!

you crack me up!!!

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RE: Kissing a girl... - 1/15/2006 6:25:50 AM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		Fastlane looks up and down the board and reads what has been said

Dayum.....I should of spoke up ages ago! Slut pile....OMG.....I've died and gone to Heaven........I think?

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RE: Kissing a girl... - 1/16/2006 5:28:02 AM   
typesgirl


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Status: offline 		Thank you all so much! These responses are way better than I could have ever expected. :)

Master and i are talking a lot about this and i hope something comes of it. If it does, you'll all be the first to know! If only a few of you were closer...i'd take you up on that offer. Hahaha
As is, i don't think i'll be able to fulfill this fantasy until Master and i attend a BDSM club and since there isn't one near us i'm not sure when that is going to happen. Ahhh...a girl can dream though.
typesgirl

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RE: Kissing a girl... - 1/16/2006 6:18:20 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: typesgirl

Thank you all so much! These responses are way better than I could have ever expected. :)

Master and i are talking a lot about this and i hope something comes of it. If it does, you'll all be the first to know! If only a few of you were closer...i'd take you up on that offer. Hahaha
As is, i don't think i'll be able to fulfill this fantasy until Master and i attend a BDSM club and since there isn't one near us i'm not sure when that is going to happen. Ahhh...a girl can dream though.
typesgirl

It will be easier once you meet lots of people offline. But if you really wanted to just find a "kiss girl" for a night, you could do that online. Just be honest and up front with the person that you just want to use them for sexual experimentation.

Women do tend to kiss softer than men...I prefer women who kiss harder and urgently. And non-smokers.

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